Sister-in-law often quarrels. How should we get along as brothers?

Don't let the quarrel between brothers affect the relationship between brothers, and grow up together in the family where you came from. That's called fighting, brothers going out, father and son going out, accompanying children to grow up all the way. You can't alienate your sister-in-law because of this. I think this is very unworthy. Everything goes well at home, which is a truth.

What's the big deal about fighting between sisters-in-law? Most of it is because of the uneven distribution of property, or because the old people treat it differently, and things between money exchanges. I think these things are vulgar. Maybe someone will say, it's easy for you to stand and talk. If those things happen to you, can you still be so generous? Maybe I won't be so generous, but as brothers, we should cherish this feeling. The world is already very cold. Don't let our feelings continue to fade. When our children grow up, there will be no brothers who compare with each other and quarrel with each other.

Let me tell a story that I witnessed with my own eyes to explain this problem. It happened in my neighbor's house. The old couple are in good condition. After retirement, their salary may be five or six thousand yuan. Both sons are married, and the eldest son is married, which didn't help much. The eldest son is more promising. After going to college, he worked hard outside and saved money to buy a house himself.

The younger son may not get along very well, so when the younger son got married, his parents secretly gave him money to buy a house. When the eldest son's daughter-in-law knew about it, she came to the second son's house to discuss it with them. She felt that her parents had done something wrong and that the money should be shared equally between the two sons. Why do you prefer one of them?

This matter has been at home for a long time. Finally, the eldest daughter-in-law said that you can have a house if you want it, and it is yours to take care of the elderly in the future.

I don't think it's necessary. Fortunately, the two brothers have a good relationship, and it is not because of the quarrel between their sister-in-law. The boss said that I have good conditions and will not follow you. You have a good relationship with your parents at home, and you usually take care of them. It is natural for your parents to buy a house for you.

You see, as long as the feelings between brothers are still there, as long as they can tolerate each other, the quarrel between sisters-in-law is irrelevant at all.