Why is silence embarrassing?

Because no one knows what the other person is thinking when they are silent, and it is easier for people to fall into random thoughts and speculations at this time. Usually when we get along with others, we will do something to alleviate the embarrassing situation, such as chatting, telling jokes, playing games, etc. When our attention is focused on the same thing, the atmosphere is Relaxing and enjoyable. If the other person's focus is always on you, it will definitely be awkward.

In fact, not all silence will make people feel embarrassed. For example, silence between family members and close friends does not. The silence between you and your best friend is a sign of tacit understanding - two people write different things but can create a very harmonious atmosphere. The silences that can make us feel awkward are mostly those between strangers and people we don’t know very well. That's why many people bring their best friends with them on blind dates to avoid embarrassment. It’s inevitable to feel awkward when you’re getting along with strangers but can’t find a suitable topic to chat with. Therefore, we always avoid being alone with strangers or unfamiliar people to a certain extent.

However, we should learn how to avoid social embarrassment in life. When we have to get along with someone we don't know well, we should first be sincere and proactive. We can respond to the other person's greetings with a smile, or we can take the initiative to say hello to the other person. Furthermore, you should adjust your mentality and don't think that not speaking means embarrassment. If the other party says hello to you and then nothing happens, or the other party does not respond positively to your greetings. Then don't feel embarrassed, because you have already treated each other politely, and it is not you who should be embarrassed, but the other person. Also, you can be more proactive. When the other party is silent, you can appropriately start some topics to resolve the embarrassment.