Don’t be afraid of being used by others. If others use you, it means you are still useful.

1. If you are nice to others, others may not appreciate it. On the contrary, they take it as a matter of course. Finally, you can’t bear it anymore and you no longer treat everyone well, so they start to say that you have changed.

2. There is no right or wrong in this society, only strong and weak. If you are good, people will fawn over you, but if you are not good, even dogs will step on you. Girl, when you step into society, it’s time to curb your temper. Don't tell others everything. What you say is from your heart, and what they hear is a joke.

3. No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares how many autumns you have tossing and turning. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process alone. Don't be afraid of being used by others. If others use you, it shows that you are still useful.

4. Real society and life tell men and women that loyal and honest people always suffer, and kind and honest people always suffer; those who cannot let go always suffer, and those who look away always suffer.

5. Later I realized that only by earning enough money to make myself feel at ease can I live a simple, comfortable and free life and feel more confident in my life. So, spend more time working hard and less time being pretentious.

6. Reality is the most fundamental meaning of today’s society. When you are proud, your friends know you; when you are in trouble, you know your friends. Only when you are down can you understand how few people are willing to help you.

7. When kindness is so much that it is worthless and makes others think that your efforts are taken for granted, then put away kindness. There is nothing wrong with kindness, but it depends on whether the target is a human being.

8. You don’t have to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back? Girl, be smart. If you show your heart to others, they might think you smell like blood!

9. Don’t feed a dog too much, and don’t treat people too well. You can’t tolerate getting too far for a moment, take a step back and make things worse, don’t joke too much, otherwise it will be a disaster, and you don’t have enough love. You can make up for it with money. Behind money is a group of dogs. Without money, society is hard to navigate. See clearly what is good for you. Remember who bit you. Eat and drink when you should. Don’t take things personally, whether you are a human or a dog, whether you are an enemy or a friend. , take a look at it as time goes by.

10. There are no permanent friends or permanent enemies in this world, only permanent interests. You help someone 100%, but one day you are only willing to help 80%, and he will empty out all your kindness, and would rather choose to be friends with someone who only helps him 70%.

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