"Kindness does not lead the class". A female teacher who is too gentle is not suitable to be a class teacher. Do you agree?

I still quite agree with this view.

what a teacher needs is to combine leniency with severity. Gentleness alone is not enough.

A teacher really needs a bodhisattva heart, but she must have a masculine appearance.

as a teacher, the most ideal effect should be that a bird enters the forest and a hundred birds are quiet. Only a well-ordered classroom can have a good teaching effect.

If a female teacher is too gentle, it is still difficult for her to control the class order even though everyone knows that she is a good teacher. That's because students who are skinnier, students who don't want to learn, and students who want to make fun of the teacher still really exist in the class.

It's a joke for you to make a gentle female teacher who can't even control the class order.

The work of a class teacher is complicated. Although class cadres and school leaders can help with some problems, they are the core of the work and need to do many things themselves.

some jobs need patience and care, some jobs need careful planning, some jobs need persuasion, and some jobs need mandatory orders.

It's very difficult for a female teacher who is too gentle to enforce orders. Even if it is done, it will not have a good effect.

I once saw a junior high school principal make a gentle female teacher with five or six years' teaching experience as the head teacher of the second grade when the head teacher was insufficient. As a result, it was only two months, and the class was chaotic. This female teacher is also almost schizophrenic. Went on vacation to recuperate.

"Kindness does not lead the class" is quite reasonable. As long as it is too gentle, let alone a female teacher, even a male teacher. Because today's students are not generally difficult to manage. (Except experts. )

"Kindness doesn't lead the class", and a female teacher who is too gentle is not suitable to be a class teacher, which makes sense.

First of all, there are some basic principles in class management, such as: the principle of encouraging all staff, the principle of independent participation, the principle of combining discipline with discipline, the principle of being reasonable, the principle of parallel management, the principle of coordination, etc. The principled things should not be compromised. Too gentle female teachers will indeed violate the principles because they can't bear it, causing some students to push their luck and violate class rules.

Secondly, "kindness" and "strictness" should be dialectically unified, which will only make the relationship between teachers and students antagonistic and tense. Combining kindness with mercy is the secret of the success of an excellent class teacher, and "being a teacher first, then being a student" is the magic weapon for a successful class teacher.

Miss Li is the head teacher of my son's first grade. It is said that all the classes taught by Miss Li are the first in grade.

I am glad that my son met an excellent teacher.

Miss Li is very strict with her parents. Almost every student's parents in the class will have one of them to cooperate with the teacher to educate their children.

I'm a little scared of her, and so is my son. It's only two months since school started, and I'm invited to my parents every week. I can't help it. My son is too naughty to speak clearly on the phone.

Miss Li is particularly good at selling anxiety, and I was "scared to cry" by her several times.

My son's grades are not bad under the supervision of Mr. Li, but Mr. Li always says that he can do better in the exam, and the top five are fine.

the winter vacation of grade one is coming, and at the same time, there is an epidemic.

The sudden "epidemic" has changed many people and things, affected many families, and also affected my son.

In the spring of 22, because of the epidemic, at first, all of them went to online schools. Teacher Li went home to have a second child, and the class teacher was changed to Teacher Xiao Li.

Miss Xiao Li also teaches Chinese. She is a teacher from Fujian, and she is very "Buddhist".

From the online school, we always take a tolerant attitude towards children's mistakes, and don't punish them if they don't do or finish their homework.

The children like Miss Xiao Li very much, and the parents, especially me, like Miss Xiao Li even more.

I don't have to answer the teacher's phone every day, and no one gives me inexplicable anxiety.

In May, the next semester of Grade One finally started.

After the long winter vacation, my troubles really began.

if you are late, you will not be punished, and you will not be detained for class exercises.

Ms. Xiao Li's Chinese class is the most popular among children. In her class, she can be praised by the teacher for being funny.

However, the school is compressing the curriculum, and children often turn over a new page before digesting the new lesson.

visible to the naked eye, my son's grades have plummeted, and he can't finish his homework until 11 o'clock every day.

if you can't keep up with the course, you will start to listen to all kinds of lectures in class.

I take the initiative to communicate with the teacher. Teacher Xiao Li always downplays it. Children are young, so don't be under too much pressure.

Several parents are reacting. As a result, homework assignments are getting less and less.

by the end of the term, there are eight classes in the same grade, which is the last.

