12 communication skills

"Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in June." Speaking is an art as well as a science. People who can talk have fewer stumbling blocks on their way to success, while those who can't talk have built a wall for themselves.

1 emergency, speak slowly in case of emergency. If you can calm down and think, and then make things clear in no hurry, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you.

Small things, said humorously. In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joking way, will not make listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.

If you are not sure, speak cautiously. For those things you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it strictly, people will think you are a trustworthy person.

Don't talk nonsense about what didn't happen. People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, others will think you are mature, educated and conscientious.

Don't talk nonsense. You can't do it. As the saying goes, "Without Jin Gangzuan, don't make porcelain". If you don't easily promise what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a person who "keeps his word" and is willing to believe you.

You can't say hurtful words. Don't use words to hurt others, especially between close people. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

Don't tell everyone about the sad things. When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to others, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed, suspicious and alienated. At the same time, it will give people the impression that they don't think about others and want to pass on the pain to others.

8 other people's business, seriously. Everyone needs a safe distance, and not commenting and spreading other people's affairs easily will make people feel safe in communication.

Do your own thing and listen to what others say. Listening to outsiders' opinions on your own affairs can give people a modest impression; Second, people will think you are a reasonable person.

10 Listen more and talk less about your elders. Older people often don't like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they will think that you are not a respectful, modest and studious person.

1 1 husband and wife, discuss it. Between husband and wife, what they are most afraid of when they encounter something is to blame each other, and to discuss with each other will play the role of "affection" and enhance the feelings of husband and wife.

12 children's cause, enlighten. Especially adolescent children are very rebellious. Taking a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them can not only make children feel good about you, but also make them willing to be friends with you, and can also play a role in persuasion.