She is as good looking as a big S and works as a nanny for her two younger sisters. The low-key Xu Xixian is the winner in life.

Not long ago, Big S and Gu Junye had a flash marriage, and Little S also got involved and made a fuss. She vowed that there is a trend that will not stop until all the "traffic wool" is collected.

Everyone knows about S and S, but what few people know is that the Xu family actually has an eldest sister named Xu Xixian.

Compared with the quarrels between the two younger sisters, Xu Xixian seems to be more low-key. Even people in the industry don't know that Big S actually has a biological sister.

Xu Xixian’s appearance was no worse than that of her younger sister a few years ago, but she did not choose to follow the same path as her younger sister.

My mother Huang Chunmei is strong, my second sister Xu Xiyuan is capable and decisive, my third sister Xu Xidi is also very capable, and what role does the low-key and introverted Xu Xixian play in a family where "four women have one life"?

Xu Xixian was born in Taiwan in 1974, her nickname is Zhenzhen, and her ancestral home is Linyi, Shandong.

My father is the young owner of a bank, and there are seven sisters in the family. It is a veritable "big family".

Obviously, judging from the family structure, this is a family that favors sons over daughters.

Xu Xixian’s mother, Huang Chunmei, was a woman from the countryside. Because she gave birth to her just one year after marrying into the Xu family, she was considered to be a woman who could give birth easily.

Although the first child was a girl, the Xu family still had great confidence in their mother, and the important task of prospering the incense was placed on Huang Chunmei.

However, as her mother's belly remained silent for nearly two years, the attitudes of several aunts towards mother and daughter soon changed significantly, allowing Xu Xixian to experience the warmth and warmth of family relationships prematurely.

Before her sister Xu Xiyuan was born, her mother had already endured the mental "torture" of the Xu family for a year.

In 1976, the baby girl was born in Huang Chunmei’s belly under the repeated words of the Xu family.

When the nurse carried her sister to her mother, the exhausted Huang Chunmei suddenly shouted with her face flushed: "Take her away quickly, I don't want her, why isn't it a boy?"

Two-year-old Xu Xixian was so frightened that she cried loudly. She didn't know why her mother was like this, but she was very happy with the arrival of her sister.

In 1978, the third sister Xu Xidi also came into this world.

After giving birth to three daughters in a row, the prosperity of the Xu family has become a joke, and the family status of the three of them has plummeted.

The father, who had always been afraid of getting involved with women, loved them from the beginning, but later alienated them amidst all the talk.

Xu Xixian and her sisters grew up in a repressive environment day by day, but the boy's obsession never diminished in the Xu family, but intensified.

One time my father came back drunk and beat and kicked my mother, complaining about why she could not have a boy.

Unexpectedly, the third child did not cry, but Xu Xixian was so frightened that she started sobbing.

In the end, the strong big S came forward to protect his sister, sister and mother, and launched a fierce resistance against his father.

As the eldest sister, Xu Xixian was the first child to feel this pressure. She did not dare to say a word in the face of all kinds of oppression.

Gradually, her character became more and more introverted, which was in sharp contrast to the characters of her mother and sisters.

However, these days will soon come to an end.

One time my father and mother quarreled again, again because of the birth of a boy.

This time, mother Huang Chunmei did not back down and shouted at the top of her lungs: "I'm going to find another woman to give birth to you!"

Originally this was just an angry remark made during an argument. I didn't expect my father to take it seriously, and I couldn't live like this anymore.

The mother filed for divorce, but the father did not sign, but he could let them move out and pay monthly living expenses.

Huang Chunmei couldn't care less, so she had no choice but to move out of the Xu family's mansion with her three daughters and live in a rental house. From then on, she lived a life of "four women, one life".

Xu Xixian and her sister stumbled along the way, and in a blink of an eye, they reached the age of middle school.

Teenage is the age when love begins. What Xu Xixian didn’t expect was that Xu Xiyuan, who was in junior high school, fell in love with Chen Jianzhou, who went to the same school.

Chen Jianzhou is a popular figure in the school basketball team, and his sister is not the only one who admires him?

Sure enough, one day Xu Xixian was blocked in the toilet by several girls from other classes: "Let your sister be careful after school."

Xu Xixian, who had a timid personality, did not dare to speak out at the time. But after school, she still rushed to the junior high school to find her sister.

But she was still a step late, but the unlucky one was her third sister, Xu Xidi, who was kicked hard.

There was nothing serious about Big S, but they were afraid that the eldest sister would spill the beans, so they told Xu Xixian: "Don't tell mom about this!"

But Xu Xixian kept it secret. How could Huang Chunmei's trouble-free personality escape Huang Chunmei's notice? After some questioning, she still spilled the beans and immediately started crying: "It's all my fault for not protecting my sister!"

