Life with the best of both worlds: fast-paced work and slow-paced life.

Someone once said that you should work hard to make money and be an economically independent girl; It is also said that we should learn to live and be an elegant girl who can live; Some people even say that girls who can make money and live are more attractive. I thought of life, a life with the best of both worlds. For girls, fast-paced work and slow-paced life are the most beautiful gestures in life.

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I don't like to mix work and life, especially friends, classmates or family members who have been together for a long time. I strongly refuse to work in the same company. Many people will think it doesn't matter. Isn't it good to have one more person with me? Once work and life are mixed in any form of getting along, life will inevitably be less challenging and novel. In my dictionary, work is work, which is a form different from life. Active participation in work and life are two completely different worlds.

There was a colleague before. She was a strong woman and the founder of women's life that I admired. In her work, she goes all out, giving and gaining. When I didn't know her at first, I thought she was just a devil who liked to work. I thought she would sacrifice her spare time to make money. Later, I became more and more familiar with her, became the best girlfriend of the company and began to integrate into her life. I found this is a strange woman.

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She has a dog named Diu Diu and a cat named Bell. Every day after work, I will take Diu Diu and hold Bell for a walk, and occasionally get together with friends in groups of three or five. I went to her house several times to play, and with several girls, I faded from my busy state at work. Several people sat together in a down-to-earth and leisurely way, talking and laughing and gossiping.

After we finished eating, she prepared cat food and dog food, watered the flowers, and talked to us all the way, like an old woman living in a mountain forest. It's a very comfortable life. We avoid talking about work, handsome guys and all kinds of entertainment gossip, and our favorite movies and books recently. This girl's world is very strange.

After busy, I saw her pick up the wool and sit knitting a scarf. This is a beautiful knitting method. We froze for a while. She is a versatile woman. She actually enjoys her life.

She said, work hard to make money, because there is a large family waiting for her to raise. At work, she thinks about Didiu, Bell, buys all kinds of clothes and bags by herself and saves money to travel, so the fast-paced work every day is more and more passionate and motivated.

She also said that the life after work belongs to herself completely, and it has become the most colorful aspect of life to put aside all stressful work, watch movies, read books, go out for a walk and get together with friends.

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It is conceivable that this woman who lives a life full of flavor knows how to switch between fast-paced work and slow-paced life skillfully. For us in the world, sometimes we can't help thinking: "A person sitting on a park bench, looking at the sky, trees and people coming and going, imagining what is happening between them, can sit like this for an afternoon, and now I think it is a fairy-like day."

After understanding the meaning of work and life, I find more and more that whether it is reading, traveling or making friends. We should always know more about the world and see its darkness and light, indifference and enthusiasm, mediocrity and glory as much as possible. Maybe the perception is not deep enough, maybe the absorption is not thorough enough, maybe we can't fully accept all the diversity, but this is the only process that can "die without regret". You know, life is too short. Because the world will always be young, and you will eventually grow old.

This is the best life for both. Have a drink, listen to a few songs, read a few pages, warm up, make a phone call, or wait for a good night message. In this rhythm, I feel very fulfilled and feel that life is beautiful. Life doesn't mean shining and thunder. If you have your own careful small stitches, you can sew on the noise all day and dream all night.

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The world is so big that work can't be the whole of life, but life runs through it. A slow-paced life inevitably requires the supervision of a fast-paced life. In this unhurried rhythm change, you will eventually find the meaning of life, and the bright spot of life is getting brighter and brighter, and you will never be afraid of the night again.

There are so many things to do in work and life, just like sesame seeds scattered all over the floor. Fortunately, God is kind and may give you this gift. Then it suddenly dawned on me, as Feng Zikai said, "After so many years, I finally found the characteristics of those people I like. They are always full of energy and have their own favorite things, but they interfere in other people's lives too much, know the boundaries of interpersonal communication, don't show off everything they have everywhere, have gentle words, treat people kindly and have moderate ambitions. It can tolerate the imperfections of life, it can withstand the bumps of the world and take everything in life root in life. "

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Some people say that in recent years, I have been so busy that I just want what I can't get, but I don't know what it is. And this idea that I don't know where it came from has gradually become a kind of oppression, which can only be got rid of through constant work.

At first, I thought it was an impetuous society. Everyone was in a hurry to make progress, so it was difficult to settle down and choose a slow-paced life. I tried to live a slow-paced life, but I showed signs of decadence. I have also tried fast-paced work, and my nerves are always very nervous. If you are not careful, your emotions will explode to the extreme.

Later, I understood what Lao She said, "The heart is a tree, the roots of love and hope are rooted in the soil, and the branches and leaves of wisdom and emotion bloom under the blue sky. Whether it is the wind and rain of the years or the rolling dust covering the green leaves, it always stands there silently waiting, accepting everything, not arrogant, not humble. "

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Those years about life, about work, working for life and living for pursuit will eventually tell themselves the true meaning of life in such a fast-paced and slow-paced transformation.

I have always liked Nietzsche's sentence, "Many people's so-called maturity has just been worn away by customs and become sophisticated and practical." That's not maturity, but premature mental decline and premature death of personality. True maturity should be the formation of unique personality, the discovery of true self, spiritual results and gains. "

Then I think that many people's choice of work and life mode is not only the personality of life, but also the charm of work and the pursuit of the highest spirit.

What about you in the end? Do you understand the true meaning of life and work?