A girl born in the 1990s was divorced and lost her job within 3 days. Why did her best friend angrily say she deserved it?

26-year-old Xiaoxiao finally divorced her husband. This marriage lasted for less than two years, and it seemed that all that was left to her was painful struggles and memories. On the second day after the divorce, Xiaoxiao was in a low mood. She got into a fight with her colleagues over a small dispute at the company, and was eventually fired by her boss. Within three days, Xiaoxiao got divorced and then lost her job. She felt more depressed than ever before. She felt like a clown, being laughed at constantly by the people around her.

On this day, the weather was sunny and it was already two o'clock in the afternoon. Xiaoxiao was still curled up in bed and thinking wildly. When her best friend Zi Lan called, she remembered that today was her birthday. After hanging up the phone, Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly. On this day last year, her husband held a romantic birthday party for herself. Now that my husband and I have parted ways, I have to rely on my best friend to remind me even about birthdays. After she washed and dressed up, she drove to the hotel she had made an appointment with Zi Lan.

The two people laughed bitterly as soon as they met. Zi Lan mocked Xiaoxiao insinuating that since she was single again, she still wanted to avoid the custom of birthday treat. Xiaoxiao and Zilan are college classmates. They have the best relationship, so they speak very directly.

The recent series of bad luck has made Xiaoxiao grumpy. She took advantage of her birthday and ordered 10 dishes angrily. Zi Lan said that this woman was crazy, could she push herself to death? However, Xiaoxiao insisted that it was rare to indulge, and after eating this meal, she would change her appearance and start her single career again.

In order to relieve her worries, Xiaoxiao ordered a lot of wine, and the two women drank happily. People are like this. Under the anesthesia of alcohol, they become bolder, and many things that they usually dare not say will be blurted out without any scruples.

While complaining about all the shortcomings of her ex-husband, Xiaoxiao poured herself a glass of wine.

Zi Lan suddenly stopped Xiaoxiao's arm with her hand and advised her to stop drinking. But Xiaoxiao not only refused to listen, but drank down the drink in one gulp and said: "No man is good, eh, no, except for your husband... I really envy the two of you who have been in love for so long and are so loving..."

"Xiaoxiao, don't you understand now? The reason why Zecheng divorced you is not that he doesn't love you anymore, but that you have gone too far and have completely exceeded the limit of his endurance. All of this is It's your own fault, you deserve to be in this situation..." Zi Lan was a little excited.

After hearing this, Xiaoxiao was not angry. She laughed evilly and said, "Yes, it's all my fault. It was he who gave me a life without worries about food and clothing, and bought me a car and a house. ...I should really thank him, right?"

Looking at Xiaoxiao's cynical look, Zi Lan was silent for a moment, and her eyes became wet. Immediately, Zi Lan said excitedly: "Xiaoxiao, actually I have always envied you. Ever since you married Zecheng, you don't know what he does to you? Don't say he bought you a car, just Normally, whenever you like clothes or bags, he will always respond to your request. You can be satisfied with having such a good husband. Look at me, my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and we are still looking for a house. Worrying about the down payment, let alone eating at such a high-end restaurant, even when passing by a street food stall, I have to worry about whether to buy ten yuan of Malatang for a long time... We are the same age, you already have us Having everything, but still not being satisfied, and interfering with her husband’s family affairs, isn’t this cutting off her future?”

Listening to Zi Lan crying about her unhappiness, Xiaoxiao put down her wine glass and lowered her head. The head fell silent. She recalled that her husband had been caring and tolerant to her, spent a lot of money to make her happy, and even mobilized all her friends to help celebrate her birthday. But as for myself, was it that I was too overbearing and willful in the past, and it was only in the end that I broke my husband's heart?

"Looking at the photos of you and Zecheng getting on the plane to travel abroad, I am envious. I always fantasize that I can accompany my boyfriend for a crazy time, but we don’t have the financial resources. Conditions, we are still working hard for housing, food and clothing.

Although we are best friends, why are our situations so different? One is in the sky, the other is on the ground... You are a rich woman in the eyes of your classmates, a woman who has reached the sky in one step, but we are still on the road of hard work. Aren't you satisfied? "The more Zi Lan talked, the more uncomfortable she became. Tears completely blurred her vision. She wiped away the bitter tears and drank the entire glass of wine in one gulp.

Xiaoxiao was speechless, her mind was filled with thoughts. It was all in the past, and she began to feel guilty and regretful. It was her unreasonable behavior that destroyed this marriage that could have lasted a lifetime. She should not have interfered too much with her father-in-law's personal affairs, and she should not have beaten him in front of so many people. As a "step-mother-in-law" who has not yet entered the family, why was she so obsessed with the imaginary property? The more she thought about it, the more uncomfortable she became. She couldn't believe that all the misdeeds she had done were her "masterpiece". p>

"Cry, it will feel better if you cry. "Zi Lan patted Xiaoxiao's shoulder and said slowly.

"I deserve it. Who made me go too far and ruined myself..."

Xiaoxiao got up and lay down on the bed. Zi Lan burst into tears on her shoulders, and she finally understood that it was all her own fault.