Little S meets her mother They rolled their eyes, and then the three of them hugged Xu Xixian and comforted them: "Good boy! Stop crying. It's them who are bad. You're not wrong!"

The four mother and daughter hugged each other with each other in their hearts. Thoughts: Although life is hard, but fortunately, the four of us are of the same mind, and the hard times will eventually come to an end.

Seeing that Xu Xixian is about to reach adulthood, the three sisters have different ideas about the future.

She wants to choose a major that will help her find a job. Since her second sister Xu Xiyuan had the experience of being a child star when she was 11 years old, she wants to go to an art school to study and become a star or something when she grows up. The third sister Xu Xidi has no dreams.

The eyes of the three sisters are full of expectations for the future, and the fate of the family has quietly changed with their different ideas.

In 1994, Xu Xixian accompanied Big S to audition. Unexpectedly, the two sisters were immediately spotted by Taiwanese variety show godfather Wang Weizhong, who proposed that they debut as a "sister group".

However, the introverted Xu Xixian did not have this idea, so she declined Wang Weizhong's invitation and suggested that her third sister could try it.

In the same year, with the coaxing of Xu Xiyuan, Xu Xiwei and her sister made their debut and became popular with the song "Ten Minutes of Love".

The popularity of the two sisters did not last long after they became popular, and their lives did not change much as a result.

As the eldest sister, Xu Xixian also realized at this time that it was time for her to help her mother share the responsibilities.

However, due to personality problems, she was often rejected during the application process, and even if she was successful in the application, she would not be able to work for a long time.

It doesn’t matter if you can’t find a good job, because Xu Xixian and her sisters soon fell in love.

In 1998, Xu Xixian, who had been stuck in the workplace for many years, finally found a job in clothing sales. The boss who was willing to "take in" her was a young man about her age.

Both of them are introverted and shy, but they both liked each other when they first met.

In the same year, the third sister Xu Xidi and Huang Zijiao, who had been in love for two years, moved out of the house and started living together. The second sister Xu Xiyuan also started dating Gu Junye.

Seeing that the three sisters have found their destination, the relationship between the third sister Xu Xidi caused a commotion.

In 2000, Xiao S, who was sitting at home, received a call from her boyfriend Huang Zijiao: "I've been thinking a lot lately, let's break up!"

Xiao S felt heartbroken for a moment. She shed salty tears: "Is it because of her?"

The other party hung up the phone without answering. That "she" is the daughter of Hong Kong tycoon Eric Tsang. What conditions do he have to be with others? What about fighting?

Seeing that her sister was so sad and so clumsy, Xu Xixian didn't know how to comfort her, and was at a loss for a moment.

During those lovelorn days, Xiao S borrowed wine to get drunk all night long, so Xu Xixian had to put down her work and take care of her sister's daily life.

One day when she went to buy fried dough sticks, her boss, who happened to be reading the newspaper, said, "Little S is in the newspaper again. Her private love life must be very messy!"

This happened to be heard by Xu Xixian, who was buying breakfast. She walked up to the boss and said angrily: "You don't know her, why are you talking about her like that!"

After saying that, she turned and left. The stunned boss took a long time to come to his senses, looked at her retreating back and shouted: "Who are you? Hey, you haven't paid yet!"

Already gone Xu Xixian felt embarrassed, but she was still very angry. She didn't know how to quarrel, so she "ran away" after paying the money.

After returning home, she threw her breakfast on the table. Little S, who was still sad, suddenly felt a little confused when she saw her eldest sister acting like this: "What's wrong with you?"

After listening to Xu Xixian's words After figuring out the whole story, little S, who was still heartbroken, couldn't laugh or cry for a moment. He hugged his eldest sister into his arms, and his sadness had long been gone.

After getting over the pain of broken love, Xiao S focused all his attention on work, and his career soon reached a peak.

And her second sister Xu Xiyuan is also famous on both sides of the Taiwan Strait for her role as Shancai in "Meteor Garden".

The advertising fees and remuneration of Big S increased instantly, and the mother and daughter finally made it through.

Although both sisters have become big stars, Xu Xixian has never thought of using their fame to benefit herself.

After Big S became popular, he did not forget the silent support and dedication of his eldest sister behind the scenes. The two younger sisters proposed to pay her to open a clothing store.

Although she was rejected by Xu Xixian in the process, she couldn't resist the powerful big S, so the two sisters funded it and let Xu Xixian and her boyfriend manage the clothing store together.

Sometimes fans will go to a clothing store to buy clothes, and then someone will discuss gossip about big and small S. However, as the boss, she cannot quarrel with others in the store. She can only hold it in and then return. Went home and cried.

