Every time my mother-in-law comes to my house, it seems that she comes to buy things, as if my things cost nothing. What can I say about her?

My wife is three years older than me. Because of her age, her family urged her to get married, and we met for three months before getting married. We come from different parts of the same province and all work in the provincial capital. It suddenly rained heavily while eating, so I gave her my umbrella and left in the rain. Later, she found me according to the contact information on the umbrella handle, and she became my girlfriend one after another.

When we got married, my mother-in-law said that it was not easy for rural people to make money, as long as the bride price was 60 thousand, while in our place, it was generally 654.38+ 10 thousand. To tell the truth, I am very touched, because 60,000 yuan is nothing in the eyes of many city people, but it is also a lot for rural people. Plus other expenses, the messy wedding cost 654.38+10,000.

Before we got married, my mother-in-law always took care of her grandchildren at home and never went out. After we got married, she said that her grandson was too young to go anywhere. Now that the children have grown up, they want to look around when they have the chance.

Hearing this, I took the initiative to invite her to the provincial capital to play and show my filial piety by the way. My mother-in-law is very happy. Not long after I invited her, she called and said she would come to play.

In order to save money, we rented a house with one room and one living room outside. After my mother-in-law came, I could only sleep on the sofa every day. Because I sleep in the living room, I can only go to bed late and get up early every day. Yesterday's work made me sleep badly at night. During the time when my mother-in-law came, my back ached every day.

Fortunately, my mother-in-law stayed for more than a week and left. When we left, my wife and I took her to the mall to buy a lot of things, not only toys for my wife and nephew, but also clothes for her and her father-in-law, as well as bedding for my eldest brother and wife. My mother-in-law was full of praise for us and went home with these things happily.

After she left, I made a simple calculation. My mother-in-law came here and even used her usual expenses to buy things. Xiaowan took out the money. Although I feel a little distressed after calculating the account, I think that I usually come less, and I will come once a year or so. As long as she is happy, I will spend more money.

Unexpectedly, since then, my mother-in-law will come every ten days and a half months. Sometimes she is alone, and sometimes she takes her grandson. She doesn't stay long every time she comes to live, but she buys a lot of things every time.

If you can't stand it for a long time, it won't be as good as it was at first. After my mother-in-law left last time, I told my wife that it was always bad for your mother, right? Come once every ten days and a half months, and every time you come, it's like buying goods. I don't get up early all day to live for your family!

I didn't expect my wife to be very unhappy and say, how dare you say that? What were you doing when my mother came here a few times ago? What's your attitude these days? You don't think my mother can't see it, do you? I didn't see your suggestion when I asked you for less bride price. !

I was completely fooled by her words. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to come empty-handed, go back and tidy up luggage belt and go home. Finally, she said that I was not well received? How much money can you save all year round? I can't stand this kind of tossing, the key is that my wife still doesn't understand! At this rate, I really don't know what to do with this marriage.