Growing old and living alone

Time flies and time flies by. Looking back again, the past years have been bitter and sweet despite the wind and rain. The night is dark, I can't sleep when I read, I listen to all the beautiful words, and I am no longer leisurely. Looking at the moonlit night sky, I sighed: Now that I am in my forties and decades are passing by, should I cook tea in a small red clay stove or lean on the railing to drink sake? Or paint landscapes with ink, or write all the fireworks in the world? Or play, play, sing and play art, or go on a casual trip? Will he have his children and grandchildren around him and enjoy family happiness, or will he live a solitary life without worries?

Young people don’t know what it’s like to be sad, and they have also set great aspirations. Occasionally, I think that it can only be "a dream of spring flowers, snow, moon, and yellow beams, and a few taels of broken silver is the reality. Fireworks in the world are full of emotions, and all love the prosperity of the world." Life is more than the present, for the poetry and distance in the heart, for the stars and sea in the dream, For the sake of happiness in life, you have the ability to realize your ideals. In middle age, we begin to run around non-stop and repeat the same life: three meals a day, family affairs, work and career, children and wives, but we have no leisure time of our own. We can only think of ourselves in the dead of night when everyone is quiet. Want to be happy.

The gaps between our fingers are too wide and the time is too thin. Maybe we will grow old without knowing it! Just imagine, if that day really comes, how will we live in our old age, how will we choose, and how will we spend the rest of our lives? Some people may say that I like to live an old age with love, make up for past regrets, and strive to find a like-minded wife to create happiness. As Zhang Ailing once said: among millions of people, meet the person you want to meet. For millions of years, in the wilderness where time has no boundaries, there is neither a step earlier nor a step too late. When we meet, we can only say softly: "Are you here too? Three meals and four seasons, love is short and love is long." , is also a good life.

Some people may make the same mistake again, and even put more shackles on themselves. The hard work of their youth has not stopped, and they have started again for their children. The second worldly fireworks. After raising children, I still have to take care of my grandchildren. The savings in my hands are gradually lost in the process of replenishment. The old face has never thought of the life I like, and the tired body is still working for the children. Struggle. Maybe when you are dying, you will still worry about whether your departure will bring pressure to your children?

My love for my son is endless, my clothes are thick with stitches, and my letters home are fresh.

When I see you, I feel pity for you, I call my children to ask about my hardships. I am ashamed of my son, and I dare not sigh in the dust.

Maybe some people can enjoy their old age comfortably while their children grow up. They can live independently and no longer need the help of their parents, but they have time to plan their own lives. In their free time, they can write ink or invite friends to have a drink together; they can write about the fireworks of the world by themselves or have close friends. Talking about the past and present over a cup of tea; you can happily play with your grandchildren, or you can dance with passion in the square; you can re-pursue your youthful dreams to make up for the regrets in your heart, and you can continue to learn and improve your abilities, because the elderly have abilities that young people do not! They have experience and have the courage not to admit defeat; the elderly have wisdom that young people do not have, and they also have the joy of living happily; the elderly have peace that young people do not have, and they also have the ability to challenge themselves. The elderly can watch indifferently! Despite all the problems in life, you can also have the ability to overlook the prosperity of the world!

The sunset is beautiful, and the old age is not inferior to the young.

The fragrance of late osmanthus is not old, and the frosty chrysanthemum is not old.

Who can wear a red mirror, still charming?

In the autumn wind, only the bright and beautiful figure is charming. p>

Maybe some people still live alone as they grow old. Choosing this kind of life may be a self-choice when they were young, or they may have to live like this because their children are unfilial or have no children. They will be lonely, scared, helpless, and have all kinds of unexpected things, but they will have to live alone for various reasons. Facing all the problems in life alone will inevitably cause them problems. How to better face one's loneliness is a practical problem that the elderly must face.

Should you continue to live alone and live in isolation, or should you break through yourself and pursue a meaningful life? Should you find the happiness of living alone and enjoy your loneliness endlessly, or should you give up living alone and find a partner to spend the rest of your life with? Do you remain alone until the end of your life for your dreams, or do you feel lonely when you think about your old life in the dead of night?

Some people live their own happiness even when they are alone, while others are afraid of being alone but dare not challenge themselves. People who live their own happiness have their own career and their own code of conduct. They don't care about other people's opinions and comments, insist on doing what they like and live a free, beautiful, and valuable version of themselves; for those who are afraid of being alone, loneliness is the most real feeling. Because they have not found a way to enrich themselves and have a happy time. Life is like this. Either learn to be alone or learn to adjust your life! No matter what, when one day we grow old, we must have the courage to face every bit of reality.

In your journey, you have never seen my old age! With all your grace gone, I will protect you in the future! As the sun sets, the sky is still covered with red clouds! I am overwhelmed by my youth and lament the endless splendor!