What do you think of taking care of the baby alone?

Hello, this precious mother. I'm the mother of a little slacker. I'm glad to answer your question.

I am a full-time nanny. My daughter is now 2 years and 9 months old. My daughter has never left me since she was born. At home, until her breast milk was cut off, my daughter and I went to Guangdong with my husband, which opened the way for me to be a full-time nanny.

Husband goes out to work at 7: 30 in the morning and gets off work at 9: 00 in the evening. When he came back, I had bathed my daughter and she fell asleep in bed. My daughter is asleep, and I have to wash clothes, tidy up the house, clean up and wash myself. It's already 1 1, 12 o'clock to go to bed. The next morning, I had to get up early. I will wait until the children get up, buy a good meal and make breakfast. Then, it's time to wake up my daughter, help her get dressed, brush her teeth and wash her face, and go to the toilet. After breakfast, I used up half of it in one afternoon. Next, I will take her to bask in the sun, go home to prepare lunch, and wash dishes while the children take a nap. Only then do I have time to pick up my mobile phone and watch the TV series I want to watch.

It's very tiring to take care of children alone, really tired, but tired and happy.

When my daughter came up to you with food in her hand and said, Mom, you eat. All the tiredness at that moment was worth it.

Hello, I'm Lili, and I'm glad to answer your question.

I am the mother of two babies, the oldest is 10 years old. The younger one was just born this year. I remember it snowed a week after the birth of the eldest. I live with my mother-in-law, who occasionally helps me. When the boss was three months old, I went to my mother's house. My mother's family brought it for me, and I brought it myself, which made it easier for my boss to bring it.

Speaking of the second child is full of bitter tears, first I can't conceive, and then I went to the doctor to take medicine for more than a year. Finally, she got pregnant, vomited violently, and was hospitalized from July to 65438+February. You can't eat or drink. Almost died in the hospital. Finally, I gave birth to a second child, thinking it would be much easier. As a result, my mother-in-law didn't help me, so my family had to bring my brother's children, and my second child could only bring them by herself. I am an elderly woman. I was 36 when I gave birth to my second child. I still have a caesarean section, and now I feel uncomfortable all over.

When I was hospitalized last year, I couldn't hold on for a while and wanted to abort the child, but my husband didn't agree, so now I am hostile to the second child. Sometimes when I quarrel with my husband, my mother-in-law gives me a hard time. I will take it out on the second child and regret it after hitting the child. Sometimes I wonder if I have depression. Anyway, no matter how hard and tired you are, you can't take it out on your child like me.

Now the second child is eight months old and can see his face. Sometimes when I see my dark face, the little guy makes faces to make me laugh. Now I also learn to control my emotions. Mother-in-law takes care of the children, washes and cooks, and does housework every day, and is also responsible for the work in the field. No matter how hard and tired you are, it is enough to look at the smiling face of the little guy.

It's tiring and hard to take care of the children alone. I take care of two babies by myself. Since September this year, the first grade of primary school has started to go to school. He is less than two years old. He cooks three meals a day, cleans, does housework and looks after the children. My family lives on the fifth floor, and I go upstairs and downstairs to hold the little one every day. Sometimes you have to carry buckets of water and hold the baby in one hand. After a long time, tired hands can't work, my arms hurt, and sometimes I feel uncomfortable and cry alone.

Think about what children eat and do every day, prepare meals in advance, and wait for their children to leave school.

I set the alarm clock for the whole day at 5:30 in the morning. I want to get up after a while, get up at 5.50, boil water, and then brush my teeth and wash my face. When finished, start cooking, ask the children what they want to eat, wake them up for dinner after dinner, and wash their faces and brush their teeth after dinner. About 7.20, I have to take my children to school. After I sent the older one to school, I came back to cook with the younger one. Sometimes I buy something to eat on my way back or pick up the children from school to buy food. When I finish cleaning after dinner, I will find toys for the younger ones to play with, and then wash clothes. When the younger ones have had enough fun, they will call their mother. He wants me to hug him, and if I can't finish anything, I have to play with him.

