How to treat others with a kind heart?

The reason our world is beautiful is because of the existence of kind people. Having a kind heart will sow the seeds of love to the whole world; having a kind heart, our world will never feel dark; having a kind heart, you will always face it with a smile Reality, to win the crown of honor.

As the saying goes: "Good will be rewarded with good, and evil will be rewarded with evil." Kind-hearted people get the rewards they deserve for their kindness, and people who do evil will eventually get the rewards for their ugly hearts. Due retribution. When you are alive, why not show your kind side to everyone, so that you can walk straight in front of everyone? Therefore, people who have achieved great success in the past often regard being kind to others as their purpose of life, in order to establish their integrity. Win the hearts and minds of the people. There is an allusion of "tying a ring with grass" in history. It tells the story of "During the Spring and Autumn Period of Shanxi, Duke Huan of Qin attacked the State of Jin. The Jin army and the Qin army fought in Jin. Wei Ke, the official of Jin, led the army to resist. Wei Ke and Qin General Du Hui met, and the two fought together. After a fierce battle, Wei Ke finally defeated the Qin army and captured the famous Qin general Du Hui. It is said that Wei Ke could not defeat Du Hui, but When they were in a dilemma, Wei Ke suddenly saw an old man tying the grass on the ground into many knots and trapping Du Hui. Du Hui fell to the ground and was captured by Wei Ke on the spot, which made Wei Ke this time However, Wei Ke could not figure out that your father's concubine was wanted to be buried with him when his father was about to die, but you did not do so and instead let her remarry. . You saved my daughter’s life. I have always been grateful to you, so on the battlefield, it turns out that Wei Wuzi, a senior official in the Jin Dynasty, had a concubine who had no son. When he just fell ill, he told his son Wei Ke: " After I die, you must marry her off. " Soon Wei Wuzi was critically ill, and he said to Wei Ke: "After I die, I must let her be buried for me. "When Wei Wuzi died, Wei Ke did not kill the concubine and bury her with him, but married her off. Wei Ke said: "When people are seriously ill, their minds are confused. I will marry her off. , following my father’s instructions when he was sane. "The above is the story of "Knotting Grass". And "Hand Ring" tells another story:

When Yang Bao, the father of Han Yang Zhen, was nine years old, he saw a knotted grass in the north of Huayin Mountain. The injured oriole fell under the tree and was covered with ants. It was about to die. Yang Bao felt sorry for the little oriole, so he rescued it and took it home. He put it in a box and gave it to him every day. It fed the yellow flowers. After a few months, the oriole's feathers became plump and its injuries healed. So Yang Bao let the little oriole go. That night, Yang Bao dreamed of a boy in yellow telling him that it was the messenger of the Queen Mother of the West. In order to thank him for saving his life, he specially gave Yang Bao four white jade rings as gifts, and wished that his descendants would be as pure and innocent as the jade rings for generations to come. After saying this, he turned into a yellow bird. Fly away.

Later, things turned out just as the boy in yellow said. Yang Bao’s son Yang Zhen, grandson Yang Bing, great-grandson Yang Ci, and great-great-grandson Yang Biao all became high-ranking officials. , and they were both upright and honest in their governance. Their virtues were passed down to future generations. Later generations combined "knotting grass" and "holding rings" together, which has been passed down to this day as a metaphor for gratitude and kindness, which will be remembered until death.

Although these two allusions are not necessarily true, they promote the concept of good deeds and good deeds.

There were many similar stories in ancient times. Feudal rulers adopted certain forgiving attitudes and benevolent behaviors towards the common people, and the forms were also varied. Some made people aware of it by doing good deeds, some did good deeds secretly to show gratitude to others, and others abandoned evil and promoted it. People who are good at pleasing others.

According to historical records, King Zhuang of Chu once held a banquet to reward ministers. It was already dark, but the lights suddenly went out. She pulled the clothes of the beauty who was the king of Chuzhuang, and at the same time, the beauty also pulled off the tassel on her official hat. After that, the beauty told the king of Chuzhuang about this, and she also asked the king to order someone to light the lamp. Zhu Lai found out who this minister was.

All travelers have the same feeling, that is: they never feel lonely during the journey, because they have many friends who are always traveling with them, and they all have a kind and warm heart. If kindness and virtue are deeply rooted in everyone's heart and practiced silently, our world will become as beautiful as flowers. Therefore, we must not overlook the small acts of kindness in our daily lives. Each of us longs for warmth and love, which requires us to first open our hearts to give love and care to others, so that love and sunshine will come in by themselves.

