The twisted mind of unfilial children (original)

Bushaw is now over 40 years old, with children, a married daughter and a son who is also in college. He is competent for his job and has little savings. He is not rich, he can definitely be considered well-off, which can be described as opening a happy life mode.

But I feel sorry for my parents and have a hard time with my biological parents. I always think that my parents are biased towards the eldest brother (his eldest brother) and the youngest (his sister), and I work hard by myself. I have never contacted my parents. Once I was drunk and said, what's the use of his father living like this? I want to shoot his father. Scared his mother not to let his father go out, afraid of an accident, not to mention filial piety to the elderly, even the holidays are no longer the love of his son. Others can't say it, and his uncle can't help it. His parents took him to court, and they couldn't bear it, which further encouraged his arrogance.

The children educated by Bu Shao don't associate with the elderly or with their brothers and sisters.

Everything happens for a reason: Bu Shao's father is a barefoot doctor and has always insisted on becoming a rural doctor. When I was a child, I relied on my rich practical experience-opening a rural health center to support my family, and I was richer and more free than ordinary farmers who lived by farming.

It happened that neither Bu Shao nor his younger brother Xiaoqing studied well. Bu Xiao's father wants his two sons to go their own way to study medicine. The eldest son Xiaoqing, if filial to his father, reads well. Later, I studied in the county health school, went out to study, and took over my father's health clinic. My father helps to pay my father's salary and take care of my parents' daily life and all expenses in the health center. My mother also helps to take care of Xiaoqing's children.

Bu Shao thinks that the health center is too complicated, and the whole family is busy. There is no day and night, and they are worried and bored. They simply give up and work on their own to earn money. Bu Xiao's wife is fine at ordinary times, and the children naturally take care of themselves.

In this way, Bu Shao had a contradiction with his parents, who ignored the family to take care of the boss and had prejudice from the heart.

However, parents think: we don't want to take care of your children, or our second son, Bu Xiao's wife. As I said before, we don't give Xiaoqing more children than Bu Xiao. When the child leaves, go to the old man's care, eat and drink.

With the passage of time, the health center is getting more and more prosperous and the work is getting harder and harder. I feel that the old man is biased towards the boss and did not force himself to study medicine at the beginning. Besides, because of his father, this health care center is owned by the boss. At least he should have a share, and he can get a dividend every year. It's none of his business now. Every time I think about it, I feel more disgusted.

Plus: Xiaoqing's daughter, eldest brother, has been in contact with medicine since childhood and loves it. She is also a medical student. She works in a township health center and has her own formal job. Bu Shao's daughter is still a farmer. This is the difference. If she is unfair and wronged, who can she tell? I can only drown my sorrows by drinking, but I am even more worried. Drinking sea water is hard to solve your troubles.

As for the relationship with my sister, it's nothing: when my sister Xiaoying was a child, her two brothers especially spoiled her. Xiaoying went to school in the county seat, and Bu Shao made a special trip from his hometown to give her food, clothes and money to encourage her to go to school. Xiao Ying, my sister, remembers it wholeheartedly and will never forget it.

Xiaoying was admitted to the school through her own efforts, got her own formal job and found a husband with a formal job and a relatively well-off family. She has two children and her work has been transferred from the countryside to the county seat.

Xiao Ying did not forget her kindness, but also gave a lot of help to Bu Shao's children to go to school, let them go to school in the county, take care of their food and clothing, and help them study, in order to repay their brother's care in the past.

Xiaoying is also very filial and devoted to her parents, especially when her parents are old and in poor health, she is very considerate and concerned. In this way, Bu Shao was jealous and thought that he would not be with him and isolate himself from his parents.

However, Xiaoying doesn't care so much. She treats her nephews and nieces equally, and will come to anything and have many gifts. However, Boucher always had a hard time in his heart. He always thought he was better than him, which was caused by his parents' partiality, and the resentment was directly sent to his parents.

Life is a live broadcast, no rehearsal, no replay. Parents are old and weak, so they can only let nature take its course. They are indignant that they have not given birth to a second child by force, and they have not written a written statement of separation. It's too late to think about anything.

Please think twice about your relatives during the festival. Every New Year's holiday is a time for family reunion. Bu Shao's parents, brother and sister get together. In addition to the second child, the second child laughed and felt laughed at by the outside world, but refused to bow his head and plead guilty. He felt isolated and became a loner downtown.

Nowadays, for Busch, it is not a question of money, but the psychological deviation of the elderly, which leads to the fact that today, the old talents are the culprit. Therefore, all the resentment and dissatisfaction are given to the helpless old people now.

Give Boucher a profound inspiration:

1. Parents must educate and force their children, at least let them learn to be human and be grateful, otherwise it will be a pity to die unsatisfied.

Parents must be closer to their children, and they must have principles, establish written evidence, have evidence to follow, have laws to follow, and take the initiative when things happen.

When you are a child, don't dwell on the past and don't dwell on it. Parents have done their duty to bring themselves up, so they should be grateful and filial to the elderly. At the same time, they set an example for their children.

Let bygones be bygones! I hope everything will return to zero, get together again and start a better future! Facing the sea, spring blossoms! Relax, everything will be calm, natural and harmonious. Only one family can be happy forever!