Will chasing girls be laughed at for life?

No matter men or women, love should not be too self-centered. Love is always a matter for two people. Only when two people have feelings for each other can they meet the most basic conditions of love. Don't take it for granted that you love her and she will love you. Don't think, observe, observe and feel. When you fall in love with someone and you are sure you love her, you can pay for her and observe her reaction. If she loves you, there will definitely be love feedback, otherwise, she doesn't love you. What you should do most is to give up, don't be persistent, and the consequences of stalking will only make the other person less and less love you, and even hate you.

Many people fall in love, become unable to extricate themselves and feel infatuated. In fact, you are not infatuated, but blind. You must be aware of two possibilities of love. When you pursue someone, she may accept you or reject you. You can't just think that she will accept you, or you will feel bad if she refuses you. Moreover, when you pursue a rejected person, you must think clearly about why. Don't dwell on this problem, but think about why. When you know the reason, you will know that there is no need to pursue it.

Some people pursue someone hard, and there is always the frustration of "I love her, but she doesn't love me", but they still pursue blindly. Although they caught up in the end, she still didn't love it. Why is this? It's simple, because she doesn't want to fall in love with you, but you stand up and support her. There are many such people in life who have been chased by a person for a long time and are forced to accept his confession. However, even if this kind of love is obtained, it will not last long.

It is understandable to want to fall in love, but you can't lose your mind because of love. Everyone will meet someone you like, but the real problem is that the person you like may not like you. In layman's terms, love is a matching game. If it can be matched successfully, it is called love, but if it falls into a flower intentionally or unintentionally, it is not called love. So, you still need this rationality. When you meet the situation that "you love her, but she doesn't love you", don't hesitate to give up looking for a new lover and find the right person, instead of wasting time and feelings on the wrong person.