What kind of person do you think is suitable for marriage?

We like someone, fall in love with someone, and being with him is never the ultimate goal. As Ceng Xiaoxian said, all relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans. Except hooligans, we all hope to walk into the marriage hall with the other half and get on the happy express train.

Sometimes we always have a question, is he the only thrill, can we hold hands for a lifetime, and will we be so happy together forever?

The future is unknown and full of variables, but it is not irregular. Sometimes when you doubt whether you are suitable for marriage, your heart has given your own answer.

I actually hate the word "suitable" because I haven't really met Mr. Black.

The word "appropriate" is sometimes easily interpreted by the public as "making do" and full of utilitarian color. How can I put it? Just like the old marriage concept of parents and relatives of the older generation, they will always try to change your love and marriage concept and drag the beautiful feelings you once believed into reality.

They will say that it is unrealistic to wait for love to come to you or to look for love. Why don't you find a similar husband and get into a suitable marriage? Nothing unique in the world is suitable for the soul. Every couple has to make do, and it doesn't matter who they marry.

I can't agree with this view, which makes me feel that "fit" only applies to marriages without love. In a marriage with love, this word is undoubtedly chicken ribs.

But since I met Mr. Black, one day I suddenly felt that my outlook on the world, life and love had some unprecedented changes.

It seems that the right person is not so annoying, but a kind of appropriateness.

I am a fragile person, easy to collapse, but girls will have such a fragile side in the end.

Often because I can't make up my mind and can't find the most suitable solution, I collapse. I can't sleep all night because some things can't be completed satisfactorily. When I encounter some difficulties and setbacks, I can't help but give up.

I always blurt out hurtful and negative words and pass on my negative emotions to others.

But Mr. Black is the opposite of me. He is very calm and always calms me down at the next moment.

"There will always be a way." This is his mantra, and it is also the true meaning of life that he tirelessly conveys to me. Time can tell everything. The trouble at present is only temporary. Later, you will find that all the questions have answers. As long as you try your best, things will always develop in a good direction.

Later, I found out that the reason why the sky will never fall is that he is supporting me, but my character is getting more and more calm and calm, thanks to him.

Lin once described love like this: you are the flower of the tree, and the swallows whisper among the beams. You are love, warmth and hope, and you are April day on earth.

I used to think that Lin said that love is great enough and romantic, but later I did find out that when you meet the right person, he is really an April day on earth, dispelling the haze and driving away the harsh winter for you, and the spring breeze is warm.

He won't love you so much, he won't give you love like a song and a dream, and he won't read those opera lines for you.

He is like a tree in your life, which blooms a touch of green for you at the moment when all the trees are withered in late autumn.

When many people talk about people suitable for marriage, they will talk about the consistency of the three views and the harmony of values. Many times, although I agree, I still feel that such conditions are not applicable to everyone.

Everyone will say the three values, but not many people can really understand their meaning. How do they find the right partner according to the script?

Although the relationship and marriage have reached a high enough level, it has also made many ordinary people out of reach and too abstract.

Therefore, I have always added that it is not so difficult for the three views to conform to values. At the end of the day, it just means that you don't get along with him.

For example, whether there are the same smiles and tears is really important. If he is the right person for you, you will find that he keeps smiling at you, and you feel the same way when he is sad.

He told a cold joke that no one thought funny, but you laughed with him. When he is sad for a little thing, everyone thinks he is too sentimental, but only you can understand his inner kindness and gentleness.

You can easily get his smiles and tears and enjoy the spiritual world with him. Perhaps this is the most popular sentence, there is a heart.

Hobbies let us talk about everything forever. Sometimes the topic between us is like an alien language, which only exists in our world, and others can't understand it and can't get in.

When we were not together, he was shocked to find that I liked Leslie Cheung. He is also a big fan of my brother. Because of my brother, we have a good impression on each other and an impulse to know more about each other. This is not only our idol, but also our interest.

Mr. Black and I both like Marvel comics because we like them so much. Sometimes we can even discuss a detail for a whole day, look for information in many ways, disagree with each other's views, and even quarrel over a hero we like. Such behavior seems boring and naive to our friends, but we are never tired of it.

Roy clift once said, I love you not only because of your appearance, but also because of who I am when I am with you.

The right person is like a mirror. Being with the right person is looking in the mirror. After comparing each other again and again, you will find your own shortcomings and correct them. He will also find his own shortcomings and learn more. You became each other and made each other.

Because of the family growing environment, my father was taciturn and my mother was paranoid. As a result, adults are not good at communicating with their parents. Even though we both love each other deeply, once we sit face to face, the atmosphere becomes extremely awkward and we will break up in a bad mood without saying a few words. It's normal to call my parents with a cheerful face at first, and it's normal to start yelling at the phone in less than a minute. Disharmony with my parents has always been my heart disease.

Mr. Black has always looked in my eyes and helped me understand the care and love hidden behind some hurtful words from my parents. They love me, but there is something wrong with the expression. When Mr. Black showed me this, I began to change slowly, stepping back from my hard shell and becoming soft and considerate.

Because he is excellent, I will try to make myself better, because he found a goal in my originally confused life and made great strides. Because of all this, he has become a symbol of my life to some extent, which has greatly changed my life trajectory and made me a better person.

Whether the other half is the right person for you to get married seems not easy to see through, but it is actually easy. Just because of his appearance, let your ordinary life bloom a flower.

When you are together, you will have endless words. There is no need to find a topic, and there is no need to warm up deliberately. Everything is natural, natural.

Even if they don't talk to each other, they are busy and don't disturb each other, it is still a tacit understanding.

You will achieve each other and make yourself better.