The boss of the year-end dinner party requires everyone to drink a full glass. Regardless of gender, what should I do if I don’t know how to drink?

Thanks for the invitation, because I rarely drink, so I rarely encounter drinking parties that I generally find difficult to refuse. Try to limit the amount of drinking or not drink in advance. In this way, you don’t have to worry about getting drunk even when you want to toast at the end. In the early days, I drank wine for others, drinking rice wine and white wine. I ended up feeling a little drunk, but I was also a little sober. I saw a lot of red spots on my arms. I just knew that I was probably allergic to alcohol, and I rarely drank anymore. Before serving it, tell me how much you can drink at most. Don’t be afraid of being embarrassed. There is nothing shameful about cherishing life. I don't think it's good to resort to trickery to spit out or pour away the wine. After all, a bottle of wine costs tens or hundreds of dollars, so it can't be wasted. And now if something happens to someone while drinking, everyone is responsible, and we don’t dare to persuade people to drink casually.

If it is the first time for a new employee to have a dinner together, he will say that he is drunk before drinking. However, today is the first time for a dinner with leaders and colleagues, so he must sacrifice his life to accompany the gentleman, then pour some wine, and ask the leader and colleagues in turn When a colleague toasts a toast, I try to show some interest by myself, eat more in the middle [cover my face] and pretend to be drunk after the toast. I have more than a kilogram of it. After using this trick, in the eyes of my relatives and friends, I am both drunk and drunk. No one has ever done this. I drink! This trick is useless for people who are poor drinkers. Of course, a few close friends know that I can drink but am not good at wine, but they never tell outsiders.

Adults in the workplace all know the importance of business dinners. If you "eat well", you can not only achieve your goals, but also gain many unexpected gains. So the question is, as a subordinate, how can you maintain your dignity and protect yourself at the same time?

Today, I will teach you all my friends how to say something about refusing to drink at the wine table, which will neither offend anyone nor make people feel that you are not giving them face.

1. Play the emotional card

Among people in the workplace, the youngest is 24-25 years old. Presumably most of them are already married. If your boss wants you to drink, you can use your wife as an excuse. You can say, "I'm sorry, boss. It was my honor to have dinner with you, but now I'm preparing to have a child. To be honest, my wife." I was given an order. The doctor recommended that I stop drinking and smoking for three months. Therefore, I am afraid that I will not be able to drink this glass of wine today. Please forgive me. I will drink tea instead of wine here. Thank you for your support. "I want to say something. Having said this, the leader should also understand you.

2. Learn to be "courteous"

If you don't know how to drink, just be courteous and pour wine and tea? Is there enough food on the table? Does your boss or client drive? Do you need a driver after drinking? You have to be proactive and aware of interesting things. You also need a sober person to clean up after a drinking party. If things go on like this, this character setting will be you.

3. Able to chat

Many times, leaders take people there, firstly to accompany them for drinks, and secondly, in the hope of having a topic to talk about. This requires you to be very good at chatting, and you can talk about everything, from all over the world, astronomy, geography, real-time politics, gossip news, family and friends, to make the wine table lively. Generally speaking, if you talk like this, your boss will be happy, and when he is chatting with you, the people next to him will not be unreasonable and try to persuade you to drink.

4. Use clever tricks

If you really can’t drink, make preparations in advance before drinking and keep a cephalosporin in your pocket. Although this approach is a bit unkind, the wine table You can’t be too aggressive when it comes to social gatherings. It’s impossible to lie down without drinking at social gatherings. Therefore, bring a cephalosporin as a backup. If a colleague toasts, you can say, “I’m sorry, brother, I’ve been sick recently and I’m taking medicine (take out the cephalosporin). So I’ll take tea instead of wine and thank you in advance!” I think if you say this, your colleagues won’t embarrass you.

Next, I will recommend you a hangover cure trick:

First: Hawthorn tea

When it comes to hawthorn, the first thing that comes to mind should be candied haws. , sweet and sour, very delicious. In life, in addition to simply experiencing the taste of hawthorn, some people understand hawthorn as an appetizer. In fact, hawthorn has many functions. In addition to appetizing, hawthorn also has a good hangover effect. , Hawthorn is a good hangover material. Its main function is to prevent alcohol from accumulating in our liver and causing alcoholic fatty liver. Moreover, hawthorn is also helpful for our loss of appetite the next day after being drunk.

