Tolerance towards vulnerable groups

Some time ago, the circle of friends was filled with stories about all kinds of naughty kids.

I saw someone saying that denying naughty kids means denying who you were, but when I was young, I really Not a naughty kid.

What education did I receive when I was a child?

I go to other people’s houses and sit there honestly. If there are children at home, it’s fun. They are the masters and let others take care of them, even if they are older than me.

Say hello after entering the house, and ask everyone who is there.

You cannot see that other people’s things are good, even if others give them to you.

If you want to eat, you can only eat with your parents’ consent (if you are alone, you have to refuse at least once)

Don’t touch other people’s things casually, not in other rooms except the bathroom. Come in, let you go in and then go in.

When eating, if not everyone is at the table and the elders are starting to eat, they must not use chopsticks

You cannot just pick and eat the dishes you like.

You can’t just choose meat on one plate.

Say thank you when someone adds extra food.

If it is a family with close relatives (grandma, aunts and aunts) who want to help with the work, at least they should help carry the plate and stool before eating, and occasionally help cut vegetables.

So, I was really not a naughty kid when I was young. But everyone at that age will have naughty moments, but I have always been obedient when visiting relatives, because I know that if I do something wrong, I will be scolded by my parents.

I believe that it is not just me, but people of our age and above have been taught this way. We can justifiably criticize naughty children because we have never been naughty children.

There is an example. On the high-speed train, some children were making a lot of noise. A passenger couldn't bear it and asked if it could be quieter. So the child's mother said, Hey, my child, it's normal to have some fun. , understand. So the carriage was filled with the annoying sounds of children.

Here I think of a story my friend told me. When he was a child, his mother took her on a train. She was noisy all the way. His mother repeatedly told him that if he kept his voice down, he would disturb others. , but he didn’t take it seriously, so when he stopped midway, his mother took her out of the car. I understand that you have the desire to speak, so I respect you, but I also have to respect the other people in the car. You can speak as long as you want now. How long? After you finish talking and won't disturb other people, we can buy tickets and leave.

All children have similar natures, the difference is education

In society, we are always subject to the need to understand and give in to the disadvantaged groups,

There was once a restaurant A placard was posted saying, "If you can't take care of your children, please don't bring them to dine." At that time, many mothers on Weibo scolded this restaurant for not understanding the hardships of raising children, but I supported this restaurant. I have a child, and if the child is a naughty child, that is my problem and that of the child. There is no need for other people to pay for the behavior of me and the child.

His mother never used his being a naughty child as a shield for his ignorance.

Some time ago, there was another story about a restaurant in the circle of friends. It was said that a male classmate saw a homeless man in shabby clothes entering the restaurant while eating. He didn't know whether to order food, but was stopped by the waiter and advised him to leave. , the male classmate stopped him angrily, and took out the cash to order a meal for the homeless man, which was recognized by many people. However, many restaurants have such regulations that require diners to be neatly dressed. Breaking the rules because you are a vulnerable group, and eating in an environment that ensures that you do not have a bad impact on others. This is the most basic respect for others.

Recently, the golden scholarship student has lost his hair again. In those days, I believe many students were surprised by some insider information. The national scholarship system is originally a very humane system, but what we see is that some students with scholarships and bursaries buy Apples, wear famous brands, and improve their Quality of life, everyone knows that the original purpose of this money is only to meet the needs of life. Some people say that the poor cannot pursue quality of life. Do they have to live a simple life? This is contrary to the original intention

Public opinion ethics requires caring for vulnerable groups, so who are the vulnerable groups? The old, weak, sick and disabled can be simply and roughly understood as except for healthy men aged 18-48, all are vulnerable groups, then the vulnerable groups in society are the mainstream group,

So I hope these People have something in mind, don't think that you are awesome because the country is pampering you now, it's just tolerance to maintain stability. I especially like kind old ladies and sensible children, and everyone must be the same. Why do we want to protect these people? Because they arouse our desire for protection. They are indeed "weak", so we should also be weak when we are weak. look like. The rambunctious aunt, the naughty kid who goes to the house and the old man who knows martial arts, these people always make us re-examine the "vulnerable groups". Are they really weak? In fact, they are really strong, but They are indeed a vulnerable group, but their physical and mental strength are weaker than that of young people

And the only thing we can do is not to be proud when we become a vulnerable group in some aspects, but to Treat the people around you fairly and don't give in to others at every turn.