Skills of talking with teachers

1. Understand that teachers are human beings, not gods.

It takes great patience and care to understand that teachers are human beings, have their own families and children, and face so many students with different personalities every day. Facing different parents, school leaders' requirements, parents' expectations, the pressure of further education and the evaluation of the class, it is really hard and not easy.

2. Affirm the teacher's efforts.

Affirming teachers is based on the facts they see, not blind affirmation. Teachers love every child for the good of the child, and affirm the teacher's thoughtfulness and dedication to the child. Because teachers teach children, our parents can work with peace of mind. In addition, find the advantages of teachers and appreciate them from the heart, such as teachers' strong logical thinking. Then you praise the teacher for his preciseness, good literary talent, strong language skills and good communication skills.

3. Ask about your child's situation at school.

How do children behave in school, how do they study, what are their advantages and disadvantages, what troubles they have caused to teachers, and so on. In this way, you will know what the child looks like in the eyes of the teacher, understand clearly, and go home to communicate with the child according to the teacher's situation.

4. Ask the teacher.

I know the situation of children at school and the teacher's evaluation of children very well. At this time, you need to ask the teacher. With so many students, you are more experienced than me. According to the characteristics of children, I need to ask the teacher's advice to show my respect for the teacher and understand his thoughts.

5. Communication methods.

The relationship with the teacher is closer. At this time, you should express your view on parenting and let the teacher know that you are not a blind parent and you have your own ideas. First of all, thank the teacher for his advice. Take the child who consulted his mother today as an example. The child didn't do what the teacher asked, and the teacher hit the child. How does he communicate with the teacher? The principle is not to blame, not to evaluate, not to complain, and to solve problems sincerely.

Talk about your own point of view, don't say that teachers beat children. As a parent, I will never forget the original intention of raising a child, hoping that the child will develop healthily physically and mentally. I don't want to put too much pressure on my children's study. Because knowledge is just a means, it pays attention to grades and ignores children's emotional and mental health, and children's lives are unhappy, so knowledge has lost its meaning. So the external pressure is not as great as his own internal motivation.