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Most people don’t want to see you well, they hope you’re not as good as they are

Everyone wants to succeed, and everyone wants to share their successful experience with the people around them, so that their relatives and friends know that you are doing well and applaud your success, but you, long for Being recognized and encouraged, however, have you ever thought that in fact, your relatives and friends may not be happy for your success, and they may not want you to live better than them.

When I first graduated, it was very difficult to find a job. Later, when I finally found a job, it was still my least favorite field of sales. Since I was a child, I have been relatively introverted and don't talk much. This situation did not improve until I got to college, but it is still very difficult to do sales. The basic sales salary was small, and the salary was pitiful without commission. The salary I received every month was almost enough after paying the rent. There was no surplus left to buy clothes, cosmetics, etc. At that time, I was ashamed to talk about my job, because I I'm embarrassed to tell others that I can't even support myself, and I have to subsidize my family every month.

It’s strange. When you are having a bad day, everyone around you knows it, and they all come around to ask you questions about this and that. Some relatives heard about my story and laughed sarcastically: "I didn't expect you to do this." I looked at him laughing so gloatingly that I couldn't say a word, so I could only nod silently and let the idle chatter go around. In my case; some relatives tried their best to persuade me to return to my hometown, saying that I was a girl who went to a first-tier city alone with no one to take care of me. I would eventually have to return to my hometown to get married. They even said that they had found a job for me in my hometown. .

Everyone was opposed to me staying in the big city. Even my mother, who had always loved me and supported me, couldn’t bear these gossips. At that time, I was the most helpless and stressed, and I could only be alone. Carrying it all. When you are having a bad life, everyone has the right to criticize you. Everyone will stand up and use their experience and ideas to persuade you to live the same life as them. Of course, most of them will just watch the joke from the other side. "I just smiled, I didn't speak."

Later, when I found a good and stable job that they said, no one stood up to applaud me anymore, and everyone sank to the bottom of the sea. Relatives who mocked me no longer asked me about work or smiled at me. The relatives who advised me to go home to work in the factory, and the relatives who asked me to go home and wait until I got married and have children, no longer said a word.

When you are at your lowest and most in need of support, there will often be many opposing voices. They seem to be for your own good, but in fact they want to make you just like them. Staying in a small county all your life, you will always be a frog in the well, and even have to endure gossip: "My job as a junior college student is better than your job as a so-called undergraduate."

They just don't want you. Just living better than them.

Many times, your so-called relatives and friends do not want you to live well. They want you to be like her, or even not as good as her.

Once you show her all your good qualities, such as a good job, a good partner, and good popularity, this so-called intimate relationship will become weaker and weaker because you are living a better life than she is.

"I used to have a better job than you and I had a partner, but you didn't have a partner. I'm obviously better than you, so why are you living better than me now? You can live the life I want, but why should I?" No? "When there is difference, there is contrast, and when there is contrast, there is good and bad. In most cases, when a person who was at the same level as you or lower than you suddenly one day lives the life you want and lives a better life than you, you will start to envy or even be jealous, "Why does this person It can’t be me, why should it be her?”

Only those who sincerely wish you well will help you, support you and encourage you when you are down. They are happier than you when you succeed. They just hope that you can live better than them. For example, parents or another partner. And most people, they don't want to see you well, they hope that you will not live as well as them, even if you are a good friend that you were once proud of. Although they keep saying that they are good friends who can help you through mountains of swords and seas of fire, they may not be there when you really need help, and they may not be truly happy for you after you succeed.

You happily share your work, life, etc. with them. Although they are happy for you on the surface and say many high-sounding good things, when you turn around, they begin to envy you and envy you. Stay away from you.

Because this is human nature. No one wants to live worse than others. People who don’t treat you sincerely can’t see you well from the bottom of their hearts. They hope that you live worse than him. They don’t care about you when you are confused and helpless. Sometimes they try hard to make you just like them.