We are all looking forward to Miss Li coming back soon.

Since the second grade, Miss Li came back from maternity leave early. A week later, I was dragged into the "group of parents of backward students".

anxiety strikes again.

but I'm down to earth.

Thank you for your invitation. I'm Mr. Shuxin. I've been a class teacher for more than 2 years, and I quite agree with this sentence. I'm deeply troubled by this!

because I am a soft-hearted person, students are not afraid of you when they look at your face; As a result, it is really heartless to do things. For example, when the children are asleep in class in summer, sometimes I can't bear to wake up the students. The children didn't do well on duty, so they rushed to do it themselves. In fact, this is not a good habit. After a long time, they really dare to spoil in front of you!

Especially when the children make mistakes in the teacher's office, some male teachers will kick them a few feet, or some teachers will punish the students dozens of times or hundreds of times for making mistakes in their homework. I secretly feel distressed. As a result, the students are not afraid of me, and some things will be affected in the implementation!

In fact, the work of the class teacher for many years is summarized as follows:

A good class teacher must pay equal attention to kindness and prestige!

stress principles, establish norms first, not beating or punishing, but students should be able to implement what you say. There is love in strictness, but this love really needs to be hidden in the heart first!

I remember when I was twenty years old, I just went to work and worked as a head teacher in a rural middle school. I live on campus with my students. I spend almost every day in the class, caring for the students in every possible way, eating and playing with them!

As a result, the students like me very much, but some naughty boys always go out to make trouble for me. They seem to be sure that the teacher is soft-hearted and can't do anything about them!

The headmaster criticized me because of a special student, which is worth remembering all my life!

A boy named Chen Bochun from Chang Gung Sixth Team is the boy who lives farthest from home in our class, and it is nearly 2 miles away! It's dark when he walks home every weekend!

Later, every Saturday, I would give him two classes early, thinking it was safe. As a result, the headmaster criticized me soon:

"Who is responsible for giving students a holiday before school is over?"

you're not doing him good, you're hurting the students! The children are at school, and we are guardians. We should protect the students! "

I know I was wrong! Being a class teacher is not a trivial matter!

too soft-hearted, sometimes it will really spoil the boat!

being strict with love is the best!

Kindness does not mean that there is no principle! Several female teachers who have done well in our class teacher here are motherly! To be a class teacher, there must be methods and temperature! "Kindness does not bring classes", the author does not recognize this sentence. The gentleness of female teachers does not affect being a class teacher. In our primary school, the head teachers are all female teachers.

female teachers are gentle and shine with maternal brilliance. Suitable for children's enlightenment education. Moreover, female teachers are thoughtful and considerate, which is suitable for educating students to be class teachers.

a female teacher who is too gentle is not suitable to be a head teacher? Wrong, as long as the female teacher who is the head teacher doesn't take long, she will become a "female man". The head teacher has long been a "generalist" in dealing with students, managing discipline and hygiene every day, teaching students knowledge and dealing with so many trivial "things". Tenderness is only a part of the female teacher's personality, as well as stability and honesty, "resolute work", love and patience. Of course, it is popular with students, and teachers must have personality charm.

I quite agree that a female teacher who is too gentle may have a strong teaching ability, but without thorns in her kindness, it is difficult to manage the class well and deal with difficult parents. Needless to say, having two naughty children in the class can make a class messy and discipline too chaotic, and it is difficult to get good grades, so teachers sometimes really need to be strong.

My cousin is a middle school teacher. When we met during the Spring Festival, he told me such a thing. He had a female colleague who was very gentle and taught well, but she was reported by her parents and called the police. The reason was that the grandmother of the child thought that the teacher had beaten her grandson. When the police arrived at the school, they tuned the surveillance video and found that the teacher and the students had no contact that day, so it was impossible to beat the students.

But the parents insisted that the school deleted the surveillance video, so the police station investigated the students that the female teacher had taught before, contacted the parents of those students and asked if the female teacher had beaten the students before. After being denied one by one, the police station thought that the female teacher was not at fault.

The school asked the parents to apologize to the teacher, but they refused, and finally dropped it. After listening to my cousin's narrative, I was chilling for the teacher. How should the teacher manage the students in the future? Will there be psychological shadows?

Of course, you will say that this has nothing to do with the gentleness of female teachers, and they meet parents of bears, but what is certain is that if teachers are tough, they can still deter Xiong Haizi and some unreasonable parents. Two children in my cousin's class had a fight while eating. One of them had a bloody nose, and the other had a bag on his head. After the teacher found it, he opened it in time, which was nothing serious.

