Going to the city to look after my grandson, I overheard my daughter-in-law and my mother say that I was sloppy and disgusting. what do you think?

I am 60 years old. Because my family was poor when I was a child, I got married late. My husband is a rural person like me and has no money at home. When we got married, we didn't even have decent clothes. My parents don't want the bride price when they see that my husband's family is so poor. They just told him that they must be nice to me in the future. My husband is also an honest man, and we get along well after marriage. Although there was no money at home, he tried not to wronged me, especially when I was pregnant, and tried his best to get me something delicious to make up for my health.

Although our life is difficult, we still insist on sending our children to school. My husband and I firmly believe that only by studying hard can our son have a good future. Fortunately, our son is also very sensible, and his academic performance has been good since childhood. Later, he was successfully admitted to the university. After college, he seldom asked us for money. His tuition and life are earned by his own part-time job. Four years of college passed quickly. After graduation, my son and her husband discussed and wanted to go back to their hometown to develop and take care of us. My husband and I are against it. Even if our county has changed a lot in recent years, no matter how big the change is, it is as good as that in big cities. My husband and I worked so hard to provide him with an education in the hope that he would have a good future.

My son also listened to our words and stayed in the big city to develop. At first, his son had a hard time, but he never complained to us. Every time he calls us, he reports good news instead of bad news. Now my son is almost thirty years old. He bought a house in the city by his own efforts and married a daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law is also from the city. She is very watery and good to me and my husband. She calls us from time to time. Although my son and daughter-in-law also intend to take my husband and me to the city, we have lived in the countryside all our lives. At first glance, we are people who are half buried in the loess. We refuse to get used to the life in that city, but.

Some time ago, my son and daughter-in-law came back to see us together and brought our little grandson, who is over three years old. During dinner, my son told us that they had come to pick us up this time, saying that his grandson was going to kindergarten soon. His grandmother had been helping him with it before, but now his in-laws are taking his grandson, so my husband and I are asked to go to the city to help them with their children, that is, cooking and sending them to school every day. Seeing that my son and daughter-in-law were so busy at work, I promised them and followed them to the city the next day. My daughter-in-law was afraid that we wouldn't be used to going at first, so she specially took a few days off to stay at home with us and took us to the mall to buy some new clothes.

My husband and I lived in our son's house for more than a month, and we got along well with our daughter-in-law. On this day, my daughter-in-law came home from work and said that her mother would come home on Saturday, asking me to buy more dishes that her mother likes to eat when shopping. To tell the truth, I don't like this mother, because when my son and daughter-in-law fall in love, she looks down on our family and doesn't like our family being in the countryside. At that time, she also said a lot of ugly things. Finally, she insisted on having sex with her daughter-in-law. Now after so many years, she hasn't even looked at me and my husband. Although she despises us, now that we have become in-laws, I still want to treat her well when she comes.

On Saturday, my daughter-in-law and I almost cooked a table of dishes that my in-laws loved. When eating, I let them eat first. I'll feed my grandson first. After the grandson finished eating, he went out to play with his grandfather. When I went back to eat, my in-laws and daughters-in-law had already eaten almost. At dinner, my in-laws didn't say a word to me. After dinner, I asked my daughter-in-law to accompany her to the living room to watch TV. I didn't play with them. I cleaned the kitchen myself. After cleaning up, I'm going to wash some fruit and go out to give it to them.

Just as I walked out of the kitchen, I heard my mother-in-law say to her daughter-in-law: Look at your mother-in-law's clothes. Now she doesn't pay attention to her image in the city. Fortunately, she still sends her children to school every day, not afraid of being laughed at. Because they all sat with their backs to me and thought I was still in the kitchen. Hearing this, the daughter-in-law said to her in-laws, Mom, what are you talking about? What's wrong with her mother-in-law's clothes? I also bought her some new clothes. She just can't bear to wear them. I don't want you to talk about her like that. I know you have always looked down on her, but now I have married her, and she is my mother. Besides, after my mother-in-law came, she did all the work at home by herself, and sometimes I had to help. Now that you are a mother-in-law, you know that a family can only get along well, so don't sow discord between me and my mother-in-law. Anyway, my mother-in-law will live with us in the future.

After listening to my daughter-in-law, my eyes turned red in an instant. I didn't expect my in-laws and I to be her mother in my daughter-in-law's heart. We can have such a considerate daughter-in-law in our family. I don't know what happened in my life. At this time my grandson opened the door and came back. My in-laws blushed when they saw me standing there. I feel embarrassed that she said that to her daughter-in-law. When I saw it, I pretended that nothing had happened and went over to greet everyone to eat fruit. As my daughter-in-law said, if I don't live with my in-laws in the future, why bother with her?