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On the wedding day, why did the bottom 100,000 in the box become 1,000?

Choose a marriage must be because of love, such a marriage will last longer.

A marriage where both men and women work together for tomorrow and create a better future is the kind of marriage that everyone admires.

Although there are many people who look at material things nowadays, there are still many people who stick to love, such as the girl we are going to talk about today.

Huang Yao (pseudonym) has been dating her boyfriend for more than three years, and their relationship has become very stable. Recently, Huang Yao and her boyfriend discussed getting married.

The first question is the request of Huang Yao's parents. After the two communicated with Huang Yao's parents, they came up with the basic requirements of the parents. As for the bride price of 200,000, there are no other requirements.

Huang Yao has been with her boyfriend for so long, and she also knows what the situation is like in her boyfriend Wu Jun’s (pseudonym) family. He can barely get 100,000 yuan, let alone 200,000 yuan.

In fact, not only Wu Jun’s family is like this, Huang Yao feels that his own family is similar, so the two are going to discuss with Huang Yao’s parents to see if they can reduce it a little.

However, no matter what the two of them said, Huang Yao's parents had already given him 200,000 yuan in gifts, and even a cent less would not be enough. Huang Yao talked too much and was accused by his parents of turning his elbows outward.

The parents said, who around here can marry their daughter for less than 200,000 yuan, but their own daughter is so cheap? It will be looked down upon by people then.

There is no way, Huang Yao and Wu Jun deserve to compromise. Although they agreed to the 200,000 gift from their parents, they also added a request.

In Huang Yao's view, the reason why the parents wanted the 200,000 yuan was because of face issues. In this case, they could satisfy face on the surface and then ask the parents to return the money.

There is a local custom called "pressing the bottom of the box", that is, when a girl gets married, her parents will put some money in their daughter's box as a blessing to her daughter.

Or maybe the daughter was bullied by her husband’s family and when she has no money to spend, she can use the money in the box. In short, it is the parents’ affection for their daughter.

However, it has gradually evolved into the idea that the more money is given to the daughter, the more status the daughter will have after marrying, which has become a way for people to compare themselves.

Huang Yao and Wu Jun discussed with Huang Yao’s parents to borrow all the 200,000 yuan first, and then put 100,000 yuan into the box on the day of the wedding. Wu Jun then used it to pay off the debt, leaving the remaining 100,000 yuan. Even if it’s what the two of them want.

In this way, he can not only satisfy his parents' face, but also not have much debt after marrying Wu Jun. After all, his parents don't want their daughter to be burdened with debt as soon as she gets married.

After hearing what the two said, Huang Yao's parents agreed after some hesitation. After all, they also knew their daughter's temper.

However, what Huang Yao didn't expect was that on the day of her wedding, she opened the box and found that there was only 1,000 yuan in it. Huang Yao poured out everything in the box and found no other money.

This shocked Huang Yao into a cold sweat. She thought she had lost her money, so she hurriedly asked her husband Wu Jun to confirm. Wu Jun said that he locked the house after bringing the things and no one else came in.

Huang Yao found his parents again and asked them if they had seen the 100,000 yuan deposit. Seeing that his parents were hesitant in speaking, Huang Yao felt something was wrong.

As expected, under Huang Yao's questioning, his parents quickly admitted the truth. They indeed only put 1,000 yuan in the box.

Huang Yao continued to ask her parents where the other money went. Seeing that they could no longer hide it, Huang Yao's parents told the truth after some hesitation.

It turns out that not long after getting the money, Huang Yao's sister-in-law approached her second elder and asked her to use the money to pay off the debt, but Huang Yao was not at home at the time.

Huang Yao’s parents did not agree at first, but after all they agreed to give their daughter back 100,000 yuan, so they told their daughter-in-law that they would give them 100,000 yuan to pay off their debt.

However, the daughter-in-law was immediately displeased upon hearing this and accused the two old men of being obsessed with money. When her husband married her, she borrowed more than 100,000 yuan, but now not only has she not paid it back, but she owes more and more.

If the two elders don't come up with the money today, then they might get divorced. Even if they don't get divorced, they won't be able to support the two elders in the future.

With no other choice, Huang Yao's parents had to give all the 200,000 yuan to their daughter-in-law, and then took out 1,000 yuan themselves as their daughter's final payment.

After hearing what her parents said, Huang Yao was so angry that her parents had favored her brother too much over the years. After her brother got married, he even held his family in his hands.

Moreover, I had agreed with my parents that Wu Jun’s family would get 200,000, and most of the 200,000 was borrowed. On the wedding day, my parents would give 100,000 as a deposit to pay back the two of them. account.

However, his parents actually made a private decision to exchange 100,000 for 1,000. In order to marry him, Wu Jun now owes a lot of debt. His parents asked him how to face his husband and how to gain a foothold in his husband's family.

Huang Yao couldn't be happier when she encountered this kind of thing on her special day. Huang Yao directly told her parents that if her parents didn't give her money, she would never return to her parents' home.

Parents must treat their children equally. Favoring one of the children will not only affect the relationship between parents and children, but also create a gap between the children.

Obviously, Huang Yao’s parents favored sons over daughters. After their son got married, they did not urge his son to be independent, but instead allowed his son and daughter-in-law to chew on their old age.

Not only did the son and daughter-in-law not repay the wedding money, but they owed more and more, and finally they even decided to pay the bride price to the second daughter.

When faced with their daughter-in-law’s unreasonable demands, the two old men chose to give in. Whether it was their patriarchal mentality or their daughter-in-law’s words about not providing for old age and getting divorced, these were their weaknesses.

If the daughter-in-law dares to be so unscrupulous, she may have the support of her second son. If the second son indulges his daughter-in-law like this, he will only suffer more in the future.

If you give these 200,000 to your daughter-in-law, not only will your daughter-in-law not feel the slightest sense of gratitude, but she will feel that your elder brother-in-law has given you too little, and you will do everything you can to squeeze more out of your elder brother-in-law than it is worth. This may not be a good thing for your future pension. .

The son and daughter-in-law did not please the daughter, but the daughter was offended. Even if it was an image, "stealing the chicken will not end up losing the rice." Both parties wanted to be good people, but the exception turned out not to be a human being.

Giving all 200,000 to the daughter-in-law, the daughter will definitely not be able to explain it to her husband's family. This is pushing her daughter into the fire pit. Maybe her husband's family will think that the daughter-in-law is colluding with her parents to ask for money. She is really confused. .

As for the daughter's later words about severing ties with her parents, it is understandable. After all, her parents have gone too far, but she still hopes not to go to that point.

Some people say, "The people I love most in this life are my parents, and the people I hate the most are also my parents." The relationship between Huang Yao and her parents vividly demonstrates the depth of love and hatred.

There is such a sentence in "Cai Gen Tan", "Wealth and wealth are more hot and cold, and flesh and blood are more troublesome. In a hot and cold state, wealth is better than poverty and lowliness; in jealousy, flesh and blood are especially cruel to outsiders. If this is not appropriate, If you use cold intestines and calm the qi, you will rarely be troubled by worries."

As the saying goes: "Don't worry about the lack of wealth, but worry about the unevenness."

It's true that parents do this. It chilled his daughter's heart, and as Huang Yao's brother did not stop his wife's rude behavior, he was not much of an brother.

"Elder brother is like father" may be a joke to him!