How to coax your girlfriend not to get angry?

Hello, theme! I have received your question. I'm Ke Bai, the emotional consultant of Zhiyue Studio.

There are many factors that make girlfriends angry. Some girls like to use "anger" to verify whether a boy really likes her. I hope a boy can prove how much he cares about himself by coaxing himself and pleasing her. Another situation is that when you get along, you are dissatisfied and really angry; Therefore, if you want to make your girlfriend happy, you must first distinguish the situation;

If you want to deal with this situation, you need to do this:

1, to understand the differences between men and women

In love, what boys care about and think that what they give to each other may not be what they really want. If you can't read this? The result is easy to be thankless; For example, girls want to be paid more attention by their boyfriends, and often send WeChat greetings to pay attention to her daily dress changes; All these make girls feel your concern for her and deepen their love for her; Boys, on the other hand, tend to ignore these situations and focus on right and wrong things;

2. Understand each other's feelings

When girls are angry, boys should learn to understand each other's feelings instead of being reasonable. For example, are you angry that I didn't call you on a business trip the other day? Feeling like I don't care about you? You see, this statement is all about understanding each other's feelings. When feelings are seen, anger disappears; If you reason with her at the moment, the other person's experience is that you are making excuses;

3. Express your opinion

When you feel the feelings of the other party, you should also express your views in time, otherwise it is easy to fall into a passive accommodation situation; In fact, it is not very healthy for the long-term development of emotions; In this way, you can also let the other person know where your hobbies are. How to satisfy your own preferences? As the saying goes, good emotions are mutual achievements and mutual affinity;

Business relationship is actually a technical activity; How to find the right one in the crowd? How to live in harmony with her? How do we know whether our values match? These are all things that need to be understood in love, which is very important for future development;

If you have the same confusion, please come to me for advice. I'm Ke Bai, the relationship counselor. Click here to go directly to:

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