How to chat with girls when we meet for the first time

The first date, whether forced by parents to make a blind date or the first time to formally meet the beloved girl, is more or less "strange". How to deal with the strangeness of the first date is a difficulty for many otaku and straight men.

People who can chat and socialize must know how to say hello. This is the communication habit of China people. Say some unnecessary nonsense on the first date to promote two people to get familiar quickly and adapt to each other's way of speaking and tone.

Example:

"Oh, great! Your dress today is very emotional, beautiful with a hint of sexy ~ "

"I don't know why, I want to laugh when I see you. I always thought you were so cute! "

Second, chat at home.

Greetings quickly eliminated the strangeness of the first date, but our mutual understanding is still in a vague state, which requires us to chat in the next home and establish mutual understanding between the two parties.

Chatting at home has been criticized by many young people, but it can exchange information quickly, which is a very effective cognitive process for the first date.

Examples of negative teaching materials:

"What are you doing as a woman? Go home and do housework! Doing nothing. "

"I don't want you to think, I want me to think."

Third, talk and laugh.

Love and laughter always go hand in hand. If you make a girl smile on the first date, the probability of this girl falling in love with you will increase, so it is also a good idea to prepare some "jokes" in advance.

Telling jokes properly and naturally on the first date will make girls feel better about you.

Example:

"Do you like yourself? What a coincidence! We like the same person! "

"When I first entered school, the whole class introduced themselves. A male student stepped onto the platform: "My name is You Yongzhi, and I like playing chess! "After that, I went on. The next one is a girl. The woman shyly stepped onto the platform and introduced herself with trepidation: "I ... My name is Shakuyaku ... I like swimming ..."

When many brothers pick up girls, my sister doesn't react well. This is because you didn't make a good introduction, didn't think about chatting, and didn't set up the framework of the male god, so you didn't attract the girl from the beginning, and naturally the response behind it was not good. Actually, I didn't understand this before, but I read a book about picking up girls ~ The Complete Works of Lao Wang. This book tells a lot about the dry goods of picking up girls, which puts me on the road to change and improve myself. Now I am surrounded by beautiful women, and I strongly recommend my brothers to read it. There are e-books under Baidu, so it is no small matter to apply what you have learned.