The person I like is married for the second time. I like her very much, but I'm afraid my parents won't agree to joke with my friends. What should I do?

You should be careful about this matter. Your love for her is not so strong that you have to marry her. Specifically, you need to consider the following things: What if your parents always disagree? Marriage is not just between you and her. Marriage is a problem of two families. Your parents are firmly opposed to it. How should you deal with it? Marriage is not a dinner party, it involves two families, and your situation is more complicated, so you must figure it out before you act.

can you accept her children? This is very important, because it will involve a lot of contacts between her and her ex-husband's family. If this is unacceptable, let's leave early and don't get deeper and deeper. Your indifference to your child will cause her dissatisfaction and cause problems in your relationship. After all, it is impossible for her child to give up. It's really hard to be a stepfather. If you don't educate, you'll be sorry for your children.

how to face the doubts of relatives and friends? If you get married, there will inevitably be relatives and friends gossiping behind your back. You should objectively evaluate your own psychological stress resistance. If you can't stand gossip, you two will never be happy. How do you deal with the dull period after passion? The survival period of love will soon pass, and there will be more contradictions in the future. Now you have become dull and contradictions are gradually emerging. How do you deal with these contradictions after you get married?

If you think these problems can be overcome, you really love her and she won't marry in this life, then love her, accept her past and do a good job in parents' ideological work. If you hesitate to stay with her just because of sympathy, I advise you to break up with her. Breaking up now is far less harmful to her than if you regret divorcing her after marriage. That is fatal.