What if parents are too unreasonable?

First of all, I deeply understand and sympathize with your experience, because I have been scolded by my parents personally, not only if, but also severely beaten; They scold you not because you didn't do well, you are right, not your fault, but because your parents don't understand your needs. Maybe they don't even know what they need.

In view of the above information, the individual puts forward the following suggestions (personal views only).

Never hurt yourself, no matter what, never hurt yourself. It's not your fault. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes.

Have an in-depth conversation with your parents when you are in harmony with them, and find out why they are often angry with you (parents may be angry with themselves, or they may be angry outside and take it out on you. If so, I don't think such parents have a future. Ask them politely what causes them to scold you often.

Know your own needs. Is it really what you need to buy? Or do you think I should have what my classmates have, not your classmates? If it is really what you need, I hope you can bravely express to your parents that these things are really useful to you and you need them.

Keeping silent when being scolded, or keeping silent all the time, will cause long-term harm to both sides. You either argue with your parents or digest what they scold you (this is different from what you put up with, which requires you to change your cognition. For example, you can think that your parents scold you for your own good, because they love you and scold me to make me better.

People who have been wronged always have an object to talk to, which can be a strange place, a tree or someone you feel closest to; But I personally suggest that if the school has a counseling room, you can tell your tutor about yourself. I'm sure he will listen to you carefully and help you out of trouble.

I know nothing about you or your parents. I just give some personal suggestions based on the information you sent me. My experience and knowledge are limited. I hope you will forgive me if I don't speak well.