After marrying Phoenix Man, I realized that he was not sincere towards me and had been plotting my property. What should I do?

01.

Almost everyone can get married, but not everyone can meet true love, and it is even more difficult for two people to be happy. Therefore, true love will appear precious and good.

When they are young, girls are easily emotional and think that the person they meet is the love of their life. But I have never thought that if you love him so much, does he really love you the same way?

Time is the best way to test love. Whether it is true or not, it can be fulfilled one by one in the face of time. People who love you will turn passionate love into mutual affection. For people who don't love you, the ugly sides of human nature will be exposed one by one. In the end, you will also discover his purpose of being with you.

There is a certain reason why so many women hate Phoenix men and would rather be single than get married. Phoenix Man has a temperament that men who grew up in big cities don't have: stingy and calculating.

Especially when a man whose family is extremely poor, who suffered the hardships of poverty as a child and was ostracized by his relatives, who relies on his academic performance to get ahead when he grows up, and who wants to gain a foothold in the city, the resentment and low self-esteem in his body, It is difficult to eliminate it in a short time.

They usually have good grades and work hard, but their achievements are still limited, so they are eager to change their destiny through marriage and quickly achieve the results they want.

This is the most disgusting thing about the Phoenix Man, but many young women don’t think of this when they meet love, thinking that meeting the hard-working and motivated man will be the love of their lives. , but never thought that others are taking advantage of this to stand on your shoulders and climb up.

02.

Zhao Cen (pseudonym) had very strict tutoring since she was a child. She was not allowed to fall in love while studying at home, for fear of affecting her studies. It was not until she started working after graduation that her parents relaxed their requirements. , often told her that she needs to find a capable person to be worthy of entrusting her with her for life, but he did not tell her that marrying someone depends on their character.

Zhao Cen met Chen Yuan (pseudonym) in the company. He did an excellent job. At the age of 29, he had already become a department manager. His salary was acceptable, but he wanted to buy a house and settle down in a big city. , we still have to work hard for a few more years.

Zhao Cen, who has been obedient since childhood, admires young talents like Chen Yuan very much. And Zhao Cen is an only child, and has a Beijing household registration. There are two houses in the name of his parents, while Chen Yuan's family conditions are relatively poor. Both parents are farmers. It took a lot of effort to train a college student. It can be said that Zhao Cen The conditions are much better than Chen Yuan.

But Zhao Cen didn't care about this at all and still fell deeply in love with Chen Yuan. She felt that he had a hard work in him that she admired the most.

As the relationship deepened, Zhao Cen took Chen Yuan home to show his parents. Chen Yuan’s modest and gentlemanly appearance greatly impressed Zhao Cen’s parents. Only his background made him My family situation is not very satisfactory. In addition to his parents, he has a younger brother and a younger sister. The younger brother dropped out of school and the younger sister is still in college. He pays for all the tuition fees. The family still lives in the old house. Chen Yuan cannot afford a house in a big city. If he really gets married in the future, where will his daughter live?

Zhao Cen’s parents were embarrassed by this, but out of love, they asked their daughter to think about it again.

Zhao Cen, who fell in love, could not imagine this at all. He always felt that love has power. Without material things, it doesn’t matter. As long as the husband and wife work together to create, he never thought that such love has long been possible. Not pure.

03.

The two have been dating for nearly a year, and Chen Yuan’s parents are urging them to get married and have grandchildren. Although Zhao Cen's parents were worried, they agreed to their marriage because their daughter was determined to get married and her future son-in-law seemed kind and considerate.

Zhao Cen’s parents felt sorry for their daughter and were worried that her daughter would not have a fixed place to live after marriage, so they transferred two apartments in their own names to their daughter and son-in-law.

I once saw a joke on the Internet, asking why a man’s attitude towards women is completely different before and after marriage, and is not as good as before marriage.

Someone’s answer was a bit ridiculous, but very vivid. He said: Have you ever seen a fish take the bait and still use bait?

Yes, for a Phoenix man, a girl from a superior family is like a fish in the water, while a man’s warmth and thoughtfulness are like the bait. Once you catch the fish and marry him, the bait will be gone. When there is no need for it anymore, the man puts away his so-called gentleness and considerateness and exposes his true nature.