Once upon a time, two brothers lived in an attic because the attic was very old. It looked very shabby, and the bedroom they lived in was also very dark and damp. The bedroom windows had to be closed all day long due to their disrepair. The thick, dusty windows prevented sunlight from shining through the glass, and the entire house was dark.

The two brothers were lying on the bed and saw the bright sunshine outside through the gap in the window. They were very envious. How they longed to see a glimmer of sunshine in this dark room. So the two brothers began to discuss, "We can sweep some of the sunshine in from outside, so that we can see the sunshine in the house?" They both clapped their hands and applauded, so they took the broom and dustpan and arrived. I went to the balcony to soak up the sunshine.

They came to the balcony, carefully swept the sunlight from the balcony into the dustpan, and then carefully lifted the dustpan into the attic. But they found that as soon as they walked into the darkness at the top of the stairs. The sunlight disappeared. So they tried again and again and never gave up. However, cleaning again and again and moving carefully were still in vain, and the house was still the same as before. The two brothers began to get confused: Why can't they always sweep the sunlight in? Does this require any experience? At this time, their mother, who was busy in the kitchen, came out and saw their distressed looks, and asked them why they looked so painful. After the children finished speaking, the mother understood and said to them with a smile: "Sunshine is not a real object. Although we can see the sunlight, we cannot touch it. It cannot sweep in. Children, As long as you open the window, it will naturally come in." After hearing this, the two people immediately thought of a way to open the window, and sure enough, the room suddenly became much brighter.

In fact, the same is true for the human heart. The warm sunshine does not need to be swept away deliberately. As long as we open our hearts, you will immediately feel the infinite light and warmth.

Similarly, only kind people know how to love, and if they know love, success and wealth will follow. I believe you can get some inspiration from the following story.

One day, three old men with white beards were talking outside the threshold of a house. The hostess of the house heard someone talking outside, so she opened the door to see. But when she went out, she found that she was strangers to the three old people, but she still warmly invited them to the house for dinner.

The three old men did not step into the threshold because of this. One of the old men asked: "Is the man of your house here?" He is not here, he is out. "The hostess replied.

"Then we can't go in." "The old people answered.

"Why?" The hostess felt very strange.

"We have to wait for your male master to come back before we can go in. "They answered in unison. The hostess had no choice but to close the door and go in.

The husband came back in the evening, but the three old people were still sitting outside the door. The husband told his wife: "Just say I am at home, let me Let them come in. "So, the wife went to invite the three old people.

"We can't go in at the same time. "The old man replied.

"Why? Can you tell me the reason?" The woman was confused.

One of the old men replied: "There are three of us, one named Wealth, one is called success and the other is called love. You first discuss with the male master of your family who should be let in first?"

The woman went in and asked her husband. The husband agreed to let wealth in first, while the woman suggested letting success in first. Theirs The son heard this and suggested that they let Ai in first. The couple thought about it and said, "Then just listen to the son.

So, the woman came outside the house again and asked: "Who is Ai? Please let Ai in first!" Ai got up and walked towards the house, and the other two old men followed him in.

The woman asked Wealth and Success in surprise: "I just invited love, did you say you can't come in together?"

The two old men smiled and replied: "If the first person you invite is Wealth or success, the other two will not come in. But if you invite love first, no matter where he goes, we will follow him. "The family suddenly realized.

It can be seen that if we want to succeed and have more wealth, the love gained from kindness is the most solid foundation. Kindness will make love spread everywhere.

A poet once said: "Violence itself is half as powerful as tenderness. "But the effect of violence is less than half that of compassion. The power of compassion cannot be bought with money.

There is such a story:

One day, A farmer takes his donkey and dog on a trip. The donkey has a heavier task. It carries heavy things. As for the dog, it is easier. Its task is to ensure that the owner and the donkey can stay safe on the road. A safe journey.

At noon, the farmer felt a little tired, so he ate something and lay down in the shade of a nearby tree to rest, but he forgot to feed the donkey and the dog and fell asleep

For the donkey, there is a lot of delicious grass nearby that can give it a full meal, and it is much more delicious than the hay that the farmer feeds it. Therefore, it is happy to be around. The meal started, and the dog could only stand aside and watch the donkey eat with gusto. His stomach growled with hunger, and finally he couldn't stand it anymore, so he wanted to walk around to see if he could get some. Food, but then I thought that my owner was sleeping nearby. If his safety was not guaranteed, then I would be derelict in my duty, so in order not to lose my dignity as a dog, I decided to wait and see.

