Does grandma have the obligation to take care of her grandchildren? This son-in-law's practice is very awesome, no wonder life is very happy.

After having children, if Bao Dad and his work are busy and can't take care of the children themselves, the average family will choose to let the elderly at home come and help. It seems the most reasonable for an old woman to help with her grandchildren. If some families are unwilling for various reasons, there is really no way, and grandmothers will come to help.

Then the question is, does grandma have the obligation to take care of her grandchildren? Let's listen to this story first.

My neighbor Zhang Jie, there is only one child in her family, and this child is also surnamed Zhang Jie. Later, when I talked about this, I realized that when Zhang Jie was just pregnant, her in-laws said that they didn't want to help bring the child after birth, but they would provide financial support. Later, Jason's husband also said that if his parents-in-law are willing to help with the children, he is willing to let the children take their mother's surname, because he knows that it is not easy for the elderly to take care of their children, and parents are not willing to contribute to taking care of their grandchildren, so he will do the job.

So Jason's children took her surname, and the children were always brought up by her grandmother. Jason's husband and in-laws have no complaints about this. Usually, the children's grandparents live their own chic lives and come to see their grandchildren every once in a while. Jason's husband is also very grateful to her mother-in-law for helping with the children. He not only offered to let his children take his wife's surname, but also thanked his mother-in-law on weekdays. He buys gifts for his mother-in-law every once in a while and never complains about her. So the days of their family of several are also very happy.

Does grandma have the obligation to bring grandchildren? On this topic, Jason's husband bluntly said that not only grandma has no obligation, but also the children's grandparents have no obligation, but if the children's parents want the elderly to come and help with the baby, attitude and performance are very important. If the young people are not in the right attitude and think that the old people are not grateful enough to do this and that for their small families, the old people will be chilling sooner or later.

I have to say that when I meet such an enlightened son-in-law, I believe that I should take the initiative to help my daughter-in-law take care of her grandchildren as long as the conditions of my grandmothers permit.

Old people are just helping, it is not their duty to take care of children, and young people should not put their own priorities first.

(2) Old people help children with housework, and young people should be content and grateful.

(3) Let the old man feel her contribution. You see it and you are grateful.

(4) When the old man makes mistakes with his daughter, he should be considerate of the old man, not unreasonable and unforgiving.

⑤ You are willing to compensate the elderly by money or other means.

After all, if old people refuse to help take care of their grandchildren, they may have their own reasons. Either physical reasons or the elderly have other difficulties.

As children of the elderly, young people can take care of themselves in their later years and will not become a burden to their children. It can be said that they helped the children a lot. If they can't help in taking care of the children, the young couple will find their own way, don't embarrass the old man, let alone speak ill of him.

Today's topic: Are your children also taken care of by the elderly at home?