Because of kindness, I have been hurt and used, and I don't want to be kind anymore. Can you be understood?

What I want to say is, don't do anything against your mind because you are upset, or do something you don't want to do against your mind. Although you avoid being hurt, you personally put a heavy moral yoke on your kind heart.

Because of kindness, it is always hurt and used, so can it be understood as giving up kindness and becoming as mean as those wicked people?

The answer will never be understood.

When you choose to abandon kindness and become a villain because of disappointment and sadness, others will not think that your change is forced, but that your previous kindness is a hypocritical disguise.

Even when a good person is blacked out, people around you hate and reject you more than those who do evil. This is because your transformation from good to evil has broken their original understanding of you, and this way of breaking will stimulate their impression more strongly.

The most terrible thing for human beings is the unknown, so the hardest thing to accept is that the original cognition has been broken, because it will make people feel that everything is out of control, and the environment that was once very familiar has become very strange and insecure, so when a very kind person around them becomes a bad person, they will strongly reject you, and it is even more impossible to understand you, because your changes and personality trends are uncontrollable for them. If given a choice, they would rather choose an unkind person, because for them, at least they are familiar with him and know him, so it is not so hard to accept.

Because of fear of being hurt, it is not a good choice to abandon good and follow evil.

Doing good without brains will become self-defeating, and doing bad without brains will become digging your own grave.

The 5,000-year history of China tells us that it is more difficult to be a good person than a bad person, because everyone has bad habits. No famous good person or bad person in history can live long because he has enough wisdom.

What a successful good man and a successful bad man have in common is that they are smart enough. If you are not smart enough, even if you are kind, you will become stupid in the eyes of others, and even in the end you will suffer because of your kindness. If you are not smart enough, the ending will be even worse.

It is not easy to have a kind heart. Doing good is like asking you to sit, stand, stand, and do the right thing in the end. To do evil for a person is to leave the constraints on yourself behind and become standing, standing and sitting.

Follow your heart. It is your right to refuse the harm that others have caused you. No one can force you. I hope you can be a person who follows your heart.