How to get boys to fall in love during the ambiguous period of college dating

Method 1: Warm and ambiguous words

Why some girls have not made any progress in their relationship after chatting with each other for several months? It is because your conversation is too ordinary and you are not even a little bit provocative. , Don’t dare to say flirting words, otherwise you can only remain friends. But if the words are too frivolous, it will arouse the other party's disgust. How to be ambiguous just right? Summarized a few tips

1. Forcibly put him into the boyfriend's perspective

For example, you When we go out together, it's cold and the other person takes off his clothes and gives them to you. What do you say at this time? "No, no, no, I'm not cold." "Thank you, I feel much warmer when I wear it" NO, you have to create an ambiguous atmosphere. You have to say something like, "Oh? Isn't this the kind of treatment only girlfriends get?" Then if the other person smiles shyly, you can add, "I'm just kidding, but you just took off your clothes and gave them to my real boyfriend at that moment." "Strong to the max".

2. Make a special request to him

For example, when the other person says good night to you, don’t reply. "Good night, sweet dreams" or something like that. You can try replying like this: "I'm in a bad mood today. Please sing me a song or compliment me before I go to bed." Another example is asking him to call you to wake up. "My alarm doesn't wake me up every time. Can you please do me a favor and call me to wake up at eight o'clock tomorrow? Because I have something very important to get up early for." ".

Then when he calls you, you use that cute bubble voice and say to him, "Uh~ It's already eight o'clock so soon. I'm so sleepy, I really want to do it again." Let's take a nap."

3. Make him feel that you treat him differently

Similar to "I have never done this with others"

For example, "I have never chatted with someone We talked until so late" "I have never talked about this with anyone else"

"You are the first boy to watch a horror movie with me"

4. Deliberately" "Him, hit him

Note that the fight here is not for you to actually fight him, but for you to confront him deliberately and jokingly. For example, you can say "Hey~ your behavior is really straight. Ah, no wonder I've been single for so long, but she's still pretty cute. "

Pay attention and highlight the key points. It is very important to pull back later, otherwise it will become a real attack on him.

5 Say "You are not allowed to do what you want"

For example, when the other party tells you that I am sleepy and want to go to bed, you should not say "Okay, good night"

But say "I am not sleepy yet, so you are not allowed to sleep~" Of course you can't. If you really don't let others sleep, you can finally say "Okay, okay, I won't torture you anymore, I'll go chat with my best friend"

Method 2: Make eye contact

Now. While you're chatting, move your gaze from the other person's nose down to their lips. Touch the lips gently for a second or two, then work your way down to the neck, and if all goes well, continue down.

During the chat, look for the other person's optic nerve, lock the other person with your eyes, and create the ambiguous atmosphere that you are already in love.

Even during the conversation, you don't need to look for topics. Stare at the other person quietly, or choose to sit on his left side near the heart, look at his left eye first, stay for 5 seconds, slightly open your lips, slowly shift your gaze, and stare at his lips for 5 seconds, and then slowly. Slowly look at his right eye for 5 seconds. When he is looking at you, don't look back at him, just stare blankly into the distance and don't speak. Give him enough time to appreciate your profile. . If you are shy, drink a few more drinks. Many boys report, "I like that you keep looking at me. Usually other girls are shy." ""Why do you keep looking at me? Are you in love with me?"

Method 3: Express your concern and appreciation for him

Note, it is just to express concern and appreciation. I’m not asking you to express your feelings. People of the same sex can also appreciate it, and ordinary friends of the opposite sex can also appreciate it.

1. Express your goodwill by proactively sending messages to boys online, such as "Your behavior of taking the initiative to carry our girls' luggage today is really super manly. If only the boys in our class were as gentlemen as you, How happy we should be." "The content of the report you gave today is so good. How did you come up with it? I didn't expect that I have such a treasured male classmate next to me. I have to ask you for advice when I have the opportunity."

2. Take the initiative to strike up a conversation offline and express that you are paying attention to him. "Where did you buy the sweater you are wearing today? It is very sunny and handsome. It has good taste." "Have you just had your hair cut? Or does short hair suit you? , I have become more manly."

3. Take the initiative to do something that makes him misunderstand. For example, the other party accidentally mentioned that he wanted to go to a certain movie, and you went to see it the next day. It would be great if you can go to the movie with the person you like, and then post it on your WeChat Moments, saying, "The other person likes cats, so take a photo with the cat in your arms, and then post it on your WeChat Moments with the caption "It looks like you turned into a kitten"< /p>

But please note here that you should only express your good feelings in moderation. If you don’t continue to express it, it will become like chasing him. Don’t contact him for the next ten days and a half. Give him a feeling that you are just casually having fun. The feeling makes him unable to figure you out.