Why can no one express the sorrow of middle-aged people?

There is really no way to express the sadness of middle-aged people! At this age, everyone around you has their own families. If you tell others about your troubles, others may not be willing to listen! Even if we want to listen, if we talk too much, we will feel pretentious and too glass-hearted!

Sometimes nothing feels the same.

As people grow older, the friends around them will become more and more distant. Because we each have our own families, and they are all working hard for their own families. Even if they want to talk about something in their hearts, the other party may not have time to listen. We have time to talk about these things, so it seems that we might as well work hard to keep ourselves busy. Forget about those troublesome things!

If you talk too much, you are afraid of becoming a negative energy and affecting others.

If we are around 30 years old now, our youthfulness has faded and we can be considered a mature person! I have learned to put myself in other people's shoes. No matter how good a friend is, sometimes my own sadness will be ignored, and I don't want to pour too much bitterness on others. Besides, which adult has the word "easy"? Everyone has pain, so why should I be alone?

The person you know best may not always be around.

Let me give you an example. I have a very good best friend who later married and moved to Shandong. It has been 10 years now. After being away from each other for so many years, when we meet again, our life experiences are different. . Sometimes we can only chat about how our children are doing, and we can only briefly touch on other things without going into depth. So you should digest some things by yourself!

Even if we have many friends around us, you don’t know if our sadness will turn into a joke and be ridiculed by others. If you don’t talk about your life well, it will already be ironic if you have a bad life. Now, if you express your sadness, how many people will understand your feelings? No one can personally feel that at night, when you can't sleep, you will be in a daze by yourself, comfort yourself, and digest it by yourself! At any time, you still have to rely on yourself!