Tips to please your mother-in-law

What is the trick to please your mother-in-law? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a difficult problem since ancient times, but it does not mean that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is hostile from the beginning. As a daughter-in-law, you can spend some time to coax and please your mother-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and the relationship between husband and wife is more harmonious. Let me share some tips to please my mother-in-law.

Tips to please your mother-in-law 1 First of all, it is right to honor your mother-in-law.

Although your mother-in-law didn't raise you, she raised your husband, so since you love your husband, you should understand your son's feelings for his mother, respect his mother with him, and you also have parents. Will you be happy if your husband talks back to your parents? So give your mother-in-law a smile and chat with her more. You are good to his mother, and he will be good to your mother. In my opinion, the protagonist Li Juan in the book is actually a very sad character. She is very kind, but she is too tolerant to argue for the truth, which makes Pingya's mother very uncomfortable, and Pingya will feel that she doesn't respect his parents enough.

Second, don't be too affectionate with your husband in front of your mother-in-law

I have shown this advice to my wife for a long time. Although you think you are used to this kind of communication, old people are old people after all, and they have traditional ideas. Just like in front of outsiders, it is disrespectful to make out with your husband too much. You said this is your home and you can do whatever you want, which is true, but we should pay attention to this aspect.

Third, take care of your husband's emotions when making suggestions.

When it comes to the husband's family, especially the money, always give advice to the husband, but be sure to take into account his emotions and speak skillfully. Even if you are unwilling, don't say it directly. You should gently reason with your husband, let her know that you are willing to help, but you can't help for some reason, and then make suggestions with more comforting words.

But there are some money you can't decide. For example, if your father-in-law is ill, even if you don't give money, people will take money everywhere to treat their father. So since you can't escape, you might as well just take the money and show your willingness to give it to your mother-in-law. This will please my mother-in-law, satisfy my husband, and think more about you in the future. But here I want to remind my daughters-in-law: it is right to honor my in-laws. Failure to honor them will make people laugh, even honor their seven aunts and eight aunts, unless they have a lot of money.

Fourth, don't boss your husband around in front of your mother-in-law.

This truth is actually very easy to understand. Think about it from another angle. How would your parents feel if your parents came to live at home and your husband kept bossing you around? They will feel that it is not easy for their daughter to stay at home and live a' tired' life. Especially in China, a patriarchal society, my mother-in-law will be unhappy when she sees that you have nothing to do with your husband. Her son can't make decisions at home, but he is actually bossed around by a woman. Who won't have resistance? After leaving your mother-in-law's sight, you can do whatever you want, just don't let her see it.

Fifth, pay more attention to her mother-in-law's daily life.

No matter whether you are open-minded or hypocritical, you must do superficial kung fu, which will also make your husband look at you differently. I want to buy one for my mother-in-law when I buy something for my mother. How to observe her daily life carefully, hot and cold? What do you want to eat? what do you want to do? Take the time to satisfy her wishes. Unless she is ill, she can't spend you a few dollars. Most mothers-in-law love their sons and even their own lives. She also wants you to be happy and not spend a lot of money. She is old and lonely, and your little concern will make her remember.

Six, leave some time to listen to her nagging.

Many daughters-in-law treat their mother-in-law at a respectful distance from others and can't afford to hide. But for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live under the same roof, hiding is absolutely impossible. Then simply settle down, coax her if she has nothing to do. When she is old, she likes someone to chat with her and listen to her when she has time. She likes to nag, so let her nag. It's nothing more than her son's business

Speaking of the difficulty of raising a son and the process of his growth, I listened and echoed two words: "Mom, you are really not easy. Must be filial to you. " Say something nice. What are you afraid of? Just wasting a few words. If you can't do it, it's secondary. At the last moment, it is imperative. You have to make her feel that you and she are family. She has had many daughters with you, not a woman who robbed her son.

There is nothing wrong with telling you the truth in advance.

You'd better get to know your husband before your mother-in-law comes to your house. Before living with her mother-in-law, many daughters-in-law thought her mother-in-law was still good, but living together was full of contradictions. First of all, we must know that there can be no contradiction in living together. Even if I live with my mother, sometimes I will be unhappy, let alone my mother-in-law.

But there are some principled things, such as: you can't get up early, you can't do housework every day, and you and your husband don't have the concept that men are superior to women. Please communicate with your husband before your mother-in-law comes and ask him to tell her in advance. And if in the process of living together, there are some things you really can't stand, please don't stand it, let your husband talk to your mother-in-law.

Eight, let bygones be bygones

Living together, there will always be little friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Occasionally, a bad word or an unhappy thing will make you forget all about it. If your mother talks about you, you will forget it in two days. To some extent, the mother-in-law is a bit of a parent. She may sometimes love to educate you and listen to a few words if she wants to. If she doesn't want to listen, she will pretend not to hear, and then argue with her.

After the debate, it's never a good idea to put on a cold face only when you are still a family. Your husband is embarrassed that your mother-in-law thinks you are not sensible, and you are still angry. This is not a matter of principle, don't be too haggle over every ounce. Of course, I want to remind you that it is best not to let your in-laws live in, because many contradictions occur in the little things in life. If there is no way to live in it, you should be prepared in your heart, not just from your own mood.

Tips to please your mother-in-law. 1. Let's go shopping together.

Boys can't understand why women go shopping. Shopping is not only your favorite, but also your mother-in-law's. After all, women love beauty. No matter what age women are, they firmly believe that shopping, especially shoes, is their favorite thing to do after all. Mother-in-law always brings her little grandson, so it is undoubtedly not easy to talk about clothes and pants, and she has no time to go shopping. Especially after the baby goes to kindergarten, isn't it time to dress up the old woman?

In the whole process of shopping, I not only released my mother-in-law's emotional pressure, but also found that they actually liked the plaid dress and curtain cloth with the same design style as the tablecloth. This same topic can be a bridge for two people to establish friendship.

Second, take your mother-in-law to dinner.

In front of special food, everyone is generally in a good mood. So, don't patronize yourself as a food lover. Not only you like special dishes, but also your mother-in-law likes them. She was only consciously restrained before, and she could save money by thinking about it, so there was no rule on what to eat. When you sometimes take your mother-in-law to eat special food and snacks that she hasn't eaten in January, even if it doesn't suit her taste, isn't there a saying, "Eat people's mouths."

You also like to eat special dishes, and your mother-in-law is a good cook, so you are stronger. Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we can completely and scientifically study how the special dishes of the other restaurant are cooked. When they have the friendship of classmates, what is the probability of friction and cold violence?

Third, teach her mother-in-law to surf the Internet.

There are all kinds of new things in the world on the Internet. Why do you say that only young people like surfing the Internet? Why are old people stupid? At present, many old people have become netizens. So, if your mother-in-law has culture and art, popularize it to her on the computer as soon as possible. One is to make the old woman fashionable, and the other is to finally have a chance to educate her.

Although you will be a little tired and bitter, you will soon find it great to be trusted by her. Mother-in-law will naturally be grateful to you while broadening her horizons, and will also enhance ordinary game entertainment and divert her vision. How can she have time to find fault with you?

I saw many differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on TV, which are as deep as the sea. I think it's easy to resolve such differences! Don't forget, two people often have 1 connection points: that person. Sometimes it is a very good practice to infiltrate customers to moisten them when they need to confront each other. That is, this man is the intersection of two families, and it should be his bounden duty to help ease the differences between the two sides.