To "live", you should have capital, and live with confidence forever. Living is your own life.

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Some people say that if you have realized the impermanence of fate, you must read Yu Hua's Living.

Yu Hua wrote in Living: "Nothing is happier than living, and nothing is more difficult than living." Living is a very happy thing, but how to live is your life?

Fu Gui, the hero of Yu Hua's Alive, was originally a rich young master, but he lost all his money because of gambling. The well-fed life has become fragmented, and his life has entered another track.

Father is very angry and his mother is very ill. When he was regarded as a healthy man, his wife raised the child with great pains. I thought the family could live a good life and didn't want my son to donate blood and bleed to death. ...

Finally, his grandson, who lived alone with him, died of eating beans ... At the end of his life, an old cow accompanied him and lived alone.

Fu Gui's life has experienced too many life and death parting, and the understanding of living, in my opinion, is living. As for what is not alive, it may be too far away from him and too "harsh".

Because living itself is a kind of "happiness".

But Fu Gui has his own "life", although the process is not satisfactory.

There are many compromises in life, but today's young people can be themselves more. To live is to be yourself and have your own life.

Always remember that having capital is your greatest confidence. Only by living confidently can we do our own thing and live our own life.

More often, capital is the umbrella of fate.

With capital, you can live as you please. Listen to your inner voice and follow the publicity of your personality. You can give yourself the freedom you want and buy what you want.

It can be said that you can travel and live a happy life. Don't worry too much, but everything needs capital.

The famous movie star Angela Zhang grew up in a poor family. Father failed in business, so that the family's economic situation was very bad. Besides, his father can't work because of a heart attack. As the eldest sister of the family, Angela Zhang naturally shoulders the responsibility of sharing worries and solving problems for the family.

Before the fire broke out, she did some work, such as washing the car and delivering lunch. Until she participated in the singing contest of China Broadcasting Meteor Star, won the first place in the Canadian Division, was taken a fancy to, and successfully signed the contract.

After Zhang became famous, his mother took away all his money. His parents, uncles, grandmothers and others jointly accused him of abandoning his adoptive parents, and claimed that she took drugs with her younger brother and sister. ...

Zhang said, "Never let others threaten you. You must have capital, because after you have capital, no one can threaten you. You live your own life. "

Of course, different people have different understandings of capital. Rich people don't think money is capital, and people with good health don't think health is capital, but only when they have really experienced helplessness will they understand.

Colleague Xiaolan's neighbor is also her sister because of poor family conditions. I have been helping people in the countryside before I came to the company.

She said that her parents never regarded her as a member of this family. She never gave anything to her brother. She can't imagine that her brother has clothes. The money she earned was not her own, and even the opportunity to go to school was deprived. ...

She is a sister. In addition to helping her brother pay tuition and living expenses, she also has to pay for his daily life, washing and cooking ... if she goes too far, all this will not come true.

A chance to have dinner together. She said that she was very tired when she was alive, and felt that she was not living for herself, but for her parents and this family that didn't regard her as family. ...

No one can give you confidence except yourself.

No matter who you are, you can win your confidence by yourself. Modesty has poetry books, which is the confidence brought by knowledge. Spin a thousand silver coins and come back! This is the confidence brought by society and work experience.

Classmate Xiaoying is a confident person who treats anyone and everything.

When she was divided into arts and sciences in high school, her parents advised her girls not to choose science I wish I could be a teacher after graduating from liberal arts. But she didn't listen and chose science.

Because she is confident, on the one hand, she likes scientific and rigorous logical thinking and reasoning ability, on the other hand, she likes to realize this process of her life through her own efforts.

After graduation, she did not enter the job arranged by her parents, but made her own choice again and went to a financial institution. She said: "Life is mine, and work should also be mine. Only in this way can life be emboldened. "

Later, relying on her own ability, she realized "freedom of wealth" when our pockets were tight. She went anywhere, traveled, photographed, learned dance and experienced life.

Now she is more confident, rational and mature. She said: "I used to be afraid of losing my job and being fired; I'm also afraid of being pointed at or having an accident at home.

Now, these are not problems. Because I found my own job, I earn my own money. These are my self-confidence. With self-confidence, I can live a good life. "

When a person is no longer afraid of any change and has the ability to adapt and embrace change, I think this is a person's confidence.

Because you have confidence, you can be a better yourself!