Sometimes everyone is too tired to watch. The older one should teach him to do his homework and help him with his homework after school. The smaller ones are also noisy, so they repeat their daily work day after day, and they are physically and mentally exhausted. Sometimes I wish someone could help me.

Sometimes it is worthwhile to look at two children, no matter how hard and tired they are.

As a treasure mother whose child has just turned two years old, she is very excited to see this problem and finally has a place to talk!

This is how the day in Ma Bao is spent. When she wakes up in the morning, she must go to the toilet. If the baby doesn't wake up, she needs to make a quick decision. People stick their ears out of the toilet for fear that the baby will wake up and turn over and fall out of bed. That's a big crime. If the baby wakes up, you have to put the baby in the car, push it to the toilet and let her stay with you. If the baby doesn't like it, you need to play the essence of a woman: carry the baby to the toilet! Alas, which mother hasn't experienced [covering her face] and then prepared breakfast, of course she can cope, just eat something to fill her stomach, but the baby is developing and balanced in nutrition, and then she struggles to look it up online or buy a book, and after a long time, it's finally out of the pot. When she is excited, she will take two bites at will, and if she is humiliated, she will not open her mouth and spit it out [covering her face]. Push the car when you go out. Fold the car when you take it. Holding a child in one hand and holding a folding bike in the other is really beyond a woman's control. Don't push the cart. You have to go shopping with your child in your arms all the way, which is too much! In short, it will take a few days to go out! After a tiring day, I had a fight with sleepy eyelids at night, and the baby was still in high spirits. "You play, I sleep." I squinted at her and climbed onto you. I was not sleepy for several times! I finally fell asleep, got up and took a shower, washed clothes and cleaned up the housework. ...

It's just a simple day. If you meet a child who has been vaccinated and has a headache and fever, it will be even more hectic if you bump into him!

Therefore, now more treasure mothers prefer to live in their parents' homes when their children are young, and they have to bear great responsibilities both physically and psychologically!

I take care of the baby alone after delivery. Before, my parents have been worried that I can't even take care of myself at ordinary times, so how can I take care of my baby? It's not so difficult to really start bringing your own clothes. Maybe it's because my baby is also a good boy. I usually sleep most of the time, don't cry or make trouble, and have more time to clean, wash and cook. Although sometimes very tired, often can't eat on time, but looking at the baby's cute little face, I feel that everything is worth it. Companionship is the best gift for children. Although it is very hard for a person to take care of children, it saves a lot of troubles and contradictions in living with the elderly, and there is no need to fall into the abyss of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so I think as long as the heart is not bitter, nothing else is a problem. Of course, I think it depends on whether I have a good husband if I want to take care of my children by myself. He can help you take care of the baby or cook and do housework when he comes back from work, so taking turns taking care of the baby will also alleviate many difficulties. So here, I encourage those who want to live alone to stick to their choices. After all, a happy family of three is the ultimate goal of marriage.

Seeing this problem, I am deeply touched. I take care of my children alone. From my inexperience to now, I have experienced many sorrows that only I have experienced. Tell me about my experience.

My parents-in-law are honest and easy to get along with, but they have little experience in raising children. My mother-in-law can't even cook. So I've been doing it alone since the pregnancy check-up. I really didn't know anything at that time. I downloaded a maternal and child software and almost missed the Tang screening period, because the maternal and child software was changed when it was time, but the hospital had to make an appointment two months in advance and finally found a mature person to do it. At that time, Dawn went to the hospital with a big belly, once a week for the last month. I also bought things needed for production. It started in the middle of the night, and I admired myself at that time. I have a stomachache at midnight. I have a hunch that I might have a child. I picked up the phone and counted the frequency of contractions, but I didn't feel any movement at all. I found the contraction for about ten minutes, got up and took a shower, and began to see red. I quickly went out to wake my husband and began to change clothes. The things for production were already put away, so I picked them up and left. I heard in advance that having a baby is very painful. On the way to the hospital, I felt I could bear it, but I was still thinking about it, and it didn't hurt much. As a result, after the hospital really started, I realized that life was worse than death. The doctor told me not to cry and to save my strength, but I really can't help it! In retrospect, I still have a lingering fear. The baby has been sleeping with me since the first day after giving birth, and has been three years old now. The crib I bought was useless, so I made trouble in the middle of the night. Sleep with me.