Results The next day, the father of the student who was hit with a bag on his head called and asked his cousin if he knew about the fight. My cousin told the story, and the father of the student asked my cousin if he could guarantee that the child would not fight at school. My cousin was a little angry and made it clear that he could not guarantee it, only that the teacher could stop it in time after the fight.

So, the two sides quarreled on the phone. At this time, the child's mother took the phone, apologized to her cousin and said that she would educate her children in the future, so she hung up. An hour later, the child's grandmother came to ask about it again. My cousin told her that she had made it clear and asked her to ask her son and daughter-in-law.

After this incident, the parents of this student added their cousin's WeChat, and they have been very polite since then. So sometimes teachers really need to be tough and not be too gentle. Take changing seats for example. Parents often find various reasons to adjust seats for their children, but the class is so big that they come to find and adjust seats. What should they do?

I don't fully agree with this statement that a female teacher who is too gentle is not suitable to be a head teacher.

Being a good head teacher is not a teacher of any character, but a teacher of personality charm, knowledge level and working art..

I still remember my father who worked in a middle school once told me that a female teacher in their school never saw her lecturing students, but the students listened to her.

At that time, I thought to myself: I want to be such a teacher. In fact, I did. Many teachers have said in front of me: You are the gentlest teacher in our school.

I want to say: I don't pretend to be gentle, that's my character. Then how can I convince students? Personality charm ...

Personality charm runs through every detail of daily life, which is a comprehensive effect of many factors. I think there must be heartfelt love, respect and consideration for children, as well as solid basic skills in classroom teaching. Teachers' classroom teaching is fascinating, students' learning is relaxed and happy, and humorous and appropriate language can best capture students' hearts. When they sincerely convince you, majesty naturally exists. Knowledge level

All teachers know this sentence: If you want to give students a glass of water, the teacher must have a bucket of water. With rich professional knowledge, teachers can solve problems by analogy, whether in classroom teaching or after-school counseling, and they can do it with ease. If they can have other specialties besides professional subjects, it will be easier to win students' hearts. The art of work

Teachers' work is particularly trivial, and they have to worry about everything. How to make big things small and trivial, prevent minor delays, and let "troubles" disappear in the bud really requires the accumulation of experience. However, regardless of young teachers or old teachers, the most basic principle is:

Teachers need to solve problems with wisdom in their work, and being simple and rude seems to be useful for a while, but it will bring endless troubles. Only the education of spring breeze and rain can have a longer-term effect.

It's really hard to be a head teacher. If you pick up a random class halfway, a gentle teacher needs to pay more in the early stage, but it's not that a gentle teacher is not suitable for being a head teacher. Experience is accumulated in practice. As long as you don't exclude this job from your heart and are willing to think about improvement, you will be able to do it well!

Of course, teachers who are very strict are more likely to get grades, because many students are lazy and they will bully the weak and fear the hard. However, being very strict is also easy to get into trouble nowadays-it is really difficult to grasp the severity, and it may not be necessary to get stuck in their hands at any time.

seeing this problem, I don't agree with this view at first, because I am a gentle female teacher, and I have been teaching classes for a long time and achieved good results. There is no fixed method for education and teaching, but there are methods. The head teacher is really a job for people. It can be said that every student needs a specific method to educate. Let's share the students' comments on me:

1. Not strict, but kind

A child with moderate depression stayed in my class for two years, and shared with his younger brothers and sisters when he graduated: Mr. H is not a strict teacher, but a kind teacher. Boys and girls, when you encounter unhappy things, remember to look for teacher H. Sometimes she looks like a mother, sometimes like a sister, and sometimes like a friend. It is teacher H's kindness that makes me say goodbye to depression and make me laugh like ordinary people.

A strict teacher has the advantage of being strict, which makes students afraid and obedient. I think this kind of strictness and obedience is only superficial, but it is not acceptable by mouth. And a gentle and loving female teacher makes students obey, which is oral and heartfelt obedience. A child obeys you from the heart and will listen to you.

second, I understand the students' hearts

I have been timid since I was a child, and I hope my teacher can treat me gently when I study. Empathy, although I became a teacher, I think students, as children, certainly hope that teachers can be gentle with him. Because of my temperature