Counselors are the guides of ideological education.

Counselors are the link between schools and students, and they are the people who educate students to be human beings. What counselors say and do affects their students. I combine years of work practice to strengthen the positive guidance to students and cultivate students to establish a correct outlook on life and values from their lives; Be a caring person for students; Pay attention to poor students; Pay attention to mental health education; Summarize the characteristics of students' management methods and work rules, and explain how to do a good job of counselors. [Keywords:] Counselors Student Management Counselors are the backbone of students' ideological and political work. They are full-time engaged in students' ideological education and behavior management. They are an important part of the teaching staff. They are the mentors of every college student's thoughts, study and life, and bear the great responsibility of helping students grow, become talents and succeed. In particular, the implementation of "Opinions of the Central Committee of the State Council on Further Strengthening and Improving Ideological and Political Education for College Students" puts forward new requirements for the role and position of counselors, from a single political guide to a mentor and friend who guides students' growth, and integrates the roles of educators, managers, servers, coordinators and researchers. Therefore, as a communication college and a bridge for students, counselors play a key role in college students' lives. More than five years of student work experience has made me deeply understand that it is not easy to do a good job as a counselor. It contains a lofty sense of mission, responsibility and selflessness, which makes me dedicated. In summing up experience again and again, I also got a lot. Now I will talk about my experience in student management. For freshmen who have just entered the university, they are not mature in physiology and psychology, and their self-adjustment and self-adaptability are weak. In particular, the university is a brand-new environment, which is significantly different from that of primary schools and middle schools in the past. The campus environment, classmates, place of residence, pace of life, learning requirements, interpersonal communication, social activities and so on have all changed dramatically. In this situation, some students will change to varying degrees in different aspects. How can we do a good job in student management, make ourselves a good teacher and friend of students, and constantly guide students to become mature in learning and thinking? First, pay close attention to study, so that students can form the good habit of being diligent and persistent. Learning is the main task of students and the main theme of college students' life. College students' learning is diverse, not only to learn knowledge, but also to master the formation process of scientific knowledge and scientific research methods, and also to keep abreast of the development trends of their major disciplines. However, after entering the university, some students relax and do nothing all day in a relatively relaxed learning environment, lacking autonomy, initiative and enthusiasm, which leads to various bad habits such as slackness in study, laziness in life, mental emptiness and depression, low self-demand and poor independent ability, which bring great resistance to the management of college students. Therefore, the cultivation of college students' study and living habits should be started from the time they enter the school. As a counselor, we should often check classes, keep attendance records, hold regular class meetings, comment on the learning situation, conduct discipline education before the exam, and summarize in time after the exam, so as to urge students to attach importance to learning and educate them to cherish their college time. We should always put learning first and establish a good class style and style of study. At the same time, it will be their lifelong wealth to help students establish the beliefs of autonomous learning, diligent learning, comprehensive learning and lifelong learning. In addition, in view of the common problems in students' study, research groups were set up to break through one by one. For the problems in students' study, we should give timely guidance to help students solve related problems. For example, all majors in our school recruit both arts and sciences, which makes some liberal arts students laborious and even tired of learning when accepting scientific knowledge. This requires coordination with teachers on the one hand to slow down the teaching speed and improve the teaching quality without affecting the teaching process; On the other hand, a science knowledge study group is established to help some liberal arts students. If a series of interference factors are excluded, academic performance will naturally improve. Second, it is one of the important working methods for counselors to give full play to the active role of party member and cadres, cultivate the cooperative consciousness of student cadres and highlight the role of "guidance" in their work. Here, it refers to "guidance", "guidance" and "guidance", which is a harmonious working method, aiming at implementing the educational content more smoothly and allowing students to receive more education and learn more knowledge in a harmonious and harmonious environment. Many counselors, as secretaries of student party branches at the grass-roots level, are responsible for the development of party member College, and can fully mobilize party member's enthusiasm in student management. After sophomore year, many cadres are party member, so it is necessary to gradually form party member cadres to take the lead in the daily work of the class, and form a three-level defense mechanism for party member, cadres and party activists. In the daily management of the class, they can take the lead, actively report the various situations of the class, and maintain the normal teaching order of the school. The counselors can deal with the problems found and responded in time, so that all kinds of emergencies can be eliminated in the bud. For example, in the school's daily safety inspection and hidden danger investigation, party member cadres play an active role, and can actively publicize the knowledge of safety fire prevention and theft prevention, so as to prevent party member dormitory from violating discipline and using high-power electrical appliances. Gradually form an effective mechanism for party member to promote league members, party member to promote party activists, and party member to promote ordinary students to serve students. Through long-term careful guidance to party member cadres, counselors should constantly improve their working methods, cultivate their collective consciousness, and effectively improve their comprehensive abilities in communication, organization and coordination, and positive response. At the same time, it has achieved the effect that students manage students and serve students, which is conducive to improving the self-reliance and self-management ability of cadres in party member. Third, constantly sum up the characteristics and laws of student work and master the methods of student management. With the complicated social development situation, the characteristics of college students are increasingly lacking, especially for the post-9 s students, who are active in thinking and outstanding in personalization. How to carry out student work better and more comprehensively has become a difficulty for counselors. As a counselor, we should not only manage students well, but also educate them well, and learn to make use of the characteristics of post-9 s students to do a good job in student work. 1, take the initiative to understand students. As counselors, we should be "four-minded". Love, carefulness, patience and responsibility. Instructors are required to actively communicate with students and establish various platforms and channels for communication with students. Give them long-term care, really enter their inner world, understand their ideological trends, and become real friends with them outside work. Know yourself and know yourself, and the work will be better. 