After five years of marriage without children, people always make fun of my infertility. What should I do?

There is no need to deal with it deliberately, live for yourself and don't influence your lifestyle because of the guidance of others. Most people just make fun of you behind your back. If the other person satirizes you in front of you that you can't have children, you can argue with the other person directly and tell her not to mess around with dogs and mice. Of course, you can also choose a more rational way to let your mother-in-law or object take the initiative to say that she doesn't want children now when chatting with each other.

This phenomenon happens every day in rural areas. It is a matter between husband and wife that girls can't have children, but rural women always like to blame girls for their mistakes. I always regard this kind of thing as something to talk about after dinner, and paying too much attention to this kind of judging behavior will only waste time.

If you have fertility, time will tell. Even if you really can't have children, there is no need to feel too inferior. Two couples don't have to have children to live happily. They can adopt one when they are old. There are many people who can't have children now. They become the object of discussion by others, and one day this person will be discussed by others. Heaven has reincarnation, and heaven forgives anyone. I still hope that these idle gossip girls can correct their mistakes as soon as possible.

There is a couple next door who have been married for nearly five years and have no children. Everyone wants to know if they have any physical problems. I often smell the pot of Chinese medicine in the next room and give two people a tonic, but every year there is no movement, and their family is under great pressure. Others said that they had not discussed it face to face. Every time I see other newlyweds having children a year later, their expressions change subtly.

Sometimes there is bound to be a hit, there is no need to force it all the time. No matter whether we can have children or not, we should not be too reluctant. Marriage is not about having children, and the crystallization of love is not only about children. When the object is discussed as infertile, you must comfort yourself. If you don't even understand your partner, then this marriage will come to an end.