The wedding scene changed from 8,000 yuan per second to 80,000 yuan, and the groom was forced to agree. The groom filed for divorce that night. Why?

When we understand marriage in a different way, you will find that it is a wonderful thing to spend the rest of your life with a stranger.

Every good marriage needs a lot of things to maintain, but the most basic thing is mutual trust. When this kind of trust is in crisis, marriage is bound to crack.

We can run our marriage in the way we like, and we can also show our personality in love, but we must always be loyal and sincere.

Marriage does not tolerate any deception or calculation. When you get along with a certain purpose or use special occasions to satisfy that selfishness, karma will follow.

0 1. For Wang Tao, whose family conditions are very general, if she wants to get married smoothly, she must scrimp and save. Parents' income is not high, and they don't have any savings, so Wang Tao began to save money for the future as soon as he entered the society. Sometimes, in order to reduce expenses, he will buy several boxes of instant noodles at once.

After an annual salary of over 100,000 yuan, Wang Tao finally had the courage to fall in love. Through blind date, he met Feifei. Wang Tao, who was originally very dull, has changed from an introverted and inferior young man to a cheerful and positive young man under the nourishment of love. And his concept of love is also very simple: all listen to his girlfriend.

In the communication, both of them save money, and Feifei always asks Wang Tao how much he earns every month. In Feifei's words, she is planning for the future, because a girl should learn to manage money and keep a house. Wang Tao was very moved and handed Feifei the salary card directly.

02. After their parents met, they began to walk around each other's house. Every time I go to Feifei's house, Feifei will guide Wang Tao to buy some expensive cigarettes, wine and high-grade fruits. But when she went to Wang Tao's house, Feifei only prepared fruit and milk. When asked about this, Feifei smiled and said, "I gave it to your home. Do you care about this money as a big man? "

Seeing the wedding day approaching, Wang Tao began to feel uneasy, because Feifei never mentioned the related issues of bride price. Finally, a month before the wedding reception, Feifei brought a piece of paper, which listed all kinds of expenses and wedding customs. Including 6.5438+0.8 million bride price, 3,000 opening fee and 8,000 change fee.

Although the cost exceeded Wang Tao's budget, he could barely accept it because his parents also took out their savings to help him. After paying for the wedding banquet and other expenses, he borrowed a sum of money from his friends, which made up all the expenses. At this time, Wang Tao suddenly felt very tired. He thought his marriage would be extremely happy, but the economic pressure in the early stage has made him breathless.

Because Wang Tao and her parents are very honest and have no opinions, Feifei has the final say in all the details of the wedding. The wedding took place as scheduled. In the morning, when Wang Tao took a friend to pick up the bride, Feifei's parents temporarily asked for a fare of 5,000 yuan. Wang Tao is a little embarrassed, but for everyone's face, he can only choose to accept it.

At the wedding scene, after the first ceremony, Wang Tao and Feifei returned to their seats. At this time, Feifei and her parents said, "You change your mouth as soon as you go on stage. Is the change fee of80,000 ready? " In the face of a sudden change of heart, Wang Tao's family was completely shocked.

To Wang Tao's surprise, Feifei and her parents insisted on the demand of 80 thousand, and even threatened: if they don't promise, they will not come to power in the future! Knowing such a request, Wang Tao's mother burst into tears. In desperation, Wang Tao was forced to agree and immediately borrowed 80,000 yuan from several best friends. Finally, through on-site transfer, everyone completed the channel-changing ceremony on the stage.

After the wedding, Wang Tao directly sent Feifei back to her parents' home. That night, he filed for divorce. Finally, he left a message: "My kindness and sincerity are not for you." Such a unique wedding also taught Wang Tao a good lesson. Only then did he realize that the road to love was not as smooth as expected. Feifei never thought that retribution would come so quickly! Being abandoned on the wedding day is a big joke.

People who regard marriage and lover's trust as a kind of capital and then try their best to use each other don't deserve happiness at all. People with impure love concepts and impure hearts will gradually be exposed over time.

We have always regarded the pursuit of pure love as our goal in life. Unfortunately, when some people's love is transformed into marriage, it has too much to do with marriage and interests. Perhaps in their view, marriage is a good opportunity to accumulate wealth for themselves.

We should not distort the relationship between love and material, nor should we deliberately separate the relationship between material and love, because material has never affected true love. But we should also admit that material and money are touchstones to test human nature and literacy. Talking about marriage is a big test before we harvest happiness, and it is also the best time for us to see each other clearly.

We should understand each other's marriage customs, respect each other's marriage customs and make concessions in communication. Negotiating reasonable wedding details as soon as possible is the best way to establish a harmonious relationship quickly. There can be arguments in this process, but there must be sincerity and concessions.

No matter what kind of mentality and personality you use to treat your lover, you should be 100% sincere and kind at home.

Beautiful love will bring a lot of positive energy to both parties and families, but if you want to enjoy this kind of beauty, you must always be in awe of love, respect your lover and be loyal to your marriage.