Newborn babies are the most tiring care. They have to get up for food every two hours at night, and it is really painful to get up four or five times a night. I cried three times a month, almost depressed. This situation gradually improves as the child grows up. Bitter and sweet. At that time, I took dozens of photos of my baby every day. I feel that every gesture of her is cute and I really want to record it. Laughing for the first time, grabbing things for the first time, turning over for the first time ... I am proud of her every growth and feel that the pain is worth it.

It is inevitable that children will get sick. She had a high fever for the first time and never gave up. Looking at her burning skin, I cried while holding her to the hospital. When I went to the hospital to ask about her illness, my voice choked. As a result, the doctor comforted me in turn, probably because I came to sympathize with me alone. Later, with experience, I was handy and unhurried.

It is said that children should win at the starting line. I usually check this information online in my spare time and buy a box of books for my baby. As I grow older, I constantly improve my knowledge, from black and white cards to today's story picture books. When there is nothing to do, many things grind with the baby. Now the baby loves reading, and he used to repeat it.

Before I had children, I could hardly cook. Six months later, I began to learn to make complementary food. Now I look everywhere for children's favorite dishes. Nowadays, the cooking level is constantly improving. I am proficient in noodles, steamed bread and cakes, or frying. I have to say that bringing a baby has really changed women a lot.

This is the life of bringing a baby. There are joys and sorrows. After a long time, I feel out of society, seldom get together with friends, and chatting with others is also about children. Going out without a fashion bag depends on mom's backpack. I don't wear makeup, I don't go out, I don't even wash my face, and I'm too fat to even take pictures in the mirror. I feel twenty years older. I want to wait until my children go to kindergarten before going out to work, but I am 30 years old. How can I recruit from any unit? I want to do something for myself, but I haven't understood the market for a long time and have no goal. Now I'm really at a loss.

I play with my child at home every day, and when I see her happy smile, I feel that I don't regret taking care of my baby full-time. But when the baby fell asleep and calmed down and had nothing to do, he was depressed and stayed at home for three years, feeling that he was going crazy. This contradiction is getting more and more serious now, which makes me breathless. I have to comfort myself by sending my children to kindergarten next year, no matter what job, no matter how much salary!

I don't know how other precious mothers feel. Let's talk about it together Does anyone feel the same way as me?

Answer this question, and my nose will be sore immediately.

Before I became a mother, I thought I was just taking care of my baby. What's the difficulty? But when I really became a mother, I realized how difficult it was to raise a child! I also deeply understand that the sentence is "I don't know my parents' kindness if I don't raise children." "Before the baby will turn over, feed it for two hours every day, and you will have endless work all day! The baby doesn't eat my milk directly. Suck it out with a breast pump in advance every time and put it in the refrigerator. When the baby eats, take it out and eat it while it is hot! So every time the baby is breastfeeding, it is also the time when I am breastfeeding. After the baby was breastfeeding, a series of jobs came to me. Suction-brush the bottle-brush the breast pump-all kinds of disinfection! After this series of work, the baby will wake up soon! For the first five months, I could only sleep for two or three hours every night, and no one helped me! Because my husband said he had to go to work, he couldn't stay up late! That's how my body keeps overdrawing. At the time of physical examination, I was a high-risk group with positive human papillomavirus, and the doctor said it was caused by low immunity! I went to work because I couldn't sleep well for a long time after half a year, but I still wanted to breastfeed my baby, so I went to work with a breast pump and an ice pack on my back every day and sucked milk every three hours in the company. Colleagues next to me don't understand. They say how poor this family is. Come out to work after feeding? I was filled with tears. First of all, they don't understand a mother's heart, that is, it is best to let the baby breastfeed as much as possible! Secondly, I don't want to be abandoned by society in the future and be a full-time mother at home directly! No matter how much money you can earn when you come out to work, at least you are financially independent. You can set an example for your baby in the future! At least you can confidently tell your baby that mom can make money!

