What if my husband goes whoring?

Sexual life is not harmonious, I have been whoring twice, and I haven't given birth to a child for six years. Under such circumstances, what made your marriage stick? If the feelings are weak, it is okay to separate. There are still better opportunities waiting for you while you are young.

If you still have deep feelings for him and want to continue this relationship, then you can adopt the following 3 Yes and 3 No:

Be "calm" and not "self-denial"

When you found out that your husband was whoring, you must have been unacceptable, angry and angry at first. This is a normal psychology. The calmer you are at this time, the more you say that quarreling in the early stage will not play a very good role in the development of your relationship, but will pull out more contradictions, because girls generally like to turn over old scores. Calm down and think about why my husband is whoring, really just because of work, or because of marital discord. Then find time for two people to negotiate calmly 1 time. It's just communication between two people. Don't involve both parents, which will alienate more people in the family and cause an irreparable situation. He must be sincere when communicating. You should listen carefully and analyze the specific reasons. But one thing to remember is that what the other party says is not necessarily true. He may be lying and making excuses. Therefore, don't deny yourself and feel bad about yourself. After all, you are the injured party. Don't be too afraid of losing each other. You should reflect on the facts. The more you keep a low profile, the more presumptuous he is.

To "reach * * * knowledge", don't "forgive easily"

Prostitution is addictive if it is not stopped in time, so don't forgive it easily. Maybe you can forgive him easily under his low-key and coaxing. In this way, things you don't want to happen will keep appearing, or even get worse. If after communication, the other party regrets and is willing to correct, then find out the problem, propose improvement measures, reach an understanding, and sign an agreement or record if necessary. People are generally afraid of evidence such as agreements or recordings, and bind each other with an invisible rope.

Be "enthusiastic and self-reliant", not "dependent on perfection"

Men change when they have money, so you must master the economic power in marriage, and let him leave the economy to you when he has regrets. Change your personality properly on weekdays, become enthusiastic and cheerful, and find a harmonious husband and wife lifestyle. And constantly improve yourself, become independent and self-reliant, don't always rely on him, let him feel that he is suffering, so he dare not expect anything.

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I hope these methods can inspire you and make your life happier!

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