When we make this hangover tea, we need to prepare one or two dried hawthorns and an appropriate amount of water. Boil for 10 minutes and then turn off the heat. When it is warm, add the honey and stir evenly. drink. Hawthorn has the function of strengthening the spleen, dispersing dampness, and eliminating accumulation. Honey has a neutralizing effect, which can alleviate the damage of alcohol to the gastrointestinal tract and help sleep. However, hawthorn has a certain effect on hangover, but the effect of hawthorn on hangover is relatively slow, so you must drink more water.

The atmosphere at the wine table is created by drinking. If you don’t drink, you will look disrespectful. Therefore, if you master these skills of refusing to drink at the wine table, you will no longer worry about it. Embarrassed by drinking.

Don’t worry about this problem. Although the boss said that everyone must finish the wine after filling it. In fact, the boss is setting off the drinking atmosphere, making people at the wine table excited and creating a cheerful drinking situation.

So, what should people who don’t know how to drink do?

In fact, the boss will not force people who don’t know how to drink to drink. Just give them a hint. Nowadays, fewer and fewer people are filing lawsuits over drinking at the wine table. Few people force others to drink. Everyone knows that drinking is harmful to the human body. Therefore, it is enough to create a good drinking atmosphere at the wine table. It is not necessary. Drink forcefully.

If there is a liquor store and you don’t want to drink, just drive there. Nowadays, drunk driving inspections are very strict, so there is no one to persuade drivers to drink. Furthermore, you can say that you have a cold, you are taking anti-inflammatory drugs, and you cannot drink alcohol. Because you are taking anti-inflammatory drugs, no one dares to persuade you to drink, because if you drink while taking anti-inflammatory drugs, your life will be in danger. I dare to take such a risk to persuade you to drink.

Colleagues, having dinner together is a happy thing. Create a good drinking atmosphere. Drink if you can. Don’t force yourself if you can’t. As long as everyone is happy.

Drink, one drink won’t be a problem anyway, drinking is a concrete manifestation of a person’s unreality. Because drinking is not a strong point for most people. No one will feel comfortable drinking. If others can feel uncomfortable, why should you be special? Except for some cases of severe allergies, gout, pregnancy, illness and medication, etc., I think it is okay to drink a full cup at the annual meeting. If it is really not possible, after drinking with the boss, say a few heartfelt words first, and then find a place to pour it down. . The boss and everyone will recognize it. Except for the special circumstances and special people mentioned above, any person who drinks while others drink on important occasions must be a selfish person and should not be deeply acquainted and should be avoided.

Nowadays, people don’t try to persuade you to drink. If you really can’t drink, you won’t force it, but it’s normal that you can’t shirk it in many cases, so you have to set your own game from the beginning of the dinner, so that you can Drink less.

If you don’t know how to drink, you should make arrangements as soon as you enter the door. When entering the table, you should be selective. Choose to hang out with those who don’t know how to drink, rather than choosing to hang out with those who can. of people at a table. For a long time, your colleagues have come to believe that you know which ones know how to drink and which ones don’t. If you sit with people who don’t know how to drink, you will naturally drink less.

Talk less while eating. If you talk more, you will naturally become the center of attention. You will notice that you don’t drink. If you talk less, fewer people will pay attention to you, and you will naturally drink less. You can eat more vegetables to fill your stomach.

If you don’t know how to drink, don’t take the initiative to toast other people’s wine. If you toast someone else’s wine, they have to drink in return. If you don’t toast, you will drink less.

Nowadays, the supervision on drunk driving is very complete, so when you drive, if you say you want to drive, the pressure on you to drink will be much less.

Sometimes drinking is unavoidable. For example, for example, everyone has to drink the first glass of wine on New Year’s Eve, so when you pour it, pour less, and when you drink, use your hands to cover it and drink less. When someone else drinks a glass, you can only drink half the glass, so you will naturally drink less.