As a six-year-old menstrual period, I have to complain about how ugly the child was born, but we actually feel very beautiful. As the saying goes, dogs give birth to dogs and cats give birth to cats. When they grow up, they feel how ugly they were when they were young.

Dabao is 6 years old this year. After six years with her, she witnessed a child grow up slowly. This feeling is wonderful, and it will make you feel that life is precious and magical.

When I was a child, I was very obedient, that is, I ate and slept. When I grew up, I didn't like to sleep.

Many times, I will take her to play. She is a big treasure with a woman's character. She is very tough. Sometimes she is as tough as leather. I want to throw her out. I just want to go out and play. I can't get rid of that kind of thing. Now I don't listen to anything. I need to tell him what to do, but she is still afraid of her parents.

If the child is obedient, the degree of fatigue is ok. If the child is disobedient, a person is super tired. So now I feel particularly sorry for my mother for not being obedient and hitting me when I was a child.

I wish all mothers good health.

You can think of a person who hasn't gone out for three days after major surgery. He has been holding the baby, nursing and changing diapers. He must endure physical discomfort and the gap in his heart. He must solve his three meals a day and eat and drink Lazar. Drinking milk three or four times a night is enough for your headache during the day. You said that it is good to have a small child and a big child. That can only say that you are too young to understand the grinding of older children. "Mom, I'm hungry." "Mom, I'm thirsty." "Mom, I want to go out to play." "Mom ..." You can hear her calling you countless times a day. Of course, he also has quiet times, except sleeping and catching demons. In short, as long as the children are awake, they are either at home or at home. If you have two children, 1+ 1 is definitely greater than 2.

I still remember when I was pregnant with my second child, my boss was only ten months old, so I held him all the time during my pregnancy-when I gave birth to my second child, he was only one and a half years old. So I go out with my boss during pregnancy, and he will come to me for a hug when he is tired. In the second trimester, my body is heavy and my boss won't leave. If I come back from the supermarket, I will not only hold the children, but also carry things. Now my second child is almost two months old, and when I think about those days, my heart is still bleak.

Nowadays, many parents are forced to leave their children in the care of grandparents. What's more, they take their children back to their hometown and let them stay. This can certainly alleviate the pressure of life, but the disadvantages of intergenerational education are inevitable. If you take care of your children, you can let them form good habits from an early age. In addition, young people are full of energy, have strong ability to accept new things and have many channels, so if they take care of their children, they can accept new things more and earlier.

Every old mother is very happy to be with her child every day, watching him grow up day by day and witnessing his growth. Listening to his "mom …" sometimes feels very tired, but his heart is very sweet.

I know this very well. When you are unmarried and have children, although you are filial to your parents and harmless to society, you just don't have that kind of cruelty and tenacity to life. Now that I have children, what I think most every day is what I should do for them. This kid makes me extremely tired every day, but as long as he gives me a smiling face, he will cure all my pains, and I will immediately bring blood back to life.

It is no exaggeration to describe pain and happiness as a person taking care of a baby. Our little family is very special. My parents are in my hometown, and my husband's parents have died. The child was raised by his parents at the age of two and a half, and was taken back after attending kindergarten at the age of two and a half. Her husband is in business, his time is not fixed, and he is very busy. The responsibility of taking care of the children falls on me alone. Fortunately, the unit can take care of it. I can leave early and pick up my children from school at night, but I have to work overtime. However, hard work is hard work, and I am very happy to accompany my children's growth all the time. All the hard work is worth it!