Why do some people have average looks, but many people think they are handsome?

Some people say that you can obviously rely on your appearance to make a living, but you rely on your talent. Why do you think so highly of me? With a face like mine, how can I rely on my looks? Anyway, I will starve to death based on my appearance. If you look closely at my facial features, eyes, nose, and mouth, no matter how you look at them, they can’t be called perfect, and they can’t be ranked at the top. I racked my brains and can only come up with four words: “Fair features are good.” , but here comes the question, why do you think I’m good-looking? Why do you think I can make a living just by looking good?

You were misled by me, and you don’t know it yet. Let me tell you a scenario. For example, some girls send photos of their boyfriends to their best friends. What do you think? I’ll give you a look. She didn't say anything, and then the girl quickly explained, oh, she's not photogenic. Really, when you meet her, you'll know she's really handsome. I'm not going to lie to you. Another example is that you, who came from the stars, are the same male protagonist. Some people think you are too handsome, too gentle, and too considerate, but some people think you are not good-looking because of your small eyes. These two groups of people may even quarrel. Why do some beauties have such big differences? What's the problem?

Tags, when we like a person, we don’t just like his skin. What we like is the collection of all tags, his academic performance, his ability to make money, his unique voice, and his basketball skills. , his humor, his musical talent, and even a little bit of your cuteness from time to time, all add up to form a complete person.

But the problem is that many tags are only visible to you, because you are the person closest to him, but to others, he just glances at them from a distance, and they find them boring. This is why a best friend can have completely opposite opinions about the same man, because although it is the same photo, what is actually restored in the mind is that both of them are Minjun, isn't it the same? Those who have watched the show think he is a unicorn who has traveled through the millennium. He is handsome, rich, talented, and occasionally a little romantic. But for others who have not watched the show, this one has small eyes, small eyes, and small eyes. Eyes, besides, is Teacher He handsome? Not handsome, just like ordinary people, but I can talk about economics, I can talk about cognition, I can talk about love, I can tell cross talk jokes, I can also tell you the underlying logic of short videos, and slowly you will feel, eh , this guy is really good, quite interesting, he is three-dimensional, do you understand? This is a label