I want to go on a blind date. Can I wear leather shoes with raised inside?

First: dress clean, that's for sure. Even if you don't dress up, your family and friends will dress you up, otherwise you won't be allowed to go out.

Second: pay attention to small things, because two people are strangers, so every detail will become a factor in examining each other.

Third: try to avoid financial matters, such as the other party thinks you are not fashionable or too stingy. And you don't know what the other party is like, so try to avoid it and try to let the third party pay the bill. Or go to the park together, take a walk, and go to a place where you don't spend money.

Fourth: Don't swear. Pay attention to the bad habit of mantra.

Fifth: Don't be nervous, have a contempt for everything and treat each other as paper tigers. So you stand on high. Have psychologically defeated each other.

Sixth: Don't brag about each other. Cows can brag at any time, but don't brag at this time. Cows that brag to the sky are embarrassed when they fall.

Seventh: be humorous, okay? When a girl meets a humorous boy, she usually smiles and the atmosphere is less tense. Please try to remember a few healthy jokes before dating, not dirty jokes, remember to remember.

Eighth: Pay attention, when laughing, girls should laugh mischievously or gently, that is, smile. Never open your mouth and laugh wildly, because it's easy to spit the liquid in your mouth into each other's face.

Ninth: Most men like gentle, naughty and lovely girls. Most girls like mature, humorous and neat men. Just analyze each other by yourselves.

Tenth: Be careful when you meet a girl who doesn't like to laugh. They are usually blind date experts, so men's fake actions are easy to find. Or the other person is a woman who is deeply hurt by a man. So try to be different. If you like each other, you might as well give a difficult performance. It's hard ... just let it go if you don't want to conquer it ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

"No feeling" is a very useful word, used when refusing.

If you have determined that this person is not the one you are looking for, then end the blind date within 30 to 40 minutes. Go back and call your reference and say that he is nice, but I don't feel anything. Sorry, thank you. The simplest way to refuse.

Sometimes the introducer will advise you: if the first face is ok, just contact it! Our eager parents will say the same thing. You'll be embarrassed. What exactly is the situation to see for the second time?

Generally speaking, be careful:

Feel it first.

People usually don't know what they want, only what they don't want. When you meet a blind date, you need to experience intimacy. People have a biological magnetic field. I can't say clearly about bioelectricity, but it does exist. If you meet this person, you can't feel "close" from the heart. No matter how tempting the external conditions are, it is usually not your true other half. Without that kind of "closeness", it is not what you want. Don't come even if you insist. Looking back on my own experience, some people who have little contact prefer to have this kind of "intimacy" when they meet for the first time. And! Generally speaking, when there are more than 20 blind date objects, almost 1 person will have "closeness". So, you haven't seen much!

Understand the second.

What the man should pay attention to is that girls are the most camouflage animals and can naturally show it. On this occasion, they can't help "acting"-this is not a bad word, which means that she wants you to see what she wants you to know, even though it may not be true. The key is how you can see the real her through acting. Men usually pay attention to appearance, but ignore the most important personality characteristics of women for men.

What women should pay attention to is that they should attach great importance to themselves, not to each other's feelings. Girls who want to get married are most likely to expand their advantages and ignore their shortcomings because of the temptation of the other party. There are many friends around, because they like themselves, they think they like each other, which causes great regret in life.

It's easy to say, just a few minutes. How do you understand it?

General questions I usually ask and questions I ask myself:

1. What does the other party do? Are you busy? What do I think of the nature of his/her job? I like that his (her) work is always busy?

2. What do you like to do? I am interested in his (her) love? Is it possible for two people to do it together?

3. Who is at home? Is he (she) close to his family? How will he or she take care of his or her parents? Does he (she) love his (her) siblings?

4. What kind of person are you looking for? Is there a big gap between what he or she wants and the real me? !

5. What are the advantages and disadvantages? Do I admire his (her) merits? Can I accept shortcomings?

Although the efficiency is too aggressive! Hehe, as long as you master the method, the other party will be willing to answer. The key is to be fair and tell each other about yourself. Here, I don't want to nag about your sincerity and the importance of respecting each other's attitude. I just want to remind you that everyone is looking for the other half!

(Note: If you want to know so much, are you afraid that you have nothing to say? )

Observe the third one.

Excellence is a habit.

Polite. This is the first observation point. Does the man put the woman first when he sits down? Will the other party say "thank you" at an appropriate time? Are both sides moderately reserved?

Think of others. Will I ask your advice before smoking? When your drink is almost finished, would you like some more? Did you take the initiative to see you off when you left? Notice how much you wear when it's cold?

Really. Can you feel the truth? Does he (she) look at you seriously? Pay attention to your conversation? Does he (she) have feelings (something) when he (she) talks about work? When you talk about your family, is there a light of love in your eyes? Do you get excited when you talk about hobbies? Is there a smile on your face when you talk about friends? ……

These observations can help you get to know each other faster.

Think, think again.

Think about it when you get home. Do you get along well? Do you wish to meet again? What attracts you about him or her?

If you definitely want to meet again, and you are a man, call her in a few days. If you are a woman, wait for him to call, or say when the introducer asks, it feels ok.

What should I do if I especially like each other but I am wishful thinking? ! ! My principle is to take the initiative to call 1 time, regardless of gender. If the answer is "later", then clear your mind and arrange the next blind date before you are tempted. At least I know what I like about the opposite sex, don't I?