Humorous chat skills, these four practical skills you must master.

It is inevitable that there will be embarrassing situations when people communicate with each other.

At this time, if you know how to use humor to resolve this embarrassment and make a joke, then this tense atmosphere will disappear immediately.

People with a sense of humor can not only spread their unique personal charm and make themselves popular, but also use humor to solve various communication problems that may be encountered in social occasions.

Then how can I cultivate my sense of humor?

The following four methods can at least let you know how to create "humor", even if you can't become a humorous person immediately.

First, there is a tendency to deliberately misinterpret the thinking of the person who caused the accident.

Once we get used to this stereotype, it is difficult for our thinking to turn around and get an unexpected feeling.

This is a useful way to create humor.

For example, a mother is teaching her children to make sentences with the idiom "thriving". Then the child said, "Brother Wang confessed."

This answer will be very surprising.

Because in our fixed thinking, the meaning of "thriving" has nothing to do with the name of a person, but in the eyes of children, the meaning of this idiom has been misinterpreted as a description of an action. This "turn" of thinking can easily surprise us and lead to jokes.

Therefore, if you want to joke like this, you must first have a highly sensitive reaction to "words" and think about the meaning of another dimension from ordinary dialogue.

For example, someone jokingly said to you, "Do you think I am excellent?" You can answer, "Of course, you are excellent. You are particularly good at feeling good about yourself. "

In short, it is the essence of misinterpretation not to understand words according to other people's ideas, but to interpret their own meanings.

Application tip:

1, first understand the meaning of this sentence or this word, and then think about another meaning;

2. Be sensitive to words that may be ambiguous;

3. Say another meaning seriously and create a contrast of thinking;

Second, self-mockery produces humor. In daily life, unexpected things always happen.

When we are faced with these unexpected things, because of the lack of corresponding preparation, we are either embarrassed or don't know how to deal with this situation, which leads to an increasingly bad atmosphere.

At this time, you can use self-mockery to humorously resolve this embarrassing situation.

For example, a university professor with a very popular lecture is often bald.

Once in class, I overheard a student say that he had lost his hair recently. At this rate, he will become a professor. I didn't expect this sentence to be a bit loud and heard by everyone.

At this time, the professor looked at the embarrassed classmate and said, "This classmate, I understand your troubles very well. Who makes us all so "smart"? But sometimes I think that after one year, there is still a lot of money left to buy shampoo, which is a comfort for us! "

After listening to the professor, the awkward atmosphere disappeared.

Therefore, if you know how to laugh at yourself, you can change yourself from passive to active at any time and turn some bad atmosphere into a more positive impression.

Application tip:

1, be sure to keep an optimistic and open-minded attitude and don't care too much about things;

2. Say bad words with positive statements, otherwise it will become self-mockery;

3, it is best to laugh at yourself at the right time, don't laugh at yourself easily;

Third, create suspense and get rid of the burden. There will be a saying of "shaking the burden" in cross talk, which means that after a series of preparations, the suspense built before is finally exposed.

For example:

A couple reunited after years of separation.

Man: "How are you?"

Woman: "good".

Man: "How is he?"

Woman: "Good! What about you? Ok? "

The man replied, "Good".

Woman: "How is she?"

Man: "She just told me that she is fine".

There was a silence.

The woman said, "Have you ever heard of Amway?"

The last sentence of this paragraph is "shaking the burden", which paves the way for all the previous "deep feelings" and suddenly becomes a story of another style, which is unexpected and produces a contrast of thinking.

Many online paragraphs belong to this kind of operation. Here is a formula: paragraph = bedding+burden.

For example, this well-known joke goes like this:

One day, Cao Cao arrested Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei. Cao Cao said, you three go to the orchard, one chooses the same fruit, and you three go in.

After a while, Liu Bei came out with an apple. Cao Cao said to him, you put the picked fruit in your anus, and I will let you go. Liu Bei tried unsuccessfully and was killed.

Guan Yu came out with three grapes and Cao Cao said the same thing to him. When Guan Yu stuffed the third one, he suddenly burst into laughter and was killed.

Guan Yu came to hell, and the Yan asked him, why are you so stupid? If you don't laugh, you'll be fine! Guan Yu said, I don't want to laugh either, but when I stuffed the third one, I watched Zhang Fei come out with a durian …

In daily life, when you are chatting, you create suspense in different ways and arouse the curiosity of the chatting object. Finally, when you shake the baggage, it is easy to create humor and make others laugh.

Application tip:

1, the way to pave the way is not limited to language, but your eyes, expressions and actions can create suspense;

2. Let the audience's thinking go with your bedding, and try to avoid the other party's thinking shaking out the baggage you want to shake out in advance;

3, when speaking, it is best to be serious, as if nothing has happened, don't give people the feeling of telling jokes;

Fourth, exaggerating Lenovo deliberately exaggerates some ordinary things, which will have a funny effect.

It is an exaggeration to say that a man wearing a green hat is a "Hulk".

For example, I just learned that Jack Ma won the title of the richest man in China, and I suddenly felt a little ashamed. I didn't think I was with Maga, and I couldn't surpass him. It seems that I still need to work hard!

This kind of exaggeration requires us to give full play to our associative ability and link irrelevant things together.

Once at a party, a friend of mine lamented how popular he was in college and how many boys pursued him. Unexpectedly, when he left the society, fewer people pursued him.

Another friend of mine comforted: "Maybe they saw the stock market getting worse and worse, and they all withdrew their funds!" " "

This is an exaggerated association.

Through one thing, connect another similar or related thing to produce a humorous contrast, and you will get a joke. This requires that we have accumulated a wealth of knowledge, and only in this way can we think of things that others can't think of.

Application tip:

1, keep a keen imagination of things, find similarities between things, and then make analogies and associations to exaggerate imagination;

2, exaggeration should be appropriate, don't exaggerate easily, otherwise it will give people an untrustworthy feeling;

3, jump out of the inherent thinking, divergent imagination, pull two unrelated things together and establish their own logic;