Neighbors like to gossip. What if they tell lies?

We don't have to blindly tolerate gossip from our neighbors. You should argue when it is time to argue.

First of all, after I meet my neighbor's constant gossip, I will ask myself what provoked her. If not, I will find a suitable time to ask her what happened to make him hate our family so much. If not, I will negotiate with him and be reasonable, hoping that he will stop provoking.

Secondly, if the above methods still can't stop him from provoking, I won't tolerate it any more. The so-called "see the move", I gave him face before, and talked to him calmly, but he was unwilling to accept it. Next time he talks nonsense, I will never be soft-hearted I take back everything he said and let everyone judge.

Finally, I will never make friends with such people again. Although there is a saying that a distant relative is better than a close neighbor, if it is an unreasonable neighbor, I would rather stay away from him. If he needs my help in the future, I will never help him unless he sincerely apologizes to me for his previous behavior.

In general, such neighbors belong to that kind of insolence. You can't reason with such insolence. There is a saying that "people are doing, and the sky is watching". For people like them, I believe that one day God will have long eyes.

I remember my mother's house, which happened to be the opposite neighbor. She didn't talk nonsense, but bullied directly. All bankers have to raise cattle and sheep. Cow dung and sheep dung are always placed in front of mom's house. The men in this family are not bad, so they are more or less reasonable. Mother once looked for him, but he could do nothing about his wife.

Fortunately, my mother has a good temper and didn't share her common sense. Later, my mother moved to the city to live with us. This neighbor sneaked into my house and ransacked it when there was no one in our house. Fortunately, there is nothing at home. I should give it to her. But I really can't tolerate such a person, otherwise he will really push his luck and go too far.