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"Not interrupting others is the most basic virtue." Does it make sense?
I think this makes sense.
Not interrupting others is the minimum respect for them. Whether in the workplace or in life, you should listen carefully to what the other person has to say. In this way, you can not only give the other party full respect, but also show your own grace and self-cultivation.
At work, if you encounter an argument or negotiation, letting the other party finish speaking not only shows respect, but is also a form of wisdom. Even if you disagree, don't rush to argue. Debating and arguing will not solve any problem. On the contrary, it will push the issue further and further, which is of no help. People often say that talking too much will lead to mistakes. After the other party has finished saying everything he wants to say, you will think of a response and express your point of view calmly
Or when you meet someone who needs you to solve a problem, you will be emotional and speak fiercely. , then you have to listen to what he has to say. After he vents, it may be easier to communicate, and he will be able to listen to what you say.
As for life, most of them are acquaintances or friends chatting with each other. Often some people are good at expressing themselves, or they just like to express themselves. Then you should listen humbly to the other person's words and don't interrupt others. Otherwise, the other person will feel that you are losing face, and the people around you will also feel that you lack self-cultivation. If both parties insist on their own opinions and refuse to give in to each other, the situation will be awkward, the atmosphere will be tense, the original intention and intention of the communication will be lost, and the relationship will even break up on bad terms.
If you meet a eloquent person who likes to talk, you might as well learn the story of an old director I heard in the village when I was a child.
In the 1960s and 1970s, at the end of each year and the beginning of the new year, the county would hold a "three-party meeting". That is, the meeting of cadres at the three levels of county, commune and brigade. At that time, there was a young cadre in our commune who liked to speak. During every meeting, he would speak at length and without a script.
One year after the conclusion of the county's "Three Cadres Meeting", each commune would summon the cadres of each brigade to make a brief arrangement, and then everyone would rush home with their bedding. But this cadre in our commune talked endlessly until dark. There were no lights in the house at that time, and electricity was not as convenient as it is now.
The more he talked, the more interested he became. Because there was silence below, he thought everyone was listening carefully. Later, I heard snoring and was about to get angry, but found that everyone was gone. Feeling that the village cadre still insisted on listening to the meeting even though he was dozing off, he asked, "Why don't you leave?" The old director replied, if you sit on my bedroll, I can't leave. Although it is a joke, it is also the cultivation and wisdom of the old director.
Others leave quietly. Although they shouldn't, it is better than interrupting the leader's speech in person.
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