2. Do a good job of "guiding". Including learning guidance, life guidance, communication guidance, personality guidance, activity guidance and so on. Guide students to improve their ability of self-education and self-management. The key to self-education is to give full play to the exemplary leading role of students' Party organizations, student party member and league members, and actively guide the majority of students to make progress and grow up healthily. Self-management is mainly embodied in advocating good study and living habits, enabling students to better manage their own behaviors and thoughts, strengthening students' recognition and support for school management, and changing passive acceptance of management into active participation in management. 3. Strictly manage the way of speaking. Counselors should not only care, help, encourage, spur, guide and guide students, so as to make the relationship between teachers and students harmonious, but also strictly demand and discipline students. Students who repeatedly make mistakes and refuse to repent should be boldly managed and handled in strict accordance with school rules and regulations. In addition, we should also pay attention to the way of work. College students are mature adults, so they should not criticize in public like children. We should leave enough "face" for them, criticize in private and guide them positively. We should pay more attention to the problem students in life and reduce the rate of violation of discipline. 4. Change the concept of work. Change the concept of work, from management to guiding service. The core of student work is students. Therefore, in order to educate students well, we must respect, care, educate and guide each student to meet the needs of each student's growth and success to the greatest extent. Always take students' happiness as joy, take students' worries as worries, and achieve the educational effect in service. 5. Pay attention to special groups (1) Poor students. In recent years, due to the improvement of the national aid system, the aid to poor students is increasing. How to do fair work in poor students requires our counselors to pay more attention to understanding whether poor students are really poor. We should pay attention to the study and life of students with real family financial difficulties and understand their life and study. Earnestly do a good job in the selection, identification and subsidy of poor students and the arrangement of work-study posts to help them establish a correct outlook on life, values and self-confidence and self-improvement concepts. Concentrate all forces to help students in difficulty, further improve the mutual assistance work, give play to the spirit of mutual assistance and love among students, and promote and improve each other. (2) Children from single-parent and divorced families. With the development of economy and social progress, single-parent and divorced families are increasing year by year. We should fully care about the children of single parents and divorced families, understand students' study and living conditions, guide students to treat life positively, establish the concept of self-reliance, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and cultivate their awareness and perception of society. 6. Mental health education for college students. Under the new situation of reform and opening up and market economy, social competition is becoming increasingly fierce. College students are facing various pressures such as study, life and employment, but they often lack the ability to cope with the pressure. Many college students have psychological problems or psychological obstacles to varying degrees. Academic pressure, poor adaptability to the environment, emotional problems, employment pressure, internet addiction, uncoordinated interpersonal relationships and students' own personality characteristics have become the causes of psychological problems of college students. Learn to analyze the causes of beating students' psychology and formulate corresponding strategies, so as to guide the healthy growth of college students. 7. Do a good job in students' employment guidance. At present, the problem of college students' employment has become the focus of the whole society, and the difficulty of college students' employment has become an indisputable fact. As counselors, we should care about students' employment problems and guide students to do well in the current situation education class and college students' employment guidance class. Strive to open up a new world of employment for graduates, regularly hold special job fairs for college students, strive to create a good job-hunting environment for college students, provide more employment opportunities, and actively guide graduates to have a correct concept of job hunting. At the same time, to strengthen the ideological and political education of graduates, we should educate them on world outlook, outlook on life and values, guide graduates to aim at the employment direction, find out the employment coordinates, and make their professional intentions match the social needs. In view of the situation that college students are prone to psychological obstacles and mental diseases, we should strengthen career guidance to help students face up to reality, find the right direction, and face career choice and employment calmly. Fourth, improve the quality of counselors. In universities, counselors become the first teachers that students contact. From the day when freshmen report for duty to the graduation ceremony when graduation certificates are issued, the counselors are the ones that students have the most contact with. Counselors are also the targets of many students' secret study and unannounced visits. Their words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on students, and even the mental outlook of counselors will affect the level of students' enthusiasm. Therefore, in order to adapt to the multiple and complex roles, counselors need to improve their overall quality, professional ability and humanistic accomplishment in an all-round way, become counselors with "charm" in students' minds, show "noble personality image including high moral character, high knowledge and strong ability" in front of students, and make this image play a subtle role. First of all, as a teacher, a counselor should have a good ethics. Counselors themselves should have excellent qualities, love their jobs, be willing to contribute, work hard, and use their words and deeds to influence students, instead of making repeated requests at will, which will not have the good effect of "behavior preaching". Secondly, counselors should have high political and ideological quality. Counselors should pay close attention to and fully understand the international and domestic current affairs and politics, be good at grasping the hot spots and focal issues at home and abroad, take advantage of the situation, and tell students profound truths in simple terms with real-life examples to improve their ability to distinguish contradictions of different natures and distinguish between right and wrong. Only in this way can we guide and educate students with correct and firm thoughts. Thirdly, counselors, as college staff, must constantly improve their professional ability. Including investigation and research ability, organization and management ability, coordination and communication ability, language expression ability, etc. Only with a solid professional quality can we handle all kinds of complicated problems in student work with ease. Therefore, counselors should strive to improve their work ability according to the new situation.