Boyfriend said that in the future, the down payment for buying a house will be divided into half and the mortgage will be paid together. What do you think of this idea?

I think this idea is ok, but I think the down payment should still be borne by the man, which is your responsibility as a man. If you let your wife suffer with you before marriage, not many women will be willing, and if you let her help you bear some of the pressure after marriage, she will not refuse, because you are already a family.

I'm making my own down payment now, and I'm paying my own foreign debt. I will definitely pay the mortgage after I get married, and I am willing to pay it back. As long as my economy can bear it, even if the rest of the money is paid for my family, or even if it is managed by my daughter-in-law, as long as you can manage it well, it is nothing.

I still want to buy my daughter-in-law a car and some cosmetics to make her feel happy wherever she goes. Wouldn't it be more honorable for you to take her out as a man? So after marriage, we should live wholeheartedly and work hard in one direction. I don't think anyone who returns it is so clear. After all, money is shared!

If they are all married, I will share yours and mine. I think this is too much. There is a true thing around me! Ten years ago, I knew two couples, daughter-in-law A and daughter-in-law B were good friends. Every time I go to the vegetable market, husband and wife A are both civil servants with stable jobs and a lot of income, so I always buy expensive things when I go to the vegetable market.

B husband and wife are ordinary employees, and their wages are still unstable. Because it is not easy to make money, they buy whatever is affordable and cost-effective every time they go shopping! Once, Mr. and Mrs. A went to B's house to play, saying that the food you bought was not finished, but ours was finished. What about b? Knowing that A has good conditions, of course, we must scrimp and save!

However, the difference is that although husband and wife A have good conditions, both of them can make money. They have money and spend their own money, no matter who earns it. They have been renting a house and are still renting it. Although life is ok, it hasn't changed much in the past ten years!

Mr. and Mrs. B know their weaknesses. They joined forces and their profits were cut off. They discuss everything, help each other in life and have a good relationship. They used to rent a house. A few years ago, they bought a house together, but they had no money when they bought it. After buying it, they fought together to pay back the money.

A couple still spend their own money, no matter who they are, their feelings are not strong. One is who spends money on children and who spends money on children. No matter who sleeps, it is still a broken house!

So people, if you are willing to live a good life together, I think it is good to pay back the money after marriage and improve your life together. They are originally their own family, and they are afraid that there will be moths after marriage, and their basic life will be difficult!