A nine-year-old boy is very disobedient. How can we make him obey?

A nine-year-old boy is very disobedient. How can we make him obey? I always believe that a child's growth process, his cognition and his personality orientation are all related to his parents to some extent. Children's learning and imitation ability is very strong, especially in learning from their parents. Parents' family education is not only oral education, but also "setting an example". The reason why I don't do my homework may be because I play hard, especially as a boy. I suggest that when his parents ask him to do his homework, he can read some books beside him instead of watching TV or playing computer or doing other things. As for lying, you should talk to him and tell him not to lie. The consequences of lying can be illustrated by examples, but if your examples can make him understand. I am very opposed to imprisonment or other serious consequences, which will leave a shadow. Try not to lie in front of him. Moreover, if children lie, whether they do something wrong or make excuses (such as being late or coming home late), it is because they are afraid of punishment after doing something wrong, which is linked to your education method to some extent. For example, you will beat children or scold them. He can't know what his mistake is, but he knows that I may be beaten or scolded for doing so, so he will find some excuses to cover up this mistake and escape the punishment he doesn't like. If he does something wrong, he will be punished. If he lies, he may escape. Although not many times, he would rather lie than do something wrong. Be more patient and encourage your children. To a certain extent, you should grow up with your children and listen to their hearts. In my opinion, one of your ideas is wrong. It should not be to make children obedient, but more to listen to their words. A good parent should learn to squat down, look at the problem from their point of view and talk to them with their thinking, instead of standing and looking at the child or holding the child up.

How can boys in their twenties be disobedient and rebellious? He can only wake up by himself. What others say is useless. It's the same with my son. It's heartbreaking.

Why don't children listen at all! How can we make him obey? As children grow older, some parents report that their children are very disobedient and rebellious at home. In view of this problem, our view is that respect and trust should be put in the first place in education.

Some parents think that children can only be restrained without trust and respect, otherwise they will get out of control. Therefore, parents usually ignore their children's complaints and demands, and even choose a place to reprimand their children, which dampens their self-confidence and self-esteem and makes them afraid of their parents. Other parents are influenced by their children. What the children say and do is to make them listen to themselves. Some even defend their children's shortcomings, lie for them, or brag too much about their children, which also suppresses their self-esteem. Once children understand, they will feel humiliated and angry at their parents' connivance. Over time, children will lose their trust and respect for their parents, and their parents' words will naturally be ignored, and their rebellious mentality will become more and more serious. So, what should parents do to respect and trust their children? First of all, we must respect the child's personality. If the child does something right or well, let him know that he should do it and encourage him to do it. Don't exaggerate praise, especially avoid making inappropriate praise in front of everyone. When a child does something wrong or bad, he should make comments and criticisms, even severe criticisms, and take disciplinary measures to let him learn a lesson, but the criticism should also be realistic. Secondly, when children encounter difficulties, including learning knowledge and skills, dealing with some trivial matters in life, and some troubles between friends, parents should not do everything at this time, let alone scold them as "idiots." Take a look with concern, give hints and help, make them feel that they can do well and work hard, and get satisfaction from completing the task, thus enhancing their self-confidence.

Parents should comfort, encourage or guide their children when they are unhappy, including being criticized and wronged, or being left out in the cold, when their beloved toys are broken or when things to be done can never be done well. Teach children to repair their own toys, teach children to understand their partners or take the initiative to make up with their children.

In addition to all kinds of troubles, children will regard their parents as close friends and are willing to tell them everything. When their parents win their trust, they will enhance their self-confidence and realize their abilities.

Third, let children become parents' assistants and consultants, and parents can consciously discuss family affairs with their children. Be sure to thank him for his good work. Even if it is not good, don't think he helped, but tell him how to do it well.

If you are older, you can ask him for advice, such as where to play and what gifts to buy for grandparents' birthdays; Even where to put things at home and so on. Doing so will make children feel that they are adults and have the same qualifications as their parents to participate in "housework", so as to respect their parents more and take the initiative to be strict with themselves by the standards of "adults".

Let the children practice what they should and can do by themselves, without interference or doing it by themselves. Only in this way can children improve their sense of responsibility and self-confidence from their parents' trust and grow their talents.

As long as parents don't practice "autocracy" and make children feel that their parents can be trusted like friends and feel that they have a position in the family, they will like this family, like their parents, and are willing to tell their parents what they think and accept their help.

Parents should not expect too much when educating their children. It is beyond reproach that parents in the world are United and expect their children to be "dragons" and women to be "phoenixes". However, some parents put forward some very high and strict requirements for their children without considering their actual situation. These requirements are beyond the tolerance of children, which will make children lose confidence and even produce boredom and rebellion. Therefore, parents should not expect too much from their children, let alone rush for success. Instead, we should proceed from the actual situation of children and ask them to study hard, gradually improve, and constantly encourage and support them. In this way, the child's rebellious mentality will gradually be eliminated.

Boyfriend is particularly disobedient. How can I get him to obey and not let him hear about it?

Can a nine-year-old boy fight if he doesn't obey? Fighting is not recommended, which will cause psychological shadow to children.

What if my boyfriend doesn't listen? How to get him to listen? Husband can't cry if he doesn't listen, otherwise it will be bad. You can't force him to listen. It's normal for my husband to be disobedient, and my husband is not very obedient. He always has his own ideas. Actually, it's good to be disobedient. I believe you don't want to find a husband who is flattered by your words in Nuo Nuo. As long as he depends on you and listens to you in some small matters, he will respect your opinion if he loves you, and he will obey if he feels right.

But there is a way to make him listen. You can coax him and spoil him. Hehe, my husband also needs to make him happy. If you make him happy, he will naturally listen. Besides, it depends on what he won't listen to you. Don't go against your feelings, don't listen. Men should have their own ideas and thoughts. If you can't coax him to obey, or you can't coax your husband, and you want something to listen to you, then find a time to talk to him about your heart. He is your husband and must love you very much, so he will respect your opinion. Try it, husbands can be transformed, and good husbands are made by wives. Watch the road, he will become obedient.

I often coquetry, cheat my husband, coax my husband, he is very good. Husband is happy, you feel particularly good when you look at him, and you want to kiss him ~ ~ _. Men are all big men outside, and they will be unfaithful to their wives when they go home. Dealing with your relationship with many things in an appropriate way will make you feel very happy. So work hard and you can keep your husband in line.

How can a person be obedient if he is not obedient? Make friends with him, communicate with him on an equal footing, don't always condescend, respect him and talk to him in a discussion way. Try it first.

If the wife is disobedient, how can she be obedient and communicate more?

We just know each other.

Pay more attention to her.

Obedience is natural.

How can we make a disobedient student listen? In fact, students have many ways. If it is a parent, the teacher should go deep into the students' hearts to explore why they do it, instead of preaching. For example, if you don't attend class, because you feel boring or not exciting enough, you can talk to bad classmates. You can also let him be a member of the Commission for Discipline Inspection and set an example. By being praised by teachers and parents, you will be motivated, instead of objectively thinking that a bad student will never be a good student, and you can't beat a bad boy by comparing that child with others.

2 1 year-old boy, what should I do if I don't listen? Boss, you should encourage him to communicate more, but guide him in the right direction. He spends money not because he is rich, but because he doesn't want to be looked down upon by others in today's money society. However, you should induce him at an appropriate time. You may be praised for spending money now, but when you find that all your friends have bought houses and cars, you will know that the true strength is not to spend money on entertainment and praise.