People who like to belittle others are really happy.

No one is perfect. Don’t use harsh language to evaluate others. Even if you have a good relationship, you should pay attention to your words.

Xiao An, a very nice girl, is used to wearing no makeup, is kind-hearted, and works hard. Colleagues like to ask her for help with anything, and she rarely refuses.

The first time Xiao An was called ugly was in this company. We were all present at the time, and the atmosphere was quite embarrassing. In fact, Xiao An is not ugly. The blind man probably never looks in the mirror. Xiao An was a little incoherent at the time and did not say any nasty words to attack the other person. Later she told me that she cried because of this incident.

The second time Xiao An was compared to others was by a good friend of hers, who said that Xiao An looked old-fashioned and dressed in a tacky way. Of course, there were other people around, and the atmosphere became awkward again. Xiao An just smiled and didn't answer.

After several times of this kind of thing, I found that Xiao An had changed. She no longer remains silent when faced with problems. If you attack me with words, I will be rude to you.

One time, a colleague asked Xiao An his weight. When he learned about it, he was shocked and attacked him verbally: "You look much fatter than your weight, at least 10 pounds. I really didn't notice your weight." So light." This colleague was the one who called Xiao An ugly last time. Xiao An said to him calmly: "Really! Then maybe you are a little blind!" From that day on, this colleague never made irresponsible remarks to Xiao An again.

Do you think people like Xiao An have good looks? NO, NO, NO. They are all ordinary people, each with their own shortcomings. Then why did they laugh at Xiao An? !

Xiaoan is young and has little social experience. He is respectful to his leaders and willing to help his colleagues. Those who were unhappy in life liked to hit Xiao An in order to satisfy themselves. At first Xiao An thought that he should be educated, so he tolerated it again and again. Later, Xiao An grew up through these things, and she understood a truth: You don't need to educate people who have no education for you.

A man's words are fearsome. When he attacks you, his words are like sharp swords. Even if you don't fight back, make sure you have a good shield to protect yourself.

Verbal violence is becoming more and more common nowadays. Keyboard warriors use lethal words to attack, and many celebrities have suffered from it. Yuan Shanshan, Deng Ziqi, Gu Li Nazha, Yang Mi... and many other celebrities are the targets of keyboard warriors. Some of them are accustomed to laughing at themselves, some ignore them, some fight back directly, and some shed tears secretly...

Gulinazha once said during the recording of the "Idol Is Coming" program that she had a black physique and would be scolded for whatever she did. She felt very sad and shed tears during the program. After the show aired, the keyboard warriors did not let Nazha go. Now when I look at Nazha's Weibo, there are still many people attacking her. Now Nazha also said that she has gradually gotten used to it, and she is trying to be herself and act well.

Ruan Lingyu, a movie star during the Chinese silent film period, was one of the four beauties of the Republic of China. On Women's Day in 1935, she committed suicide by taking sleeping pills, leaving behind the words "people's words are terrible".

Language and writing are also powerful tools. People who get pleasure from attacking others and slandering others are often timid in real life, do nothing, are inferior to others and want to laugh at others. This type of people tend to blindly follow trends and never look in the mirror before launching an attack.

Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.

When facing these people who "can't keep their mouths shut", you can use silence to show them the highest contempt. We can adjust our mentality, learn to "not hear", and learn to "not remember".

If you can't calm down, then explode in silence, fight back, and let the person who hurt you see how powerful you are.