Relatives often laugh at our family

You should beat them to vent your displeasure, because the reason for your dissatisfaction is that your vanity has not been satisfied.

Let me analyze it for you:

They can buy a school today, but they can also buy their future, their income, their status, their connections and so on tomorrow. Your family will definitely not be able to compare with this. superior. So you don't have to be arrogant on this point. Some people may give you a few compliments, but you don't need to take it too seriously. After all, this is your disadvantage.

Not to mention that society is degenerate, and spending money to buy things is not illegal. In fact, no one would say they are morally wrong.

As for you, now you keep laughing at your cousins ??for not studying hard, just to get psychological satisfaction.

In fact? Looking at it from another perspective, they are already the same as you before they work hard. If one day they change their ways and decide to work hard, but you have no enough stamina and can't get up, then won't they compare you with you again? And when the time comes, they will still laugh at you, won't your vanity be satisfied again?

Don’t feel uncomfortable, everyone is the same, if you work hard, others will too. And they have "foreign aid" but you don't, so I think the probability that you become "Cinderella" and then they apologize and admit their mistake with a smile is almost 0.

If you "rely on your own strength" and still lose to them and are still looked down upon by them, you won't be happy either.

Instead of standing in front of a dilapidated cabin and saying, "I rely on my own strength" when you are in your 60s, and letting the children in your village see it as a joke, It would be more cost-effective to beat them up now.