What happened between Lu Cheng and Sven? Why did it develop to this point today?

I was not familiar with Lu Cheng and Sven, until the wonderful performance of Chip Master made me know Lu Cheng and Sven, the "talk show queen", and I was even more moved by their marriage.

Such a couple can make others happy, and they must have a lot of happiness. So when the news of the divorce was confirmed, I was still very disappointed.

I think I can understand why they got married. It is always easy to think of these when husband and wife become brothers. Besides, Sven once described Lu Cheng as a brother sleeping in the upper bunk.

Steven and Lu Cheng Steven and Lu Cheng seem to be a good match, but in fact they are from two different worlds. Sven is very desperate. It takes courage to switch from a state-owned enterprise to a talk show. This career change is a gamble for Si Wen. She won't win or lose.

Therefore, she practices writing every day and keeps climbing under pressure. In Si Wen's values, she should work hard, make money and live a better life.

But Lu Cheng is completely different. He believes in Buddhism very much and doesn't like to make money hard. He changed seven jobs two years after graduation, and none of them lasted long. Whether he does it or not depends on his mood.

Si Wen is fighting for his career. When he got home, he saw Lu Cheng lying on the sofa. Yes, Lu Cheng plays games all day. Si Wen urged Lu Cheng to work and earn money. Lu Cheng is anxious: Why do you always force me to work? !

Later, Si Wen also figured it out. She thinks lovers should respect each other. Since Lu Cheng doesn't want to go to work, she won't. She doesn't have to spend his money anyway.

Si Wen's tone in the interview was very natural and unrestrained, but she didn't really get through this. From a woman's point of view, I understand her feelings too well. Everything is chic, just pretending to be helpless.

Two people together, different values, very tired. Even if Sven and Lu Cheng try their best to understand each other, they will rub against each other again and again in real life.

For women, wanting the sense of security brought by material wealth and men's inaction will only make women accumulate disappointment.

Women's sense of security and lack of progress may not be the most fatal injury to Lu Cheng, but the clumsiness brought by straight men's thinking. In feelings, every woman is eager to be cared for.

In their monologues, I didn't see any considerate behavior of Lu Cheng towards Si Wen. One year, Sven was ill and had an operation. He experienced the death of his loved ones. This is a gloomy day in his life.

Steven wants to own a company in Lu Cheng. But during that time, Lu Cheng was very busy and didn't have a phone call for several months.

Sven had the operation himself. When he was pushed out of the operating room, Lu Cheng only came for 20 minutes and left. At that time, Si Wen's greatest feeling was: "Marriage will not make you no longer lonely." In fact, a person's loneliness is not terrible. The terrible thing is that when you are together, you still feel lonely.

Lu Cheng's treatment of Sven is different from that of her husband's treatment of his wife. He is not distressed or infatuated, but feels that the other party is very powerful. However, no matter how powerful a woman is, she is also eager to be spoiled in her husband's arms.

Sven is not as optimistic as Lu Cheng. She has a lot to worry about, but Lu Cheng's actions will only make Sven more and more disappointed.

Although Si Wen said that he chose to be with Lu Cheng, what he wanted was his company and understanding. In fact, this is just a lie. Steven lied to others and himself. If she didn't care, the wedding vows wouldn't be: "Work harder and earn more money."

Si Wen's life is down-to-earth, and Lu Cheng has artistic flavor. He doesn't want to be bound by daily necessities, and he is still being his silly boy. Maybe all the quarrels and contradictions stem from not loving each other enough, so we don't want to grow up and change.

Falling in love and getting married are two different things. Lu Cheng said, "All decisions to get married are impulsive. Certainly, deliberation is just the feeling of that moment. "

Si Wen also said: "As for getting married, I didn't think too much. At that time, Lu Cheng wanted to get married very much. I think this person is not bad, not bad. Then get married and don't go again. "

Obviously, neither of them is careful enough about marriage. It's like buying something online and returning it if it doesn't work.

Under such a premise, entering marriage is a nightmare. When you have an indifferent attitude, many things don't need to be taken seriously. Just like doing housework, neither of them wants to do it, and both want the other to do it.

Their solution is that Lu Cheng gives Sven money to do it. This way treats the symptoms rather than the root cause. After a long time, it hurts feelings a lot. These trivial things piled up without reasonable planning, causing more and more unhappiness and resentment.

It's really normal for Lu Cheng and Sven to divorce. Husband and wife are husband and wife, how can they get along with their brothers? There should be brotherhood between husband and wife and intimacy between lovers.

Different values, different lifestyles and insufficient understanding of marriage. The problem between two people can't be concealed. If it is not solved in love, it will break out in marriage sooner or later.

Conclusion It's nobody's fault that Lu Cheng divorced Sven. Both sides have problems, but neither side is willing to solve them. Maybe two people are a mistake from the beginning. No matter how much passion and freshness they have, when life and work are intertwined, the contradiction between them becomes more acute. Some people are separated, but it is a kind of perfection.