How are the children after their parents divorced?

A good family is really important for children. After a friend divorced his wife, he raised two sons at home. Seeing the two children grow up in an environment without maternal love, great changes have taken place.

Changes in personality

Before the divorce, the two children were lively and beloved, and everyone familiar with them on the road would take the initiative to call uncle and aunt. Since my parents divorced, I have become unconfident. On the road, I always walk with my head down, and there is no smile on my face. The biggest influence of parents' divorce on children is reflected in their study. Perhaps the spirit of single-parent families is not enough, or children give up on themselves. Many divorced families' children's achievements will plummet, give up on themselves, and they will be on the edge of the class collective, and then get in touch with bad things in society too early, such as skipping classes, puppy love, online games, and so on.

Changes in learning

The older child used to listen to friends mention that the results were quite good. I didn't know that divorce would bring such great harm to the child. The results plummeted, and he basically had no intention of studying. His father worked outside to earn money, and he followed his grandmother at home. Almost no one cared about the child's heart. Later, after graduating from junior high school, I stopped going to school and went out to work with my father. The younger son continued to live the same life as his brother. Seeing this, I personally can't really leave my children to the other person. I would rather work hard than raise and educate my children first. At the same time, I don't give up shaping myself, and I am ready to meet new feelings at any time. If I do, I will still give priority to children, at least until he becomes an adult.

Parents divorced and thought that their children were the most innocent. In addition, the divorce of friends was the woman's cheating, and the cheating object was the man's best friend who grew up together. This became a joke in the village after dinner, and all the children knew it, and they felt ashamed. In addition, they did not stop reasonable inner persuasion, which affected their lifelong fate. It was so sad. Therefore, when parents are divorced, it is always the children who are injured. You never know how much harm the separation of two people can bring to the children.