My first blind date with a woman cost 100 yuan for a meal, and the man had to pack leftovers. What do you think?

Dating has increasingly become a way for men and women to enter into marriage, because free love marriage is really difficult. Even if two people have been in love since they were students, once they enter the society, they will face different challenges. For various real-life problems, it is inevitable to break up in the end.

For those single men and women who have been working for many years, because there are too few people of the opposite sex in the circle around them, there are only so many fixed groups; except for those who are already married, the rest may be I feel nothing.

Therefore, many people begin to complete their lifelong events through blind dates.

But even a blind date is a matter of probability. Maybe you will meet a "weird character" during the blind date.

A female reader sent me a private message to confide in me. She said that it was the first time she went on a blind date with a boy. Unexpectedly, some of the boy's actions made her completely lose confidence in the blind date.

1. Female readers confided:

I really can’t help but want to complain about a blind date I met. I have never seen such a stingy man before. There is no gentlemanly demeanor at all, and he still wants to deceive a little girl with a meal. What age are we in, can we be more mature?

I just went on a blind date with a 26-year-old boy a few days ago. This boy was introduced by a colleague of my mother. He was said to be the only child in the family. His family conditions were not bad. Both parents had formal jobs; his parents gave him I found connections and got myself into a fairly small company. Although the salary was a little lower, it was still a serious job.

I am 24 years old. I just graduated from college last year and am still working.

Actually, I don’t have that strong desire for marriage. I just feel that I shouldn’t consider getting married so early just yet. I want to work hard on my career first.

After all, I have an older brother who is already married, so my parents haven’t particularly urged me to get married. They feel that since they have also introduced me, they can’t refute their reputation.

I had no choice but to go on a blind date, added him as a friend and chatted for almost a while. As soon as I looked through his circle of friends, I felt that he was really a straight man.

She is only 26 years old, but she looks like she is 30 years old.

None of these are too much. The most outrageous thing was when he asked me to go out for dinner.

I don’t think it’s a big deal to go to a more formal and romantic restaurant for a first date, right?

But he was kind enough and asked me to go to a small restaurant directly. He said the food tasted good, but the table was dirty, black and greasy.

I ordered two dishes and one soup for dinner. I didn’t move my chopsticks very much and stopped eating after a few bites. When he saw that I wasn’t eating, he also stopped eating. Unexpectedly, he took 2 I started packing the leftovers with a bag...

This meal cost 69 yuan. He also told me: I can pack the leftovers when I go to work tomorrow morning. Have breakfast and lunch.

To be honest, I had no good impression of him at all at that time.

I think it is really weird for a boy to be stingy to this extent.

If the two of us are together and in love, then it’s okay to be frugal; but after all, this is the first date, the first blind date, isn’t it too much?

2. The author explains:

1. The first blind date, the first date for dinner, such behavior is really inappropriate

I want to do it instead Most men will choose a restaurant that is more romantic and a little stylish; even if the girl directly proposes the AA system at the end of the checkout, it is better to go to such an unclean small restaurant to eat.

After all, this is a first date, and first impressions are really important.

The female reader’s blind date did not leave a good impression at all. Not only did he not discuss the restaurant with the female reader beforehand, but he also did not consider the girl, whether she was full or not. I need to eat something else.

Maybe it’s because of low emotional intelligence, or maybe it’s just that she’s really stingy.

2. Every blind date is a process of growth and discovery for you

Dating every blind date is actually an enrichment of your own emotional experience; you can Comparing each blind date, is there something shining in them that can attract you? What does your ideal lover look like?

What behaviors during a blind date are most unacceptable to you?

Every question is actually the experience and growth brought to you by blind date.