Every time I go home, my relatives ridicule me in various ways. What should I do?

You can curse your loved ones in one ear and out the other. You don't need to care. You must never scold them back. That will make your family even angrier. It's no different from cursing the street. If you don't have a family, you will lose your relationship. The scolding of relatives also hates you for not turning iron into steel. It is a provocation to you and a driving force for your success. You should know why your relatives scold you. Only by correcting your previous shortcomings, lifting your spirits, showing some courage, learning from past mistakes, putting your work into action and making a gesture can you make your relatives sit up and take notice of you and make them proud of your change and success.

We no longer consider blaming others, nor will we be angry with ourselves. We will quietly think that maybe the other party needs consideration and support. Other people's words and deeds may stimulate us, but they are not the root of our feelings. It is our needs and expectations, as well as our views on the words and deeds of others, that are the root of our feelings. It is very uncomfortable to be scolded by relatives for no reason, and depression is entirely possible. After thinking for a long time, I can't change others but change myself and strengthen myself. Prepare some appropriate words, respond to him when he hurts again, and let him know that you are not easy to bully. However, if you want to master the sense of proportion, don't hurt him too much, your relatives, maybe your elders. I think that if people are good at being bullied, they should also have self-defense awareness.

The wrong expression turned into harm. Maybe your relatives intended to make you a useful person. Constant repression may make you feel inferior and lose confidence. What you can do is to change yourself and actively communicate with your parents. You can tell your relatives what they said, and tell them that I felt very sad when you said this. Your satire, sarcasm, and suppression, like a knife, gouged out my heart. If it worked, I wouldn't be in this state. I know you enabled me to make a difference. I am trying to do everything well, and I hope to get your support. Bitter words only make me feel inferior more and more. To arouse my confidence, I must say yes first.