After getting married, Chen Yuan’s family all moved into new houses and enjoyed the city life. They were truly blessed by Zhao Cen.

Originally, the house only had three bedrooms, which was not enough for living, but Chen Yuan’s parents and younger siblings still squeezed in.

Zhao Cen and his wife share a room, his parents-in-law share a room, and his brother-in-law wants another room. His sister-in-law goes to school and there is no room available. When he comes back from vacation, he usually lives with his mother-in-law, and his father-in-law lives with his brother-in-law.

Not to mention how crowded a family is, there are also many conflicts in places with many people. Only after you get married can you truly understand what it means to be an outsider.

Zhao Cen’s parents-in-law always show off their son’s excellence and use their son’s prestige to suppress and make things difficult for their daughter-in-law. At first, Zhao Cen would confide in Chen Yuan, saying that her parents-in-law were not good enough to her and seemed to be targeting her intentionally. Chen Yuan said casually: "You are too worried. My parents are farmers and they are honest people. They are definitely not the people you think."

This really makes Zhao Cen sad. It's true. As if she had wronged a good person.

04.

Sometimes, the five members of this family sit together, talking and laughing, but ignore Zhao Cen, and even lie on the sofa without wanting to do anything. The meal was waiting for Zhao Cen to make it, and he looked like he was here to enjoy life, which made Zhao Cen feel filled with panic.

Zhao Cen felt very uncomfortable and called Chen Yuan into the room to ask for details. Chen Yuan blamed her: "The family is happily reunited. Don't ruin everyone's happiness. Go Let's cook."

Zhao Cen finally understood Chen Yuan's intentions, which had always been towards his family. The whole family treated him like an outsider and a nanny, and of course they were not happy.

So he replied: "If I don't do it, won't you eat it?"

"If you don't do it, you are not my wife of the Chen family. If you want to I, Chen Yuan’s wife, must be obedient, filial to my parents-in-law, and obey my husband’s instructions.”

Chen Yuan’s ugly attitude as a villain was finally exposed after marriage. Now for him, The woman got married and his name was on the real estate certificate. He was not worried about Zhao Cen getting divorced at all. He was even eager to get divorced so that he could divide the house and property. Anyway, Zhao Cen brought a lot of dowry, except for the car. There are still savings. If they are divided, Chen Yuan will not suffer at all.

What a sophisticated calculation. No wonder the Chen family would scold Zhao Cen and not take her seriously. It turned out that they had calculated against her from the beginning and had no intention of letting her become a member of the Chen family. Long lasting wife.

For Chen Yuan, he never really loved Zhao Cen, he just used her as a stepping stone to climb higher and have more.

Through Zhao Cen’s father’s relationship, Chen Yuan successfully moved to another large company, and was promoted from department manager to director. He was already promoted to the top level in his early 30s. It can be said that he took a shortcut, and ordinary people could not catch up. , if you want to be promoted to director, you may not be able to do it if you are under 40 years old.

Writer Li Youyi once said: "Aspiring young people never expect marriage to bring about a turnaround in their lives, but a Phoenix man hopes that a woman will contribute to his life."

05.

Zhao Cen finally realized that Chen Yuan had already planned this step from the beginning when he approached him. From the beginning to the end, he was pretending to be a good man and son-in-law, and he never loved him at all.

More sorrow than death, the inhumane you encounter is not worth spending your life guarding this kind of scumbag, nor is it worth spending time to continue dealing with these despicable people. The best result is to turn around. Leave and find your true love.

Zhao Cen divorced Chen Yuan. Chen Yuan also got what he wanted, got the property he wanted, and finally reached what he called the peak of his life.

But what was obtained through such despicable means must be paid back in the end.

A year later, Chen Yuan was ostracized by people in the company who reported him for corruption, bribery, and false accounting. He was finally pulled down from his position and became unemployed. After breaking up, the mother had no money to continue paying off the mortgage, and the house was quickly taken away by the bank. The whole family had to rent a house and lived a worse life than before in the countryside.

After Zhao Cen got over his emotional pain, he met the right husband on a blind date through the introduction of his family. The two of them lived a happy life. At least, they did not have to plot against each other for money. Because her husband's conditions are even better than those of the Zhao family.

Zhao Cen’s experience tells female friends: When dealing with a Phoenix man, never give him your most precious thing. This most precious thing is your sincerity.

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