The poor dog waited and waited, but the owner never woke up. It knew that its food was in the bag on the donkey's back. It finally couldn't stand the torture of hunger, so it decided to wake up the farmer and let him know. He helped himself take out the food from the bag. However, when the dog was about to wake up the farmer, the donkey tried his best to stop it and said noblely: "The master has fallen asleep, you can't wake him up!" As a guard dog, you cannot disturb the owner, understand?" In fact, the donkey had ulterior motives for saying this. It just wanted to make full use of the opportunity to continue eating the fragrant grass. How could it understand the dog's hunger? The donkey continued to eat grass happily, and he was so focused that he didn't even notice that a hungry wolf was quietly approaching it behind him.

After a while, the wolf seized the opportunity and struck out. The donkey jumped over and bit the donkey's leg hard. The donkey screamed in pain. It panicked and hurriedly asked the dog for help. At this time, the dog found an opportunity to retaliate. The dog replied: "It can't be done here." It's time to wake up the owner!" So he pretended not to know. The donkey kept crying and apologized to the dog with tears in his eyes. The dog couldn't bear to see it and sympathized with the donkey's plight, so he got up and drove the wolf away.

In our lives, a person may be tempted by status and wealth, and he may live a comfortable life. However, once they lack compassion, life will become a burden.

Although we all hope that we can have more happiness and joy, this is just wishful thinking about happiness. If you want to be happy, you must have a spirit of self-sacrifice. , because compassion drives you to find happiness.

No one in the world is more compassionate than Charlie Lamm, and many people have heard the terrible stories of his life. When he was 21 years old, his sister killed her mother with a knife in a psychotic rage. From that moment on, he made up his mind to devote his life to his "poor, dearest sister" and voluntarily assumed the responsibility of caring for her. He gave up all thoughts of love and marriage, and therefore refused the only engagement.

Relying on his annual income of less than 100 pounds and his love for his sister, he shouldered the burden of hard life alone. Neither pleasure nor pain could change his determination.

After being released from the mental hospital, his sister spent part of her time writing "The Tales of Shakespeare." Hazlitt said of her: "Although she suffered from mental illness throughout her life and was constantly on the verge of madness, always in danger of relapse, she was the most intelligent woman I have ever met." Whenever she felt psychosis approaching, Charlie would take her in his arms and transport her to Hoxton Mental Hospital as quickly as possible. People were deeply moved to see their brother and sister struggling on such a painful road. Charlie puts his sister under the care of a mental hospital, and once she regains her rationality, she will return to her brother's side. Charlie said: "God loves her very much, and the love between us has never been inferior to God's love." In this way, their relationship lasted for more than forty years. Except for the turmoil caused by her health, there was no interruption. Any waves. Ram fulfilled his responsibilities with nobility and strength, and it was his compassion that sustained him.

Without compassion, people will become indifferent to each other, become indifferent to each other, become rigid and indifferent. Everyone is rushing toward their goals without ever thinking about helping those whose burdens are heavier than our own. Are people really "born selfish"? People are constantly pursuing their own interests and neglecting the pursuit of their own spirit. What value is there in such a life? Therefore, no matter when. Compassion is essential. Give your compassion and you will never regret it, because God will let you experience unexpected surprises inadvertently.

One day, Mrs. Watson was picking up shells at the beach. Suddenly she raised her head and saw a man clinging to a rock alone, almost being swallowed by the sea water. His life was in danger. She didn't know who he was, but she knew that this man was in danger, and her subconscious compassion decided to save him.

Seeing the waves getting higher and higher, lapping the coastline furiously. Obviously, it is very dangerous to save this person in distress at this moment. But Mrs. Watson couldn't care less about this. She begged several boatmen and promised a lot of rewards to those who were willing to go to sea to rescue people. They were hesitant at first, but finally agreed to send a ship. Just when the man's strength was about to run out, they finally reached the rock. They took him into the boat and brought him safely to shore.

What surprised Mrs. Watson was that the person who was rescued was not someone else, but her husband! She is still frightened when she thinks about it now, but her actions were not wrong, and her compassion allowed her to recover. own happiness.

Compassion triumphs over evil. It promotes virtue, melts the most stubborn hearts, and promotes the best parts of human nature.