Regarding this situation, the two sisters were helpless.

Xu Xixian and her boyfriend can be said to be "a family that does not enter the same house."

Every time someone comes in to buy clothes, the two of them act very dull, afraid to introduce themselves to others, and wait blankly for others to ask the price.

This kind of business method caused the store to close down very quickly.

The closure of the clothing store did not affect the relationship between Xu Xixian and her sisters.

In 2005, Huang Chunmei, who was traveling abroad, was so frightened by a call from Xiao S: "Mom, I'm pregnant."

Huang Chunmei flew back to China immediately, When she got home, she scolded her all over her face, and in the end she had no choice but to accept the fact that she was going to be a grandmother.

Just when Huang Chunmei's mood had just calmed down, Xu Xixian walked out of the room and said quietly: "Mom, I'm pregnant too!"

She usually doesn't like to say anything. Xu Xixian's words were so shocking that she almost made people fall to the ground.

Xu Xixian’s proposal to get married did not surprise her family. After all, the two have been in a relationship for 8 years.

Because Xu Xixian has a simple personality, she has never left the sight of her family since she was a child.

Regarding Xu Xixian’s marriage, they also had a condition for the man, that is, the couple must live with Xu’s mother after they get married.

This is equivalent to marrying into the family, but Xu Xixian’s boyfriend also readily agreed.

On the eve of the Spring Festival, Xu Xixian gave birth to a fat boy, but there was no wedding before that.

In January 2006, the third sister Xu Xidi gave birth to a daughter, and three months later she and her husband held a make-up wedding.

After the third child, Xu Xidi, held her wedding, Xu Xixian followed closely behind and also held a banquet with her boyfriend.

However, Xu Xixian's grand wedding was not high-profile. She only invited relatives and friends quietly, and even the media did not hear any news.

Because Xiao S still has a lot of unfinished contracts before she gets married, she needs to get into work quickly after giving birth, otherwise she will have to lose a lot of money.

At this time, Xu Xixian offered to help her sister take care of the children. Anyway, it was enough to take care of one child, and it would not be a problem to have one more child.

With the support of her eldest sister and mother, Little S quickly returned to work.

Soon, good things will happen to the second oldest child, Xu Xiyuan.

In September 2010, Xu Xixian’s sister Da S fell in love with Wang Xiaofei at first sight in Beijing.

In November of the same year, Wang Xiaofei became her brother-in-law, and they had a son and a daughter after their marriage.

After both sisters got married and had children, Xu Xixian became the "full-time nanny" of the family. She, the aunt, took care of almost all the children in the family.

It is a little regrettable that in November 2021, Xu Xiyuan and Wang Xiaofei ended their marriage.

The two sisters are both popular celebrities and hosts, but Xu Xixian has to be a nanny for them at home. Aren't you jealous at all?

Xu Xixian, who is always content and happy, is really not jealous, because her dream is to be the most ordinary person in the world.

When her two younger sisters were making a lot of money, she did the opposite. Spending less money every month became a challenge in life. Her younger sister treated her to a big meal and was considered too expensive. .

What if we compare the marriages of the two sisters?

I think everyone knows about Big S’s marriage, so I won’t elaborate too much.

It seems that the scenery is endless, but judging from the "traffic wool" that took a month to get married recently, it is false to say that there is no shortage of money.

As the backbone of the Xu family, Xu Xiyuan has no time and space to take a breath. As long as she stops, the whole family will not be able to maintain its current prosperity.

It is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality.

In terms of career, Xiao S wants to compare with her sister, but she is still a long way from Taipei to Rome, and her marriage may not be much better.

After Xu Xidi gave birth to her child, her husband continued to have scandals.

Although she and Big S immediately refuted the rumors about her husband, in the eyes of outsiders, they were just trying to maintain dignity.

In addition to the scandal, Xiao S was also rumored to have been subjected to domestic violence by her husband. She even admitted it personally when recording a show with Nicky Wu.

It is unknown whether the program is effective, but after all, family scandals cannot be publicized, and it is impossible to tell others the truth without her.

In terms of career, if Xu Xixian wants to compete with Big S, she is probably still 10 Xu Xidi away.

But in terms of life experience, emotionally Xu Xixian was in a relationship for 8 years, and finally the lovers got married.

She doesn’t have to worry about her career. She has a husband who loves her and a mother who dotes on her and two younger sisters.

Apart from thinking about how to save more money this month than last month every day, there seemed to be nothing worth worrying about.

When it comes to which of the three sisters is better, in my opinion, Xu Xixian, who stays away from right and wrong, fame and wealth, is the winner in life.

Life is like a fleeting cloud, only what you enjoy can be considered as possession.