How old can the baby talk? How is it that the baby doesn't want to talk?

Many people pay special attention to the baby's changes and find that the baby is unwilling to talk. So what happened to the baby's reluctance to talk? Get to know me!

How old is the baby to talk and learn to talk? This is a process, which is mainly divided into six stages.

The first stage: say "dad" and "mom" (4-5 months). Unconsciously, parents may hear their baby calling "dad" and "mom" intentionally or unintentionally. When parents are excited, they will find that when they ask their baby to scream again, the baby may not scream.

Because the baby doesn't really associate these words with parents, it's just the bud of the baby's speech.

The second stage: Babies with intonation and tone (6-9 months) have been able to call their parents fluently and talk more.

The baby began to mumble or pronounce. Although we don't understand, we can understand what the baby means. This is because the baby is learning the tone and intonation of his parents. At this time, you can encourage your baby to read books, listen to stories and continue to babble.

The third stage: using words or asking questions (12- 17 months). At this time, the baby can use one or two words correctly and know their meanings. You can even ask questions in another tone.

For example, when a baby wants to be pulled, he will say,' Pull?' . The baby gradually realized the importance of speaking. If he wants to meet his own needs, he must express it to his parents by speaking, and gradually realize the importance of speaking.

The fourth stage: vocabulary increase (1.5-2 years old). At this time, the baby's vocabulary is generally above 200, and many of them are nouns. The communication with the baby is gradually smooth.

Note: between 18-20 months, the baby learns vocabulary at a speed of 10 or more every day. Some babies can learn a new word every half an hour, so how a baby expresses his language depends on his parents' education. They are teachers.

The fifth stage: can make sentences (2 and a half years old). At this time, the baby will start to use "I" and "you" frequently.

Between the ages of two and three, the baby's vocabulary will increase to 300 words. The baby can connect nouns and verbs to make simple but complete sentences. Can clearly express her needs and feelings, such as saying "I love you" to mom and dad.

The fourth stage: normal conversation (3 years old) When the baby is 3 years old, it is generally possible to speak continuously and adjust the intonation, way of speaking and words. According to the speaker, he can speak as freely as an adult. Of course, at this time, the baby has his own ideas, and gradually he will be naughty and disobedient, making his parents angry.

If some babies have reached the age of three, but have difficulty speaking, you can look at the following methods.

How to make the baby talk 1 Get the baby involved and talk to him all day from birth. Get close to him so that he can see your face. You pause from time to time in the middle of your speech, and let the baby participate.

2. "Graphic combination" When you say a word, show the baby the corresponding thing or let him touch it. For example, when teaching him the word "softness", cover him with a blanket as soft as silk; When teaching him the word "fragile", give him a crisp carrot to bite.

3. Children's songs train to read children's songs or sing simple songs to him, repeat them several times, and then leave the last word blank to encourage him to say it. It is best to start doing this when the baby 12 months old.

Don't force him to talk. He may complain at first, but toys will gradually make him talk.

5. praise method when the baby tries to talk for the first time, don't correct his mistakes, but nod his head to show appreciation. Repeat what he said with correct grammar and pronunciation.

6. Don't interrupt when the baby is talking. Patiently let him have enough time to speak until he is right.

The reason why babies don't want to talk is that some babies are 1 years old or more than two years old, and they are normal in all aspects, but they just don't want to talk. Seeing other babies talking, mothers are inevitably anxious. Don't worry, let's go into the baby's inner world, explore the reasons and prescribe the right medicine.

Reason 1. The language environment is chaotic, and the baby doesn't know who to learn to speak with. In some families, parents are not from the same place and dialects are different. For example, parents speak Mandarin, grandparents speak Shandong dialect, and nannies speak Sichuan dialect. In this language environment, the baby doesn't know who to imitate and which language to speak.

Small coup: so is our family. We agree to communicate mainly in Putonghua, occasionally with one or two dialects. In this way, the baby not only has the main learning and imitation objects, but also has a rich language environment.

The second reason is that pronunciation is not allowed to be criticized and self-confidence is frustrated. Because the baby is just beginning to learn to speak, the pronunciation is not accurate, and words are often said as other words, such as "dad" as "big" and "grandma" as "coat coat".

If parents laugh at the baby or forcibly correct his pronunciation, his self-esteem will be frustrated and he will even dare not speak. Other parents are strict with their children. If they can't speak well, they will be accused and restricted, which will also hurt their self-confidence and make them unwilling to speak.

Small coup: everyone came here like this when they were young. There is no need to laugh at or even criticize their babies. Our baby's pronunciation is not punctual. We didn't laugh at him, but read the correct pronunciation and encouraged him to follow us.

Reason three: adults don't like to talk, and babies lack role models to learn. Babies learn to speak and need to imitate in communication. If adults are introverted and don't like to talk; Or the family is not harmonious and the family atmosphere is not harmonious; Or parents are busy with work and have little communication with their babies, which will affect their language learning and make them lose interest in communication.

Small coup: My husband is also an introvert, so I often show my husband happy photos of the baby and photos of the baby playing with his father. Husband likes to be with his baby more and more, and the baby becomes happier and more talkative.

Reason four: parents do everything, and the baby has no chance to express his needs. Adults who love babies do almost everything for them. Baby clothes to reach out, rice to mouth, as long as an expression, an action, adults can understand the baby's needs. After a long time, the baby will become dependent on adults and too lazy to express his needs in words.

Small coup: when the old man takes care of the child, the old man doesn't know how many times more words he says in a day than the baby. The baby can live for a day as long as he nods and shakes his head.

I didn't think this would work, so I insisted on taking it for half a year. Whenever the baby wants to do something or eat something, I wait patiently for the baby to say it, to train him to delay satisfaction, and to allow the baby to talk when necessary.

Babies talk early and late, some babies' language development may be slower and some babies will be faster. Mothers are eager to love their children, and Bao Shu's mothers can understand it, but babies can't learn to speak overnight, and they need patient guidance and close communication.

Especially when the baby doesn't want to talk, we should start with satisfying the baby's needs and stimulating the baby's interest, so that the baby can speak on his own initiative.