At the year-end dinner, the boss requires all employees to drink and drink the full glass, which is indeed a bit excessive. Nowadays, there are more and more people who don’t know how to drink or who don’t like to drink. During the company's year-end dinner, there are always some colleagues who don't drink, especially female colleagues. Moreover, it is normal not to drink alcohol at the year-end party, and the reasons given are simple and easy to accept.

If there are colleagues who don’t want to drink at the company’s year-end dinner, there are several reasons to choose from:

First, if you have a car, just say that you can’t drink while driving home. You can't drink and drive just for a dinner party. And it’s hard to find a driver at the end of the year.

Second, refuse to drink for physical reasons. For example, I am relatively thin, and every time I have a dinner party, I refuse to drink because I have a bad stomach. Sometimes I even add insult to injury by saying how bad drinking alcohol is for my body. As a female colleague, the arrival of an aunt may be a good reason to refuse to drink.

Third, refuse to drink for family reasons. Many male compatriots will tell their leaders that their wives (girlfriends) are not allowed to drink. Drinking will risk being beaten or broken up with. And many colleagues who want to have a second child have even more reasons to refuse to drink.

There are many weird reasons for refusing to drink. Just think of them based on your actual situation.

In fact, the company's year-end dinner is more about employees from various departments of the company exchanging feelings, cultivating tacit understanding and celebrating the company's achievements in the year. If conditions permit, you can drink. If conditions do not allow or you really don’t want to drink, then a polite refusal is appropriate. Your boss can't fire you just because you don't drink. If this is true, then such a company will not have much future, and there is no need to stay. Moreover, employees born in the 1990s and 1995s have begun to become the main force of the company, and they all have more personality. If these young people are forced to drink, it is possible for them to embarrass their leaders on the spot, or even resign immediately. Therefore, whether all employees should drink alcohol must be determined based on the actual situation.

If you are drinking beer, pour tea into the cup in advance. For white wine, just boil water. Don’t sit in a conspicuous position. Otherwise, follow the rules and don’t make noises. Generally, they won’t care about you.

First make sure that when you say full cup, you don’t mean the bar [face covering].

I often deal with governments and enterprises, and I have indeed met a few times the kind of people you mentioned, who must drink until the glass is dry no matter what is in their glass. Generally, they start after they drink too much. They only do this when they are drunk, and they are all older, over forty years old.

But there should be a lot of people at your dinner party. If you don’t drink wine, others won’t care too much about how you drink, so you can be casual.

I once had a get-together with friends and had the experience of vomiting after drinking tea [laughs]. That was because I had to pull out teeth, take anti-inflammatory drugs, and couldn’t drink white wine. Others have a glass of beer or a sip of liquor, I have a cup of tea, and in the end I drink until I vomit [cover my face]

In fact, there are many tips on the wine table. If you don’t drink, the first thing to do is to look for them when dividing tables or seats. Good location. Avoid sitting with people who drink. If you can only sit with people who drink, find one with better drinks. Second, when eating, try to drink less drinks or water and eat more dishes. When you are not a particularly important role, you can withdraw when you see others withdraw. If you can't withdraw, talk less and listen more to the drinkers.

In summary, there are many tips on the wine table. Study more, and try to accompany those who don’t know how to drink. Eat more food in the first half, and listen more in the second half. No matter when, if you have high emotional intelligence, you will not suffer. [Laughs]

First of all, your boss just asked you to fill the glass, but did not say that the glass must be full. This means you can have a full cup of Sprite, a full cup of Coke, a full cup of orange juice or even a full cup of boiled water.

Secondly, the boss of the dinner party only cares about the atmosphere, and does not care whether you drink or not, so you don’t have to have a psychological burden. You don’t have to drink when you go, just to cheer up.

Finally, the boss wants employees who are helpful to the company. Whether they can drink or not is not a big deal. You will not be promoted just because you know how to drink, and you will not be fired just because you can’t drink. The most important thing is The most important thing is to find your own place in the company. There is no point in trying to socialize and please the boss.